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Just wondering what others think when they read this on a profile ?
To me it screams of desperation like I'm desperate and have no standards ...surley most on here would only meet people they were attracted to?... yes i know personality is very important but lets face it what makes you contact someone in the first place is attraction is it not ?
Dont see it very often if ever on a fems or couples profile mostly single males for some reason just wonderd why ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Defo, although personality is important looks will be the first thing you look for as you can't tell much else through pics can you and you certainly don't fuck someones personality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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deffo looks first for us, if the initial attraction isn't there then we have no chance to find out the personality as it goes no further..maybe we are shallow |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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We think physical attraction isnt everything but goes a long long way.
Age range is where we differ from eachother. Mrs _oma wont meet under 35's yet Mr _oma (typical bloke) would entertain from 25/26 upwards.
But, as i have the final say then Mrs _oma wins hands down LOL  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh there really needs to be an attraction on looks and personality. If that wasnt the case then profile would have no need for photos or text. You could just put Male 26 and then hope for the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we would never meet anyone who stated that on their profile. We are very particular in whom we meet, we need to be physically attracted to the people or unfortunately despite the fact in them having a fantastic personality they arent the people for us. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand why some people would put age and looks unimportant...or less important than other qualities. Some of the most attractive people on here have an ugly attitude unfortunately!!!....(I'm probably just saying that cause they told me to get lost)  |
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" I can understand why some people would put age and looks unimportant...or less important than other qualities. Some of the most attractive people on here have an ugly attitude unfortunately!!!....(I'm probably just saying that cause they told me to get lost) "
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Kinda know what you mean but id prefer someone was with me because they were attracted to me and not just because i said yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yip, agree about someone has to have that certain something, theres nothing quite as satisfying though as, meet a couple with good old "must be 6ft or over" and shorty here meets and gets on like a house on fire with em,lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK but when a guy states that they are say more into the spiritual side of swinging, it doesn't mean they are not also attracted to you. How much are you attracted to them that counts more ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have said personality is a big onus for me.......Looks weren't that inporant as long as I got on...
However,,, I have found recently to my cost that my body doesn't function with friends unless there is a physical attraction.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don,t know how anyvbody can says thats look are not inportant, its the person behind the looks but you canny go up to anyone at the start and start taking to then hoping there going to be funny and good to chat to, but anybody that does,t worry about looks or really anything should just go to brothel and get there fix |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mental stability
personality
looks
cleanliness
creativity
and there is the width of a hair between them "
thin red line between the sane insane then _iew.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"mental stability
personality
looks
cleanliness
creativity
and there is the width of a hair between them
thin red line between the sane insane then _iew.
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indeed, I know first hand.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mental stability
personality
looks
cleanliness
creativity
and there is the width of a hair between them "
mental stability on here _iew - we're all nuts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you have to be attracted to someone physically to want to meet them. Yoou dont say 'god i fancy thier mind' otherwise there would be no problem in people having no pics on their profiles. So definately a physical attraction is required. |
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Sure, looks are important to an extent, but it should never be the be-all & end-all of a decision to meet. Sure we would all love to shag a supermodel, but I would rather have a woman *I* considered attractive and who I got on well as a person than said supermodel. I dont care if she isnt a size 0 blonde, I want attraction that is more than superficial.Thats why its good to get to know people before meeting them, by e mail or whatever.
As for age, it's just a number. People can set their limits(for example if they dont want to sleep with people young/old enough to be their kid/parent)but it is *their* limit,if someone else doesnt want to do that then who cares(or at least who *should* care!). |
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"Sure, looks are important to an extent, but it should never be the be-all & end-all of a decision to meet. Sure we would all love to shag a supermodel, but I would rather have a woman *I* considered attractive and who I got on well as a person than said supermodel. I dont care if she isnt a size 0 blonde, I want attraction that is more than superficial.Thats why its good to get to know people before meeting them, by e mail or whatever.
As for age, it's just a number. People can set their limits(for example if they dont want to sleep with people young/old enough to be their kid/parent)but it is *their* limit,if someone else doesnt want to do that then who cares(or at least who *should* care!)."
well i think age is just as important
i wouldnt shag an 18yr old nor would i shag a 99yr old and honestly dont think many who have this age range on their profile would either so why have it ? |
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Well of course, as I said thats your limit, and your reasons, and I fully respect that. But me, personally, I wouldnt turn away a younger woman/couple that I liked,and got on with. The same for an older woman/couple(OK, so not many real 99 year old people here, but some younger people do put that as their age, so I suppose it helps being included in their searches)
I will admit it is less likely that I may get on with a very young or very old person(s) but I wont rule it out. |
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"Well of course, as I said thats your limit, and your reasons, and I fully respect that. But me, personally, I wouldnt turn away a younger woman/couple that I liked,and got on with. The same for an older woman/couple(OK, so not many real 99 year old people here, but some younger people do put that as their age, so I suppose it helps being included in their searches)
I will admit it is less likely that I may get on with a very young or very old person(s) but I wont rule it out."
most men would shag an 18yr old where as most fems wouldnt thats just the way it is i think its down to morals at the end of the day and personal choice |
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"its down to morals at the end of the day and personal choice "
Absolutely agree..we ALL have our preferences/ideals/morals etc, and who is to criticise us for making those choices. Its not like swinging doesnt get enough flak as it is!!
not sure that *some* women wouldnt shag an 18 year old ...you even get a cool name like "cougar" for it, we just get called "dirty old men"!!! |
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"its down to morals at the end of the day and personal choice
Absolutely agree..we ALL have our preferences/ideals/morals etc, and who is to criticise us for making those choices. Its not like swinging doesnt get enough flak as it is!!
not sure that *some* women wouldnt shag an 18 year old ...you even get a cool name like "cougar" for it, we just get called "dirty old men"!!! "
lol True  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractiveness only goes so far but it doesn't just have to be physical.
Can't say just looks, find a horny/dirty mind does wonders on a meet and had some fantastic meets with people that are maybe classed as less or not attractive by others (puts his flak gear on lol) but even found that the personality behind the dirty mind can be a put off sometimes and I'm sure that works with the physical attraction too.
Maybe I'm just being too fussy or thinking about it way too much lol
Sure there are horny folks out there that don't mind the age, looks, gender, sex, sexuality or situation (1 on 1 or group etc) as the sex/fun is all that's important and it's the sharing the moment with another person/people that counts.
Serious minefield here lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what others think when they read this on a profile ?
To me it screams of desperation like I'm desperate and have no standards ...surley most on here would only meet people they were attracted to?... yes i know personality is very important but lets face it what makes you contact someone in the first place is attraction is it not ?
Dont see it very often if ever on a fems or couples profile mostly single males for some reason just wonderd why ?
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I had a message from someone like this recently so naturally i asked why and they said 'all bodies feel good when having sex' I was like errrr... 
I'm in no doubt i have to be attracted to someone one way or another - sometimes someone you wouldn't think of can blow you away with their sense of humour. Not literally i hope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now this is where if you did not think so already you would come to the conclusion that trannys are complete sluts, but to many of us looks and age are completely immaterial. Note I did say "to many of us" before the _omance queens start squealing.
If we are meeting men , we do not have to be attracted to the guy in the slightest . Most of the time we have no idea what he looks like as most guys here have no pics. All we go on is whether he has a big willy , that he can get up(loads cant) and our experience in guessing he is clean and not an axe murderer.
You have to remember however that all trannys (this time I did say "all trannys" ) are barking mad, even the sane ones like me. So what do we know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who are you calling a _omance queen ya big slut x? (Note-I've met Wendy and she's fun but barking mad as we all are). Just for the record I'm in the category that never meets these days without seeing a picture and I need to like what I see - although in a group on all 4s facing forward with a mouth full-can be different lol |
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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago
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Always looks and build for us first hand as a profile cant let you into they personality its socially meeting them that does that and then if they have ugly personalities its down to you to say no chance or yes pls but ppl who say looks dont matter screams to us desparation coz if a cpl that we met were proper munters but great ppl we would make the effort to stay freinds but as for play m8s itll be a flat no chance ,there has to be a phisicall attraction for us from the outset |
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