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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free "
Obviously just chancing their luck. I seen a lady who Was offering to cook xmas dinner for anyone who was free and wanted fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free "
Maybe they think if you're on you're more vulnerable to meeting... they don't perhaps realise you could be checking in with friends or just having a quick perv on your phone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah exactly the same here, all these bloody single fems and couples emailing constantly!! Don't they know that they aren't allowed to use the website in the same manner on certain days.....
Come on op, come down from that horse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lot of chancers on here but maybe a lot of people with no family and just looking for a bit of company on a lonely day "
Fair point but if they read profiles they would know roughly who's free or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on chatting to someone and they weren't for me, I said so straight away they tried to use the excuse of it being Christmas to persuade me to change my mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah exactly the same here, all these bloody single fems and couples emailing constantly!! Don't they know that they aren't allowed to use the website in the same manner on certain days.....
Come on op, come down from that horse"
How is she up on a horse?? It was christmas day if she wanted a meet she probably would have advertised for one... i got a few messages myself and when i said no thanks was spending the day with family one actually said what about when everyone is sleeping  seriously no wonder ive stopped meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was spending time with family like most on here how is that me being on a high horse exactly??"
Posting about it and greeting to the site just looking to bash on the single guys makes it so. Come on really, it's hardly anything to rant about. People asked you to meet, wow. I, like you, was also busy with family and friends but not everyone is, I seen updates by couples looking for xmas morning fun amongst others.
God forbid someone emails you on the days your busy washing your hair...
Anyway no reason to argue, have a cracking Boxing Day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasn't really looking to bash single males exactly I was just shocked and surprised that anyone would be asking on Christmas day however take it as you will you seem to have made your mind up anyway |
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"Lot of chancers on here but maybe a lot of people with no family and just looking for a bit of company on a lonely day
Fair point but if they read profiles they would know roughly who's free or not"
just read your profile and to be fair I understand where you are coming from now |
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I can understand people saying it's a family day and they aren't looking for meets, it's the same for me, but given it's a day for spending with family why even bother logging into a swingers site? Surely there's not a need to check the site every single day? |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now...... |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free "
It's Boxing Day now though so...  |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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to some, Xmas day is just another day. Not everyone celebrates it. . I love Xmas, yes it's a family day, but I'm not against anyone messaging anyone else just cause its 25th Dec.
You decide not to meet on Xmas day, give everyone else the choice to meet or not too.
Fab is an open door 24/7. . . 365
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gives a toss?
I wasn't personally free yesterday but obviously some guys were! I also saw some females/couples advertising for meets yesterday!
Are those mental bastards included in this thread or are you going to make their own special one?! |
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Live and let live! Simple...
You want to meet on Christmas day?
Log on and off while cooking the turkey?
Log on when Granpa is ranting about mobile phones???
Please do so! It is 'your' life!
You owe noone an explanation.
You want to judge?
Please do so! It is 'your' prerogative!
This is a site for everyone!
Please add a drop of tolerance and understanding in your next beverage of choice!
The OP was saying how surprised 'she' was!
She is allowed to be surprised, no?!
That's 'my' rant over
Happy Boxing Day to you all whatever you choose to do!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......"
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok "
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just swing the way it suits you, with people who suit you and on days that suit you both.....
Others will do it the way it suits them. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Just swing the way it suits you, with people who suit you and on days that suit you both.....
Others will do it the way it suits them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok "
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning?? "
Circle complete! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning?? "
So if I moan it's not ok, but it's ok for you to moan?
Am I missing something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear has the xmas spirt on here disappeared already ? My xmas was a family tging but i did nip on here quickly couple times coz not all are lucky to have family to spend xmas with maybe thats why some were looking for a festive meet coz xmas can be a very lonely time alone i can imagine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hmmm wasn't my intention for this to get moany I just popped on a couple of times to wish friends happy Christmas as I have no other way of contacting them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning??
So if I moan it's not ok, but it's ok for you to moan?
Am I missing something? "
It wasn't a moan I was shocked about it that's all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free
Obviously just chancing their luck. I seen a lady who Was offering to cook xmas dinner for anyone who was free and wanted fun. "
Aye right.....  |
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By *lorryMan
over a year ago
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"Oh dear has the xmas spirt on here disappeared already ? My xmas was a family tging but i did nip on here quickly couple times coz not all are lucky to have family to spend xmas with maybe thats why some were looking for a festive meet coz xmas can be a very lonely time alone i can imagine "
. What a lovely message xxx |
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"Was extremely shocked at the amount of males messaging for meets yesterday and that's me with filters on they must know it's a family day an very few will be free "
This is true op but a little thought for those not spending time with family wouldnt go a miss.
Not all are fortunate to do that sadly.
I didnt log on at all yesterday yet I too had meet requests for yesterday and for today .
A simple no thank you or just delete and ignore would be the best thing to do .
Hope you had a lovely Christmas xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning??
So if I moan it's not ok, but it's ok for you to moan?
Am I missing something? "
I never moaned |
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By _vbride1963Find posts by _vbride1963 TV/TS
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It's bad enough that there are loads more guys than gals on here say ten to one or higher if those gorgeous gals are logging on when not really wanting to meet that would mean the ratio sky rockets to nearer a hundred to one . I mean all the guys are ready freshly showered ready to meet with wine and/ or chocolate suitably attired in suit or high viz & rigger boots . ( please insert your tongue firmly in cheek emoji )
The site is more than a swingers/sex site nowadays folk are free to use as they wish I've had some strange pm's last few days I think it's the increased alcohol intake seasons greetings and best wishes for the new year everyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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By _vbride1963Find posts by _vbride1963 TV/TS
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It's bad enough that there are loads more guys than gals on here say ten to one or higher if those gorgeous gals are logging on when not really wanting to meet that would mean the ratio sky rockets to nearer a hundred to one . I mean all the guys are ready freshly showered ready to meet with wine and/ or chocolate suitably attired in suit or high viz & rigger boots . ( please insert your tongue firmly in cheek emoji )
The site is more than a swingers/sex site nowadays folk are free to use as they wish I've had some strange pm's last few days I think it's the increased alcohol intake seasons greetings and best wishes for the new year everyone
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Strange PMs ? 
Sorry Steph |
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The site is more than a swingers/sex site nowadays folk are free to use as they wish I've had some strange pm's last few days I think it's the increased alcohol intake seasons greetings and best wishes for the new year everyone
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I'm not sure that's quite true to be honest. I think it's still very much a swingers/sex site but the _iew in this forum is probably skewed a little as it has quite a few people who attend the same club and know each other so it has become more of a social thing in here for them. But if I remember correctly less than 1% of members use the forums (think it might be 0.3%) so I wouldn't say this is in anyway representative of the site as a whole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*pops in to dust everyone with seasonal live and let live dust and give out post Christmas snogs... are ya all ready for doing it all again at New Year?I mean the family/eat drink and be merry/have a meet thing... tick whichever option you prefer ?? Just try and remember we are all different and allowed to express that... what I find baffling is the approach in voicing that difference. Is it so hard to answer a post with an enlightening attitude expressing an alternative thought process tactfully???
*Twirls back oot to post a meet for Hogmanay (in between first footing family and friends ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't really looking to bash single males exactly I was just shocked and surprised that anyone would be asking on Christmas day however take it as you will you seem to have made your mind up anyway"
Just because you have plans on xmas doesnt mean everyone does a simple reply of "no thanks im spending today with family" would have been perfect instead of a forum post.....not everyone has family to spend the holidays with.....i hope you had/have a good time.over the holidays
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"If I thought every guy was waiting suited & booted then I might be easier persuaded "
Yes but unfortunately too often they aren't and it's up to us girls to ensure we always carry protection with us.
New Year's resolution for guys - buy condoms! Show a bit of respect. |
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"If I thought every guy was waiting suited & booted then I might be easier persuaded
Yes but unfortunately too often they aren't and it's up to us girls to ensure we always carry protection with us.
New Year's resolution for guys - buy condoms! Show a bit of respect. "
think you've possibly taken my comment the wrong way .
I actually mean guys wearing suits lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah fuck it all, it's the festive period so let's get the good vibes into this thread.
Op, hope your xmas was ace alongside every other poster. Look forward to lots of fun in 2017 |
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"If I thought every guy was waiting suited & booted then I might be easier persuaded
Yes but unfortunately too often they aren't and it's up to us girls to ensure we always carry protection with us.
New Year's resolution for guys - buy condoms! Show a bit of respect. "
lol its a two way street if anything both parties should have them. Its easy to blame it on the guy but its both partys who want the protection they offer. So for me playing the martyr dosnt work |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site, you're not exactly "so busy" with family.
Plenty of people would have been looking for meets yesterday, just as they would any other day.
Can we close this thread now......
Why?? People are allowed to voice opinions just because they dont match your opinion the thread should be closed?? Aye ok
People are allowed to meet on whatever day they want just because they want to meet on a day that you don't want to, you think that warrants a whiney arse thread about it?? Aye ok
Just like your whiney arse post moaning about people moaning?? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ah fuck it all, it's the festive period so let's get the good vibes into this thread.
Op, hope your xmas was ace alongside every other poster. Look forward to lots of fun in 2017 "
Yes thanks I did hope you did too! |
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