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Do people expect to much on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ie just to be able to meet at a drop of a hat.
Very little chat instant shag.
Dont read your profile.it's very obvious from messages
Think your on here 24 hrs and do nothing eles.
Or no need for any connection a shag is a shag mentality.
What you effort you put in is what you get out of it.
Could be there is so few single females to males on here.the volume of messages received.gives this view ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ie just to be able to meet at a drop of a hat.
Very little chat instant shag.
Dont read your profile.it's very obvious from messages
Think your on here 24 hrs and do nothing eles.
Or no need for any connection a shag is a shag mentality.
What you effort you put in is what you get out of it.
Could be there is so few single females to males on here.the volume of messages received.gives this view ?"
I can agree with that more guys than ladies. Its tough out there |
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Yes they do.
They expect it all for very little or no effort as well. However I think the majority with this attitude dont get anywhere, it is funny when they moan about the site and call everyone else timewasters....
I do ok, but then again if i message someone i send a decent length polite message and im willing to have a no strings social meet. Its amazing how many stop sending you the pishy one liner messages when you say any first meet will probably be non play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't think it's difficult... what is astounding is that in in a new millenum never mind a new century it would appear that the mindset of some people (that's males/females/couples et al) is so inane.
The site is now used by some as a sex site not a swingers site, however it is now widely accepted that is is to be used by each person as they see fit.
Most of us prefer a connection (yes it can still be nsa), humour, respect, intelligent interaction and a host of other grown up things that seem to get lost in the juvenile interactions of those who think they have found somewhere that will fulfil their biggest sexual fantasies for the minimum effort.
The biggest disappointment in all of that is the lack of manners in searching for it.
In saying all that the site does pretty damn well in providing both a place to do it and the tools to do it with.
In addressing the problems using it... as Bunkie said... some aspects (and people) will never change but we can all do our little bit to try via our replies to messages and the forums etc.
Happy Fabbing all
Twinkle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they do.
They expect it all for very little or no effort as well. However I think the majority with this attitude dont get anywhere, it is funny when they moan about the site and call everyone else timewasters....
I do ok, but then again if i message someone i send a decent length polite message and im willing to have a no strings social meet. Its amazing how many stop sending you the pishy one liner messages when you say any first meet will probably be non play "
Well said Jojo   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally don't think it's difficult... what is astounding is that in in a new millenum never mind a new century it would appear that the mindset of some people (that's males/females/couples et al) is so inane.
The site is now used by some as a sex site not a swingers site, however it is now widely accepted that is is to be used by each person as they see fit.
Most of us prefer a connection (yes it can still be nsa), humour, respect, intelligent interaction and a host of other grown up things that seem to get lost in the juvenile interactions of those who think they have found somewhere that will fulfil their biggest sexual fantasies for the minimum effort.
The biggest disappointment in all of that is the lack of manners in searching for it.
In saying all that the site does pretty damn well in providing both a place to do it and the tools to do it with.
In addressing the problems using it... as Bunkie said... some aspects (and people) will never change but we can all do our little bit to try via our replies to messages and the forums etc.
Happy Fabbing all
Twinkle "
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"I personally don't think it's difficult... what is astounding is that in in a new millenum never mind a new century it would appear that the mindset of some people (that's males/females/couples et al) is so inane.
The site is now used by some as a sex site not a swingers site, however it is now widely accepted that is is to be used by each person as they see fit.
Most of us prefer a connection (yes it can still be nsa), humour, respect, intelligent interaction and a host of other grown up things that seem to get lost in the juvenile interactions of those who think they have found somewhere that will fulfil their biggest sexual fantasies for the minimum effort.
The biggest disappointment in all of that is the lack of manners in searching for it.
In saying all that the site does pretty damn well in providing both a place to do it and the tools to do it with.
In addressing the problems using it... as Bunkie said... some aspects (and people) will never change but we can all do our little bit to try via our replies to messages and the forums etc.
Happy Fabbing all
Twinkle "
What she said but with bad English and a French accent
And I would add that I have seen similar attitude from some in Clubs!
You want a 3some??
Oh well... Shall we start with Hi and your name??? Am a slut with manners  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't think it's difficult... what is astounding is that in in a new millenum never mind a new century it would appear that the mindset of some people (that's males/females/couples et al) is so inane.
The site is now used by some as a sex site not a swingers site, however it is now widely accepted that is is to be used by each person as they see fit.
Most of us prefer a connection (yes it can still be nsa), humour, respect, intelligent interaction and a host of other grown up things that seem to get lost in the juvenile interactions of those who think they have found somewhere that will fulfil their biggest sexual fantasies for the minimum effort.
The biggest disappointment in all of that is the lack of manners in searching for it.
In saying all that the site does pretty damn well in providing both a place to do it and the tools to do it with.
In addressing the problems using it... as Bunkie said... some aspects (and people) will never change but we can all do our little bit to try via our replies to messages and the forums etc.
Happy Fabbing all
Twinkle
What she said but with bad English and a French accent
And I would add that I have seen similar attitude from some in Clubs!
You want a 3some??
Oh well... Shall we start with Hi and your name??? Am a slut with manners "
I can vouch for all of that lolol Thanks Petit Pois xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe... 
Who would do that?  "
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya... |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya... "
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya...
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1 "
Temp calls you a few different wans...
ah mean like, darling, sexybreeks, stallion etc etc |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya...
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1
Temp calls you a few different wans...
ah mean like, darling, sexybreeks, stallion etc etc "
She's not the only 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya...
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1
Temp calls you a few different wans...
ah mean like, darling, sexybreeks, stallion etc etc
She's not the only 1 "
pmsl ohhh kin imagine Librabreeks  |
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"I personally don't think it's difficult... what is astounding is that in in a new millenum never mind a new century it would appear that the mindset of some people (that's males/females/couples et al) is so inane.
The site is now used by some as a sex site not a swingers site, however it is now widely accepted that is is to be used by each person as they see fit.
Most of us prefer a connection (yes it can still be nsa), humour, respect, intelligent interaction and a host of other grown up things that seem to get lost in the juvenile interactions of those who think they have found somewhere that will fulfil their biggest sexual fantasies for the minimum effort.
The biggest disappointment in all of that is the lack of manners in searching for it.
In saying all that the site does pretty damn well in providing both a place to do it and the tools to do it with.
In addressing the problems using it... as Bunkie said... some aspects (and people) will never change but we can all do our little bit to try via our replies to messages and the forums etc.
Happy Fabbing all
Twinkle
What she said but with bad English and a French accent
And I would add that I have seen similar attitude from some in Clubs!
You want a 3some??
Oh well... Shall we start with Hi and your name??? Am a slut with manners
I can vouch for all of that lolol Thanks Petit Pois xxxxx "
Lol Rouge xxx |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya...
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1
Temp calls you a few different wans...
ah mean like, darling, sexybreeks, stallion etc etc
She's not the only 1
pmsl ohhh kin imagine Librabreeks "
Bastard when he won't buy her new shoes. 
Shitbag for not buying her the dog she wants 
Miserable git for not taking her out 
Am I getting warmer Bunkie? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Not many of us left doing the time
Is it not that some have just changed name ... mebbe...
Who would do that?
Ermmm... ermmm... ermmm.... ah will get back to ya...
Not me ...stuck with same name since day 1
Temp calls you a few different wans...
ah mean like, darling, sexybreeks, stallion etc etc
She's not the only 1
pmsl ohhh kin imagine Librabreeks
Bastard when he won't buy her new shoes.
Shitbag for not buying her the dog she wants
Miserable git for not taking her out
Am I getting warmer Bunkie? "
Not at all she got hunners of shoes ...she getting the dog she wants soon and she wiz out last week |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
As I said on another thread, if it was mandotory to have decent profile blurb and decent pics, I'd imagine most women would be more proactive and able to ignore the one's with a one line profile and either no profile pics or a cock pic.
Unfortunately the one's that think this is a fuck and go site are the one's with the above and then resort to calling the site shit and the women timewasters, because we ignored the crap message they sent because they seem to think this is really just an order a free prostitute site |
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