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over a year ago
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others? |
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
comfort sex hmmm not sure Id word it that way .
But its fine to still have sexual wants and needs after someone you have loved has passed away
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex
Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others?"
No it is just a question |
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex
Just curious....will it make a difference to whether *you* think it's right or wrong based on the responses of others?
No it is just a question "
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex comfort sex hmmm not sure Id word it that way .
But its fine to still have sexual wants and needs after someone you have loved has passed away
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Yeah I'm not to good at using the correct words and often get it wrong |
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
Absolutely not, get on with living your life.  |
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By *onniemMan
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Not uncommon actually. A bit random but NYC saw a huge baby boom 9 months after 9/11. Reckon that mourning/comforting sex was rife in the city immediately after the attack. Who is anyone to judge? All different. Wrong thought I've had is how hot women look in black at funerals  |
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No a dont think so atall every one has there own way of coping and by the sounds of it you are just wanting some human contact if you get what am saying? Dosnt matter if people think ots wrong anyway you just do whatever makes you happy  |
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"Ok I know everyone is different so would like to know what you'll think.
If you are suffering a recent family loss is it wrong to want comfort/sex "
No,it is not wrong. There is no deeper form of closeness. It can also help with emotional release.
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I had sex with my partner the night my father died.
It was one of those times when I can genuinely say we made love rather than fucked, I needed to feel that comfort and connection.
If you've had a loss then do whatever you can to find comfort x |
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You could argue many things here... needing to feel close to someone... not saying sex equals closeness but it is intense and is losing someone. Going deeper sex is the act of creating life which in turn is part of a cycle... life and death are two sides to one coin... overall OP you will get a host of yes/no opinions... the only one that counts is in your own heart.
So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx |
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For most people any sense of loss/bereavement is difficult and a natural response is to seek comfort though either an emotional or physical bond, sex being an obvious answer to either or in some cases both. |
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"You could argue many things here... needing to feel close to someone... not saying sex equals closeness but it is intense and is losing someone. Going deeper sex is the act of creating life which in turn is part of a cycle... life and death are two sides to one coin... overall OP you will get a host of yes/no opinions... the only one that counts is in your own heart.
So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx"
It was with someone I've known for over 3 years just made me feel bad because he said I was sick for meeting him |
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"You could argue many things here... needing to feel close to someone... not saying sex equals closeness but it is intense and is losing someone. Going deeper sex is the act of creating life which in turn is part of a cycle... life and death are two sides to one coin... overall OP you will get a host of yes/no opinions... the only one that counts is in your own heart.
So sorry you've lost someone close btw, that is always hard. Be kind to yourself, they would want that xxx
It was with someone I've known for over 3 years just made me feel bad because he said I was sick for meeting him "
People often say things they don't mean and for many reasons... maybe because they are hurt themselves.. if you knew him for three years then you both shared things... people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime... be happy you cared for each other even if you didn't always get it right (just speculating there xxx) remember the good and don't beat yourself up about anything else. We are all fallible... it's called being human xxx |
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