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How difficult for couple meet
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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The difficulty with couple meets is the more people involved have to like the look of each other. Sometimes we personally find I (fem) like the look of the other couple but male half not so much or vice versa. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When on as a couple and could accommodate we also found it very difficult...we just assumed it was us.
However as a single bi female open to meeting couples I still struggle...maybe it's just me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are having the same problem, but its more to do with fitting in meets with any spare time from family life on both sides
But it does make you wonder if the problem is with yourself |
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Like others have said hard to get diaries to match, attraction etc...
But mid-week is also a school night. Not everyone can get a babysitter during the week.
Also, people have the usual family commitments like footy, dancing etc...
Lots of stuff to juggle mid-week for some people.
Fingers crossed for you Mrs xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this hard to believe coming from Edinburgh or central belt! Dundee or Perth not great but Edinburgh and Glasgow good. Bruce and I always had many replies whenxwe.posted a meet and he is bi curious. We were always in the Glasgow area however in hotels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can and do meet midweek. But it is a great deal of hard work as with any meet. Have to like the look of the folk, do we all match the likes, and there is less choice if you like through the week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep - it can be rather tricky and it's not the problem getting the messages from couples.
Its fancying them both thats the problem for me!
I need to meet socially first in any case and get to know the couple to chat to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its a straight forward guy with girl then all then need to do is get on.
With a couple and a girl you have 3 people gotta get on and with a couple meeting a couple, you then have four people who all have to like each other, so it can be harder.
Plus midweek is harder as a lot of couples have kids, so they then have to arrange babysitter
But just prevail, I'm sure it would happen
XxX peter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck  "
Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck
Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids...."
totally agree 
Infact over xmas period trying to have fun with a cpl or a girl is almost impossible although it may happed but usually just luck at the right place at the right time
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe have better luck over the Xmas period OP with a lot of folk on 2 weeks holiday. Good luck
Its actually worse - couples tend to have kids at home, either their own or family relations kids...."
Fair enough,was only going by my own past experienceos as both a single and as a couple and by plans organised for this years xmas period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs clubs and more clubs is our advice. They may not be everyone thing but personally we think the site is less than useless for meets. In 5-6 years on here we've had 1 meet purely organised through the site. Clubs essentially act as the initial social for us. We speak to people get to know them a bit and take it from there. Even if you meet folk and it never evolves to play or you go on a night and you don't find anyone suitable you can still have a good night socially |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have the opposite issue .. weekend I have different priorities and not always in town so mid week between university, studies and work we are inundated with requests. .. We will send some your way if we are unable to oblige |
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"Clubs clubs and more clubs is our advice. They may not be everyone thing but personally we think the site is less than useless for meets. In 5-6 years on here we've had 1 meet purely organised through the site. Clubs essentially act as the initial social for us. We speak to people get to know them a bit and take it from there. Even if you meet folk and it never evolves to play or you go on a night and you don't find anyone suitable you can still have a good night socially "
Yep we have met one couple form here. (And to be fair we saw them on cam in the chat room). It's club meets and connections. People who are willing to get of their arse and not just be a keyboard Kevin |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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I think it's probably the midweek part that's the biggest problem as there are loads of couples on here looking for meets. If everyone is working though then midweek could be pretty tricky. I know for us we like to make a big deal of our meets so it's usually a night out with a few drinks first and that means it's always a weekend for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might just be timing.
We can only really meet Saturday nights as thats the only night we don't have our boys, but can't accomodate as our 18yr old comes and goes as she pleases.
As for midweek, we rarely have a day off together as I'm at college f/t and currently working 2 p/t jobs, and Mr works f/t so our schedules generally clash.
I wouldn't take it personally, these things are usually worth the wait x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If its a straight forward guy with girl then all then need to do is get on.
With a couple and a girl you have 3 people gotta get on and with a couple meeting a couple, you then have four people who all have to like each other, so it can be harder.
Plus midweek is harder as a lot of couples have kids, so they then have to arrange babysitter
But just prevail, I'm sure it would happen
XxX peter "
Aww hirsey shame you're no bi , Christine xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I need the doating grandparents to have their grandkiddies more often so i can at least arrange a meet lol. Hopefully in the new year sitters can be sorted xxxx"
Deffo a must guys xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When on as a couple and could accommodate we also found it very difficult...we just assumed it was us.
However as a single bi female open to meeting couples I still struggle...maybe it's just me "
It's not just you, something happened in fab, I know what but he'll if I know how to fix it or even explain it. |
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Yes completely agree hard to meet a genuine couple on site. Plus the midweek meet is hard if working.
We have often put a meet up for a Saturday but never get replies from couples, we discussed this and came to conclusion that as we stipulate a social meet first this may put many off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clubs clubs and more clubs is our advice. They may not be everyone thing but personally we think the site is less than useless for meets. In 5-6 years on here we've had 1 meet purely organised through the site. Clubs essentially act as the initial social for us. We speak to people get to know them a bit and take it from there. Even if you meet folk and it never evolves to play or you go on a night and you don't find anyone suitable you can still have a good night socially "
That sounds like some good advice... now to find some socials |
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