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Forum posts and posters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is there ever anything new written on here and how often is there new posters

It's the same dung every week, face pic Friday, kiss fuck avoid, cjs this week, what's the shoebox like, shaven or unshaven. It's strange that the same people always comment on it as well, it's like Groundhog Day.

The forum clique really need to give new posters a break and stop being nasty to people not in the crowd or they will drive themselves crazy with the repetitive nature of the forum

Thanks

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

You're feeling better?? Now that's off your chest??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Popcorn and tin hat time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Threads and themes come and go

People come and go

Nice status

Too many fakes and fatties

original

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Popcorn and tin hat time

He's leaving anyway too many fakes and fatties apparently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Popcorn and tin hat time

Can I share ohh my

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yip I'm off have a nice Xmas lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do love a hissy fit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Popcorn and tin hat time

He's leaving anyway too many fakes and fatties apparently

Max you fancy a doughnut

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Yip I'm off have a nice Xmas lol "

See you boxing day with a new profile lol

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Popcorn and tin hat time

He's leaving anyway too many fakes and fatties apparently

Max you fancy a doughnut

Two would be better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Popcorn and tin hat time

He's leaving anyway too many fakes and fatties apparently

I'm not fat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Popcorn and tin hat time

He's leaving anyway too many fakes and fatties apparently

Max you fancy a doughnut

Two would be better

Usual pink and sugary yummy

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

As a flounce, 5/10

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yip I'm off have a nice Xmas lol "
maybe Santa will bring you some bloody manners ohh he's gone aww well

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like I say if you cannae take the heat get oot the kitchen.

See ya when you cooled doon OP lol new profile of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a flounce, 5/10

generous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a flounce, 5/10

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"As a flounce, 5/10

They come........they go!!!

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"As a flounce, 5/10

They come........they go!!!

They will be back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair dude is kinda right for better or worse nearly all the posts on the forum are the same recycled threads and it really is just the same 20-30 people posting on each thread. It is what it is no need to throw the toys out over it

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"To be fair dude is kinda right for better or worse nearly all the posts on the forum are the same recycled threads and it really is just the same 20-30 people posting on each thread. It is what it is no need to throw the toys out over it

There are other forums that some of us post in too. As this is for Scotland it already has a limited number of people who are interested in the topics. Sometimes there are great posts which raise interesting issues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are other forums that some of us post in too. As this is for Scotland it already has a limited number of people who are interested in the topics. Sometimes there are great posts which raise interesting issues."

I never said there wasn't

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

Would love more people to get involved ..there are alot of people reading the forums who dont participate..we are a friendly bunch..well most are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i love the forum and everyone is very welcoming, great to speak to folk from all over scotland with similar likes, interests, dislikes etc, face pic fri, tits out tuesday.... i love em, and if u dont like the threads because they bore you then start one with something that interests you....lifes to short for negative bullshit! happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i love the forum and everyone is very welcoming, great to speak to folk from all over scotland with similar likes, interests, dislikes etc, face pic fri, tits out tuesday.... i love em, and if u dont like the threads because they bore you then start one with something that interests you....lifes to short for negative bullshit! happy fabbing!

Ohh hear you what you doing there in that pic

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Would love more people to get involved ..there are alot of people reading the forums who dont participate..we are a friendly bunch..well most are

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Exactly most end up doing posts just like this yet contribute nothing to change the forums and make them more to their liking.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The original post to this thread is absolutely spot on. It's very much a gang mentality, don't rock the boat and god forbid you do, and first chance the old guard will have you banned lol still, who doesn't love snog marry who cares kill me now lol

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

This has been said many times and yes I think its true. The biggest problem is the fluff is never contained to the fluffy threads. the I love you who do you love spills on every post then new folk get exasperated and leave. It aint gonna change anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This has been said many times and yes I think its true. The biggest problem is the fluff is never contained to the fluffy threads. the I love you who do you love spills on every post then new folk get exasperated and leave. It aint gonna change anytime soon "

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone stole my name

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kola I love you

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

We only pop into the forums now and again but we notice this does appear to happen a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The original post to this thread is absolutely spot on. It's very much a gang mentality, don't rock the boat and god forbid you do, and first chance the old guard will have you banned lol still, who doesn't love snog marry who cares kill me now lol"
this lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP now UNLOS!

they didnt stay long did they?

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By *ilshyxWoman over a year ago

happy lil world

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

You are back

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By *ilshyxWoman over a year ago

happy lil world

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

" I've noticed on one particular thread today that newbies to forum got completely blanked while the wee gang of forum bullies stick together...I actually feel sorry for the new people to the forum, but they also shouldn't feel intimidated by them..it's your forum too...

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

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you know the thread that I'm meaning though

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

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spot on Max this is my thinking too.

I dont reply to posts if they dont interest me it has nothing at all to do with whetere its a regular poster or a newbie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

you know the thread that I'm meaning though

Ya can spank me on Saturday lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a newbie I felt intimidated at first,but it's an open forum so if something interests me I'll comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

you know the thread that I'm meaning though

Ya can spank me on Saturday lol

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that was always happening young lady lol

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

you know the thread that I'm meaning though

Ya can spank me on Saturday lol

that was always happening young lady lol"

Printed, laminated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps I am guilty of that, I don't know!

And it all depends how you use the forum I guess.

I only comment on threads/posts I am interested in, then yeah... I 'blank' the rest to be perfectly honest.

I also comment because I have something to say on the subject and don't particularly care if it gets blanked or not. I am happy to put my bit in

And, I prefer to see a comment blanked rather than seeing it getting a nasty reply.

That's my opinion anyway

you know the thread that I'm meaning though

Ya can spank me on Saturday lol

that was always happening young lady lol

Printed, laminated

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

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just be yourself and do what makes you happy

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

just be yourself and do what makes you happy

Tra la la la la la la la

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

just be yourself and do what makes you happy

Tra la la la la la la la

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oh someones in a good mood lol

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

So all the forum regulars stop posting, what happens then??

The newbies will still post their "what am I doing wrong......", "can you check my profile......" etc etc.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

just be yourself and do what makes you happy

Tra la la la la la la la

oh someones in a good mood lol

Heehee yes I am, not even opened the wine yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone was new at the start, maybe it's their first time using fab, yet when they do post 'whats wrong with my profile etc' the most get shot down in flames, which isn't fair IMO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't say regulars stop posting at all,a few of them are nice people and funny but maybe put yourself in their shoes and make them feel more welcome

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By *ilshyxWoman over a year ago

happy lil world

"So all the forum regulars stop posting, what happens then??

The newbies will still post their "what am I doing wrong......", "can you check my profile......" etc etc.

Wouldn't say regulars shouldn't post, but what I will say is make people feel welcome.

I'm a lurker mostly post when I feel like it.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"So all the forum regulars stop posting, what happens then??

The newbies will still post their "what am I doing wrong......", "can you check my profile......" etc etc.

Wouldn't say regulars shouldn't post, but what I will say is make people feel welcome.

I'm a lurker mostly post when I feel like it."

Feel free to post more often

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

just be yourself and do what makes you happy

Tra la la la la la la la

oh someones in a good mood lol

Heehee yes I am, not even opened the wine yet lol

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god help us when you do lol

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By *vbride1963TV/TS over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I'm a forum irregular

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"Sometimes you just can't win on the forums, but that's cool, relax and be merry to all I say, it's christmassssss

just be yourself and do what makes you happy

Tra la la la la la la la

oh someones in a good mood lol

Heehee yes I am, not even opened the wine yet lol

god help us when you do lol

I can see me making a scene on the forums later lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So all the forum regulars stop posting, what happens then??

The newbies will still post their "what am I doing wrong......", "can you check my profile......" etc etc.

Wouldn't say regulars shouldn't post, but what I will say is make people feel welcome.

I'm a lurker mostly post when I feel like it."

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By *ilshyxWoman over a year ago

happy lil world

It's funny when I see mentioned cliquey drama queens & people who love themselves,(nothing wrong with loving yourself) But they make the loudest protesters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't know why people even care what or when something is being posted. It's a forum it's a laugh. Maybe they just need to reflect and evaluate their own emotional intelligence if so serious about forum posts. I've only recently started chatting in forum and can't say I felt intimidated one bit. If was at a social then that would be a different story If no one spoke or were selective on who they chatted to

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's funny when I see mentioned cliquey drama queens & people who love themselves,(nothing wrong with loving yourself) But they make the loudest protesters.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"Don't know why people even care what or when something is being posted. It's a forum it's a laugh. Maybe they just need to reflect and evaluate their own emotional intelligence if so serious about forum posts. I've only recently started chatting in forum and can't say I felt intimidated one bit. If was at a social then that would be a different story If no one spoke or were selective on who they chatted to

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

Wee? You've seen him then

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

There is a divide that is clear for everyone to see but there has always been a divide and always will be. What isn't necessary is the nasty way in which some people treat people out with their social/forum circle it's not big or clever but once one person speaks out others follow and it gets classed as "banter".

Some people (not aimed at anyone posting on this thread) will claim I don't post if it doesn't interest me, not entirely true I've seen them post to put others down) others only post if a fellow forum friend posts and do ignore newbies.

For some people this is a huge part of their lives (although they may claim it's not) and are never off the forums constantly posting and giving their opinion, this is not necessarily a bad thing just different to how others use it.

Don't get pulled into a heated debate, now this site has moved on from being a swingers site and people use it for many different reasons enjoy being here for whatever that reason may be and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

Wee? You've seen him then

Ahahaha yeah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a forum irregular

Try some prunes Steph

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

Wee? You've seen him then

Ahahaha yeah

You promised to keep quiet lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

Wee? You've seen him then

Ahahaha yeah

You promised to keep quiet lol

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off to look for my magnifying glass lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a relative newby to posting on the forums I have to agree with lil tease in most of what she has said.

Ive been made most welcome by many of the regulars but also ignored and even felt slightly intimidated by others.

But like all relationships on any level people have to get to know you in some sense or other to gauge your sense of humour and to reciprocate with banter that wont be misconstrued.

The forum can be a daunting place especially if you've made the effort to try and join in and you feel your comments have been totally ignored as there is what appears to be a "private joke" going on between a few regulars who know each other..... but in saying that these regulars are entitled to do what they are doing and have their fun too... after all thats why we are all here - to enjoy ourselves.

So keep posting everyone... have fun

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Definitely wouldn't ignore you at any gathering

Haha least I would have one wee pal

Wee? You've seen him then

Ahahaha yeah

You promised to keep quiet lol

off to look for my magnifying glass lol

Just fumble around and you'll find the wee man x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohh hear you what you doing there in that pic

i was trying on some new undies

got a wee bit carried away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohh hear you what you doing there in that pic

i was trying on some new undies

got a wee bit carried away

Bet you did lol xx

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

"There is a divide that is clear for everyone to see but there has always been a divide and always will be. What isn't necessary is the nasty way in which some people treat people out with their social/forum circle it's not big or clever but once one person speaks out others follow and it gets classed as "banter".

Agree with a lot of this. To be fair we don't see a lot of nastiness on the forum but that may just because we don't use it much or avoid many of the repetetive threads when we do.

One thing that's a little ironic though is that one of the things that was complained about in an earlier post has actually happened on this thread as well.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Agree with a lot of this. To be fair we don't see a lot of nastiness on the forum but that may just because we don't use it much or avoid many of the repetetive threads when we do.

One thing that's a little ironic though is that one of the things that was complained about in an earlier post has actually happened on this thread as well."

Which was?

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

So keep posting everyone... have fun

I see what you are saying but... Sometimes I think the forum should be considered like having a big family Christmas dinner! Lot of different personalities around the same table. lots of conversations going on. sometimes you make a comment that gets ignored, so what take a sprout lol sometimes uncle billy makes the weird comment. grandad robert talk about the old days, cousin Julie is the smarty pants etc... the whole family makes still makes it to pudding with no one being sent home

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

One thing that's a little ironic though is that one of the things that was complained about in an earlier post has actually happened on this thread as well."
I was thinking this too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Makes perfect sense Max god I'd love to be in your head for a day it would be fun lol

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Makes perfect sense Max god I'd love to be in your head for a day it would be fun lol

Haha... You might get a headache for the day with all what's in there!

You are welcome to tidy up though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Not sure the original point/complaint about 'forum regulars' was that newbies comments occasionally get ignored during already ongoing discussions but rather the newbies are the ones who start said discussion themselves, the first 3 or 4 posts are on occasion from passive aggressive regulars who usually put them down for not using the search feature to find the answer. The thread then quickly descends into 5-15 folks having a conversation with each other that has hee haw to do with the threads original topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said T ..ya ride x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A question then.

I expect I'm regarded as a forum regular so probably an "offender", however, I've only been back about 9 months, how come I'm not moaning and bitching about being ignored, how did I get to be regular?

How did any of the regulars get to be regular, we were all newbies once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

Not sure I accept this analogy as in real life I think we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all.

The reality is there is a well-established group within the Scotland forum. We're human beings and can be tribal, so naturally that group does use the forum threads to re-establish and maintain the group identity through positive strokes etc. It's human nature. I wouldn't say it's a 'clique' or a deliberate attempt to exclude. Me...I'm happy to lurk!

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

Not sure I accept this analogy as in real life I think we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all.

Having just 'looked' at your pics, I feel an overwhelming desire to invite you out from lurking and invite you to join my clique of 1

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

this part I agree with unfortunatly imo if you dont bend to the forum mentality. You are the most negative vilified human being to be placed on the earth. I would also say the tribal element has some "royalty" that guides the group consensus

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The reality is there is a well-established group within the Scotland forum. We're human beings and can be tribal, so naturally that group does use the forum threads to re-establish and maintain the group identity through positive strokes etc. It's human nature.

I'm sorry that's been your experience. Interesting though because I would have had you up there as a forumite regular!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

Not sure I accept this analogy as in real life I think we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all.

Having just 'looked' at your pics, I feel an overwhelming desire to invite you out from lurking and invite you to join my clique of 1

Thanks...'look' away

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

Not sure I accept this analogy as in real life I think we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all.

Having just 'looked' at your pics, I feel an overwhelming desire to invite you out from lurking and invite you to join my clique of 1

Thanks...'look' away

Permission granted lol, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many people take the site far too seriously.Its meant to be a place where you can escape to from reality and enjoy the benefits what the site projects.A place where like-minded people can interact with other consenting Adults.

People should be aware that not everyone is going to get along therefore that should be respected.

It would be in the best interest of the site that everyone who locates the Scots Forum to post&comment and be a "regular".

There does seem to be a lot of negativity in which some people refrain to post or comment.

Lifes too short folks..if someone or somethings anooying ya..just block and move on..its really that simple.

Btw im looking for some festive sexy fun ..just sayin

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The moment you start to allow others to negatively influence your enjoyment, step away.

It's words on a screen and they are so easily ignored.

Yes lots are boring threads to me, but others find them fun. So be it.

Choose your fun and enjoy it and leave others to theirs.

It is that easy.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Too many people take the site far too seriously.Its meant to be a place where you can escape to from reality and enjoy the benefits what the site projects.A place where like-minded people can interact with other consenting Adults.

People should be aware that not everyone is going to get along therefore that should be respected.

It would be in the best interest of the site that everyone who locates the Scots Forum to post&comment and be a "regular".

There does seem to be a lot of negativity in which some people refrain to post or comment.

Lifes too short folks..if someone or somethings anooying ya..just block and move on..its really that simple.

Btw im looking for some festive sexy fun ..just sayin

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"The moment you start to allow others to negatively influence your enjoyment, step away.

It's words on a screen and they are so easily ignored.

Yes lots are boring threads to me, but others find them fun. So be it.

Choose your fun and enjoy it and leave others to theirs.

It is that easy.

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

I'm sorry that's been your experience. Interesting though because I would have had you up there as a forumite regular! "
lol im a regular but I dont kiss anyones ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

The trouble with that is everybody puts a face on at the table, and some people don't get invited to dinner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

Well yes Mr Costa. The way things are sounding I almost feel guilty for taking a regular interest and having a bit of a giggle. What interests me is the complaint that posts are "ignored"? Every post doesn't need a response...my ramblings rarely do. I always try to welcome newbies also, but if someone comes on and posts something I disagree with or find rude am I not entitled to say anything...just in case a new poster runs away in the huff? Also, we are all aware of those who come onto the forum to cause a stramash and then scraper much as the OP has done.

Anyway, I have fun to myself and I try to abide by the rules. But, I won't be made to feel guilty for having friends and posting often.

There...I wasn't going to say all that, but I love you all!

Yes, even you at the back who is thinking about posting but hasn't yet...go on. You might like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is how newbies and some others are made to feel:

https://youtu.be/XoGvH4kbRFA

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

Anyway, I have fun to myself and I try to abide by the rules. But, I won't be made to feel guilty for having friends and posting often.

There...I wasn't going to say all that, but I love you all!

Yes, even you at the back who is thinking about posting but hasn't yet...go on. You might like it.

"
agree about not being made to feel guilty for enjoying the forums

Its no different to chat except whats been said stays there for all to see where as whats said in chat is gone in a few lines therefore whats being said isnt always cast up like it is on the forums.

If people consentrated on their own fun instead of downing others for the fun they like to have on the forums would be a much nicer place.

Most of the forum uses are lovely people

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

Anyway, I have fun to myself and I try to abide by the rules. But, I won't be made to feel guilty for having friends and posting often.

There...I wasn't going to say all that, but I love you all!

Yes, even you at the back who is thinking about posting but hasn't yet...go on. You might like it.

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man over a year ago

nr you but not too near

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

Anyway, I have fun to myself and I try to abide by the rules. But, I won't be made to feel guilty for having friends and posting often.

There...I wasn't going to say all that, but I love you all!

Yes, even you at the back who is thinking about posting but hasn't yet...go on. You might like it.

agree about not being made to feel guilty for enjoying the forums

Its no different to chat except whats been said stays there for all to see where as whats said in chat is gone in a few lines therefore whats being said isnt always cast up like it is on the forums.

If people consentrated on their own fun instead of downing others for the fun they like to have on the forums would be a much nicer place.

Most of the forum uses are lovely people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A wee sniff of the forum about this one too.

https://youtu.be/RD89wjUQZCw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keep posting everyone... have fun

Hope this makes sense, sounds better in head lol

Exactly this

Sometimes your comments get overlooked because there is already a 'conversation' going on like in real life

Great analogy Max

Merci, MrsD.

Not sure I accept this analogy as in real life I think we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all.

I don't _iew it as we'd make more of an effort to be inclusive of all - either on here or in real life. In both scenarios the conversation can move fast and your comment or attempt to join in can be missed - unintentionally often especially IRL as the people in the conversation might be intense, caught up.

I am actually quite a shy person IRL and more so in a group social setting and I once saw on a profile a guy describe himself as not so much shy but that he found it difficult to 'insert' himself/join in a conversation and I thought that was a good descriptor too.

It happens here but I hang around and take what I from the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very true. The level of ass-kissing does go to far sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone throw some banter at me for fauxache x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The forum use to be good .now it's small groups who like to stick to there own cliques who don't like different opinions from there's. This results In bad feelings others being excluded . Also results the people not with the in crowd being reported. So it continues a them and us. Some have no life off fab and think they own it. Like to be the centre of attention so how dare a newbie take that way from them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The forum use to be good .now it's small groups who like to stick to there own cliques who don't like different opinions from there's. This results In bad feelings others being excluded . Also results the people not with the in crowd being reported. So it continues a them and us. Some have no life off fab and think they own it. Like to be the centre of attention so how dare a newbie take that way from them. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone throw some banter at me for fauxache x

https://youtu.be/YkhtpYIRHAU

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone throw some banter at me for fauxache x

https://youtu.be/YkhtpYIRHAU"

Lololol ..

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

In all fairness to the OP, he (or she) is pretty much spot on.

The Scottish forum often appears stale, unwelcoming, repetitive, and disinteresting.

Maybe if the usual patrol didn't jump down the throats of the new, infrequent or the uninitiated, then the threads would be more enjoyable and expansive.

Sadly, I doubt that will happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In all fairness to the OP, he (or she) is pretty much spot on.

The Scottish forum often appears stale, unwelcoming, repetitive, and disinteresting.

Maybe if the usual patrol didn't jump down the throats of the new, infrequent or the uninitiated, then the threads would be more enjoyable and expansive.

Sadly, I doubt that will happen.

I think there is an additional element that can be equally off putting whereby the individual warring factions use it as a vehicle to have a dig and it becomes an argument between the various individuals.

So as well as the 'inside' jokes and friendships/familiarity that can appear unfriendly or take a thread off subject there are arguments and petty digs that do the same at times.

I think I live in a parallel universe or perhaps my middle name should be oblivious because I am often oblivious to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Trick is to remember this is a virtual site

Don't take things to seriously

99% of the folk on the forums will never meet each other

So why waste your time getting upset?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The moment you start to allow others to negatively influence your enjoyment, step away.

It's words on a screen and they are so easily ignored.

Yes lots are boring threads to me, but others find them fun. So be it.

Choose your fun and enjoy it and leave others to theirs.

It is that easy.

What happens here happens in all forums/threads on any social media.

I'm a regular user of a newspaper app touting 'Comment is Free' OMG those below the line comments are brutal...makes fab forums look like well-policed classrooms!

We're all here to have fun one way or the other...if it's not that, then maybe time for a pause.

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

LAM to UNLOS in under 22 hours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LAM to UNLOS in under 22 hours.

I think you will find he/she went UNLOS within the hour of creating the post!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you haven't posted on here before or try and make a point or add a thread its shot down within seconds hence why i don't everyone entitled to thoughts and opinions and to discuss what they please...waiting for the firing squad to hit..round about now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you haven't posted on here before or try and make a point or add a thread its shot down within seconds hence why i don't everyone entitled to thoughts and opinions and to discuss what they please...waiting for the firing squad to hit..round about now

I'm sorry you feel that. Is it from personal experience?

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By *atmanhMan over a year ago

bellshill

I'm sorry you feel that. Is it from personal experience? "

I've never felt like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the forum, stick around it can be fun

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"In all fairness to the OP, he (or she) is pretty much spot on.

The Scottish forum often appears stale, unwelcoming, repetitive, and disinteresting.

Maybe if the usual patrol didn't jump down the throats of the new, infrequent or the uninitiated, then the threads would be more enjoyable and expansive.

Sadly, I doubt that will happen.

So when a newbie posts, everyone should pause and not post initially??

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"My name is Jinty. I'm a regular poster.

It is, and you are, is this a confession?

Anyway, I have fun to myself and I try to abide by the rules. But, I won't be made to feel guilty for having friends and posting often.

There...I wasn't going to say all that, but I love you all!

Yes, even you at the back who is thinking about posting but hasn't yet...go on. You might like it.

That was quite deep and sensible for you! Oh gosh.......you won't be offended by that? Will you?

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"In all fairness to the OP, he (or she) is pretty much spot on.

The Scottish forum often appears stale, unwelcoming, repetitive, and disinteresting.

Maybe if the usual patrol didn't jump down the throats of the new, infrequent or the uninitiated, then the threads would be more enjoyable and expansive.

Sadly, I doubt that will happen.

So when a newbie posts, everyone should pause and not post initially??

Very obviously, not.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"
Il agree this does happen but it happens on all forums not just this one .

And not every poster on the forums behaves this way so why is everyone being tarred with the same brush?

Looks like some just like to cause controversy.

You just cant win on these forums, if you welcome people your classed an ass licker and if you question others points of _iew your classed as unwelcoming & nasty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bothy nights .it's about how the long term posters on here make others feel. The high and mighty brigade . We know it all or opinions are more important that yours. You don't fit in with our group so we will gang up and be little you. How many good people have left with the forum becoming personal. Alot now a few new people commenting on this post has resulted in there dummy get spit out. The forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Il agree this does happen but it happens on all forums not just this one .

And not every poster on the forums behaves this way so why is everyone being tarred with the same brush?

Looks like some just like to cause controversy.

You just cant win on these forums, if you welcome people your classed an ass licker and if you question others points of _iew your classed as unwelcoming & nasty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bothy nights .it's about how the long term posters on here make others feel. The high and mighty brigade . We know it all or opinions are more important that yours. You don't fit in with our group so we will gang up and be little you. How many good people have left with the forum becoming personal. Alot now a few new people commenting on this post has resulted in there dummy get spit out. The forum is for everyone if you agree or not."

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not."

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

I think the point is, not everyone wants to read arrogant, condescending posts from self appointed forum guardians.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A forum is for open discussion and for everyone to voice their opinions which is good and not everyone agrees with everyone else's choices actions words opinions we are all here for our own reasons and i welcome a good discussion wasn't trying to get anyone's back up or anything just trying to illicit a discussion on this subject of the impression some new people get of the forums in general.

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

I think the point is, not everyone wants to read arrogant, condescending posts from self appointed forum guardians."

So who do you see as the "self appointed forum guardians"?

I don't see anyone resembling that description!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

I think the point is, not everyone wants to read arrogant, condescending posts from self appointed forum guardians.

So who do you see as the "self appointed forum guardians"?

I don't see anyone resembling that description! "

Do you not have a mirror to hand?

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

I think the point is, not everyone wants to read arrogant, condescending posts from self appointed forum guardians."

Correct.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bothy nights....the forum is for everyone if you agree or not.

Of course it is, what actually is your point?

I think the point is, not everyone wants to read arrogant, condescending posts from self appointed forum guardians.

Correct.

As you see it...an individual _iew

However because we are individuals the next person might not think like that.

My perception will be different and the perception of the person after me will likely be different again

But I take it as....words on a screen by people who I am unlikely to ever meet and I don't give it a second thought when I step away and go back to reality life

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"As you see it...an individual _iew

However because we are individuals the next person might not think like that.

My perception will be different and the perception of the person after me will likely be different again

But I take it as....words on a screen by people who I am unlikely to ever meet and I don't give it a second thought when I step away and go back to reality life

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Perhaps I am picking things wrong here but by the way this thread is going. In my opinion.

All that's being achieved is intimidating further newbies from posting, intimidating someone who may have had an idea for putting a thread up to do so, and some people who may have had a carry on on the forum to do so in case they are classed as bullies or else.

Everyone is being bullied now!

Shame!

Personally, I will keep doing what I am doing as I will be judged whatever I do and/or say.

Fab is a great place to be judged that you want it or not

People can use the forum as they wish! And say what they wish. For me, at the end of the day Fab is for fun.

And it's not always easy to translate, convey an idea. Some people forget that it is easy for everyone.

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Perhaps I am picking things wrong here but by the way this thread is going. In my opinion.

Everyone is being bullied now!

Shame!

Personally, I will keep doing what I am doing as I will be judged whatever I do and/or say.

Fab is a great place to be judged that you want it or not

People can use the forum as they wish! And say what they wish. For me, at the end of the day Fab is for fun.

And it's not always easy to translate, convey an idea. Some people forget that it is easy for everyone.

* not easy

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

"Perhaps I am picking things wrong here but by the way this thread is going. In my opinion.

Everyone is being bullied now!

Shame!

Personally, I will keep doing what I am doing as I will be judged whatever I do and/or say.

Fab is a great place to be judged that you want it or not

People can use the forum as they wish! And say what they wish. For me, at the end of the day Fab is for fun.

And it's not always easy to translate, convey an idea. Some people forget that it is easy for everyone.

Want to have fun Max

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Perhaps I am picking things wrong here but by the way this thread is going. In my opinion.

Everyone is being bullied now!

Shame!

Personally, I will keep doing what I am doing as I will be judged whatever I do and/or say.

Fab is a great place to be judged that you want it or not

People can use the forum as they wish! And say what they wish. For me, at the end of the day Fab is for fun.

And it's not always easy to translate, convey an idea. Some people forget that it is easy for everyone.

Want to have fun Max

Starbucks latte

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The love in's make me barf, the flirting makes me squirm, the childish simpering nonsense makes me hurl up my dinner.

But I wholeheartedly agree that people who enjoy the above activities enjoy them as they see fit

Who the fuck am I to dictate what others do.

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The love in's make me barf, the flirting makes me squirm, the childish simpering nonsense makes me hurl up my dinner.

But I wholeheartedly agree that people who enjoy the above activities enjoy them as they see fit

Who the fuck am I to dictate what others do."

Am not ignoring your comment View, I just need a dictionary for a few words lol

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"The love in's make me barf, the flirting makes me squirm, the childish simpering nonsense makes me hurl up my dinner.

But I wholeheartedly agree that people who enjoy the above activities enjoy them as they see fit

Who the fuck am I to dictate what others do.

Am not ignoring your comment View, I just need a dictionary for a few words lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've got to live the Scottish forum.

It always guarantees entertainment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've got to live the Scottish forum.

It always guarantees entertainment

Love

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By *hehoff666Man over a year ago

Glasgow

First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lol

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lol"

Wait for Tuesday

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lol"
welcome im sure they will be along shortly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lolwelcome im sure they will be along shortly

He means you and I NMD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lol"

When you find them, give me a nudge

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"First time posting in a forum

. Can someone direct me to the hot chicks of Fab lol

When you find them, give me a nudge

"
ahermmm cheeky bugger lol

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Who gives a damn????

Everyone can post whatever they want.

Whenever they want.

Couldn't care less.

If I don't want to read it - I don't. Simple as that.

So, newbies, welcome and post as much as you like.

Oldies, same applies to you too.

Everybody - if you don't like a thread.....stop bitching or whining about it and ignore it like a sensible adult.

Right...that's me off my soap box.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn????

Everyone can post whatever they want.

Whenever they want.

Couldn't care less.

If I don't want to read it - I don't. Simple as that.

So, newbies, welcome and post as much as you like.

Oldies, same applies to you too.

Everybody - if you don't like a thread.....stop bitching or whining about it and ignore it like a sensible adult.

Right...that's me off my soap box.

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Who gives a damn????

Everyone can post whatever they want.

Whenever they want.

Couldn't care less.

If I don't want to read it - I don't. Simple as that.

So, newbies, welcome and post as much as you like.

Oldies, same applies to you too.

Everybody - if you don't like a thread.....stop bitching or whining about it and ignore it like a sensible adult.

Right...that's me off my soap box.

Some sense!

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By *omaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Cadbury's Creme Egg anyone? . . . well they calm me down everytime

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Who gives a damn????

Everyone can post whatever they want.

Whenever they want.

Couldn't care less.

If I don't want to read it - I don't. Simple as that.

So, newbies, welcome and post as much as you like.

Oldies, same applies to you too.

Everybody - if you don't like a thread.....stop bitching or whining about it and ignore it like a sensible adult.

Right...that's me off my soap box.

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well said Andy and no im not licking your ass

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Who gives a damn????

Everyone can post whatever they want.

Whenever they want.

Couldn't care less.

If I don't want to read it - I don't. Simple as that.

So, newbies, welcome and post as much as you like.

Oldies, same applies to you too.

Everybody - if you don't like a thread.....stop bitching or whining about it and ignore it like a sensible adult.

Right...that's me off my soap box.

"
lol sounds simple......practicality not so much

example new thread goes up "what is folks thoughts on the traffic light system".

first cpl of replys are on subject. then the cakecrew rear the loving positive heads above the parparapet. end thread as it degenerates into a love in. What those oh so positive folk dont seem to get is it works both ways. some dont enjoy childish pretenceand prefer a topical debate.

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Show me a forum where none of the threads go off topic??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can agree ive noticed this x..

The thing is with this folks As someone has said 99% of people on the forum may not ever meet..it would make sense for people to show some respect for each other whilst we are here.

I must admit i am most likely too pass on advice when i can in my experience being on for years,However i am a cheeky caring fecker and ahll make it fun at the same time.

Please do not be offended ..dont take it too serious..

So ..Ladies ..any chance in showering this cheeky bassa with kisses n cuddles ..ya know ya wanna ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol sounds simple......practicality not so much

example new thread goes up "what is folks thoughts on the traffic light system".

So....when you are in conversation with friends do you always stick rigidly to the first subject raised ? Or does it digress and wander with a 'natural' ebb and flow?

God....it would be like being at work if it had to stay rigidly on topic

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

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