"Lots of verifications...
Turn on?
Turn off?
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your on a swingers site the purpose of being here is to swing .
Whats too much to you might not be to others .
Just make up your own mind if lots of veris are too much for you .
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"Some with lots are from people they've met at socials,so that wouldn't bother me, it's the ones that's getting banged all the time I'd avoid "
This
Also graffic verification think guy guy is boosting their ego or woman is just a wee dirty   |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Couldnt give a toss how many someone has all i want to know is if they are genuine and likely to turn up for a meet ...the person behind the profile i will make my mind up about them through chat and meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As it's possible to select which/how many you show then you could speculate that you really never know how many people someone has met. That's true whether it be one or one hundred and one... hence you make YOUR mind up about someone based on what you know/feel about said person.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couldnt give a toss how many someone has all i want to know is if they are genuine and likely to turn up for a meet ...the person behind the profile i will make my mind up about them through chat and meeting "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Irrelevant
Do you like them
Do you get on with them
In the end that's all that matters "
Yes that's how it should be xx I thought this site was suppose to be fun people can meet have fun enjoy socials and play and explore fantasys it's a shame so many waste time judging others and not enough time enjoying xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of verifications...
Turn on?
Turn off?
What about hidden ones?
That's the ones I wonder about "
It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of verifications...
Turn on?
Turn off?
What about hidden ones?
That's the ones I wonder about
It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about
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Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some with lots are from people they've met at socials,so that wouldn't bother me, it's the ones that's getting banged all the time I'd avoid
This
Also graffic verification think guy guy is boosting their ego or woman is just a wee dirty "
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...
eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla" |
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"Couldnt give a toss how many someone has all i want to know is if they are genuine and likely to turn up for a meet ...the person behind the profile i will make my mind up about them through chat and meeting "
spot on Bunkie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...
eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla" "
If only verifications were as eloquent as that. The vast majority are just poorly written, misogynistic crass. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...
eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla" "
Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh |
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"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...
eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"
Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh "
me either !
I have in the past been sent what I class as too graphic for publiclication veris and have told the sender to redo it or wont display it lol .
I dont display any now except the odd social or party veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of verifications...
Turn on?
Turn off?
What about hidden ones?
That's the ones I wonder about
It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about
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....best reply eeeevvveeeeerrr lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veri's are illogical, if you think about it because away from the site they could be fucking ten different guys or girls each day off tinder etc for all we know fab could just be an extension of their already sordid lifestyles, Christ for all we know every person on here could've a gigalow or escort
As long as they have been verified and don't come across as a bunny boiler, and are clean I don't mind
I know if I met someone and at that point decided something wasn't right about them or they were unhygienic I'd make my excuses and get the fuck out of there, no obligation to go through with what was planned out lol  |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"Most veris are the same. Makes displaying them quite pointless...
eg "such a gentleman, knows how to treat a lady, very good in bed, but I won't tell details. Dont miss out. bla bla bla"
Whats wrong with that i dont particularly want to know every sordid detail tbh "
A simple thumbs up suits me fine.
But what if you turn up and the other person is really unhygienic etc. And you walk out in fear of puking...
You can still verify them(despite being negative) but they wouldn't display that veri would they  |
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Vers are pointless anyway as everyone says the exact same thing more or less, so I don't usually read them unless I'm extremely bored that day
The people who have had a bad date won't bother writing one, and the ones who have had a good time will just exaggerate anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The verification system works fine IN TANDEM WITH YOUR OWN COMMON SENSE.
Yes it's nice to see that someone has been verified... it's also nice to see they have pics etc... if you feel inclined to follow that up via exchange of pics, phone call - perhaps even cam (in chat or on sykpe etc)... a social meet if need be - then really all you can do is trust your instinct on what kind of person they are. Technically you probably won't ever know what they really do but if you do have a strict vetting process then you should meet those of a like mind and attitude... It's never failed me yet
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"Lots of verifications...
Turn on?
Turn off?
What about hidden ones?
That's the ones I wonder about
It's the hidden bodies I don't want anyone to know about
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Bet you have a lovely garden full of flowers. All that fertiliser lol |
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"Its the amount of veris that scare me.."only looking for 1 or 2 regulars' then suddenly 683 veris.now I'm not meeting anyone who's had more pricks than a pub dartboard!"
you know the saying you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince.
Maybe they just havent met their regular yet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shouldn't be but...
I think loads on a guys profile dosnt look as bad than loads on a chicks profile..
There...I said it lol
If I'm totally honest yes it would put me off a bit if all the veris are close together or varied in shape/ sizes ..screams any holes a goal to me
But hey...that's just my take on it
Everyone's diffrent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vers are pointless anyway as everyone says the exact same thing more or less, so I don't usually read them unless I'm extremely bored that day
The people who have had a bad date won't bother writing one, and the ones who have had a good time will just exaggerate anyway "
I've wrote a veri for a guy that was a total tosser and worded it that way, shame he never did publish it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An overrated concept that's open to abuse ( I know I've none as yet but been well verified in the past! )
I know I'm genuine, it's just getting back in the game isn't the easiest.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was brought up with manners too, very good ones at that, but why sugar coat things fgs..
If someone turned up not being the person they say they were , you wouldn't let him know you weren't happy ? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Id never leave a nasty veri for anyone if anything id choose to not verify giving them my reasons or do a simple veri saying met for a coffee & leave it at that "
If you leave a bad veri they just wont show it ...but it'll say on their profile and just add to the veris they have ...so would be pointless leaving 1 IMO |
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"I was brought up with manners too, very good ones at that, but why sugar coat things fgs..
If someone turned up not being the person they say they were , you wouldn't let him know you weren't happy ?"
As I said previously id let them know yes but Id certainly not feel the need of being nasty by doing them a veri ..there would be no point as it more than likely wouldnt be displayed anyway so there would be no point to it.
A simple thanks for coming to meet me but I dont want to take things any further would be the kinder thing to do |
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