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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi my friend it's good place and it's well run and girls are great  "
Thanks mate well here's hoping I can make it in time and go along see the girls |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I heard a fella with a 10" cock who goes there regularly has syphilis! Cancre penis sores!
I have never been back since.shocking statement"
Why does the size of his cock need to be added into the statement   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the way it's a great set up run by great people and no way any of the girls who go are daft enough to go near anyone with open sores and protection is always used |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"By the way it's a great set up run by great people and no way any of the girls who go are daft enough to go near anyone with open sores and protection is always used"
I second this |
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"Personally I wouldn't go near it, heard too much about it 
Such as? not prepared to chat on forum about it, people have a choice, go or don't go"
I tried to message to ask about shoebox as I've been debating for some time but I'm outside your age range  don't spose you'd mind messaging me?  |
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As with anything whether its clubs , socials or people go along and try for yourself rather than listening to what others have to say about it thats the only true way you will find out of its for you or not |
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"As with anything whether its clubs , socials or people go along and try for yourself rather than listening to what others have to say about it thats the only true way you will find out of its for you or not "
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As with anything whether its clubs , socials or people go along and try for yourself rather than listening to what others have to say about it thats the only true way you will find out of its for you or not "
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As with anything whether its clubs , socials or people go along and try for yourself rather than listening to what others have to say about it thats the only true way you will find out of its for you or not "
Yes people are to quick to judge things especially ones who have never been and don't know much about it id say the same as above you decide what's right for you no one else can try things for yourself and see xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just so you know I've never been so can't pass comment on this as a club but only you can decide what's for you no one else that's why us women are so clever we do have brains and can think for ourselves mon the girls whoop whoop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just so you know I've never been so can't pass comment on this as a club but only you can decide what's for you no one else that's why us women are so clever we do have brains and can think for ourselves mon the girls whoop whoop "
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice "
think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs "
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not of course they are hence why I added my own  "
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not "
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
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I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Greedy girl theme and your normal fun for everyone theme are 2 totally different environments. I would suggest going to a fun for all night and you'll get a much more accurate of what a club is like. GG events arent for me but do enjoy and normal club night. |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more. "
you paid to attend a greedy girls day what was it expected from that ? |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more. "
That's a different tune!!!
May be my English is poor but 'you pay your money and take your choice' does imply that the girl has no decision of her own. And the man has the control because he paid 30 quid.
Not at all the case.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more.
That's a different tune!!!
May be my English is poor but 'you pay your money and take your choice' does imply that the girl has no decision of her own. And the man has the control because he paid 30 quid.
Not at all the case.
Perhaps im talking about perceptions and attitudes
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ?? "
Im not really sure but in my own opinion there is no difference |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ?? "
Same thing I'd imagine think people just word it different x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ??
Same thing I'd imagine think people just word it different x"
Yeah i thot meeant same thing maybe greedy girls sounds nicer than gangbangs ..cheers for relpy x |
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ??
Same thing I'd imagine think people just word it different x"
I agree same thing but worded differently.
In my opinion the word 'gangbang' focuses on the male side. While the use of 'greedy girls' the focuses is on the girls and might be less intimidating.
That's my perception anyway, others might think differently.  |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not "
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!"
For a one to one not multiples |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!"
Sorry but there is a big difference in my opinion |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!
For a one to one not multiples "
Who said you'd get multiples they need to be attracted or like you first x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!
For a one to one not multiples
Who said you'd get multiples they need to be attracted or like you first x"
If you say so |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!Sorry but there is a big difference in my opinion "
Over the years the one thing iv learned is swinging is always going to cost you money. Wherever you go or whatever you do. Wether it's clubs pubs socials parties or hotels there's always a fee. People are entitled to an opinion but when money and sex come together people will cheapen and blacken it. It's meant to be fun. Let it be whatever you want it but don't reduce others who for doing it a different way from you. Each to there own. |
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!Sorry but there is a big difference in my opinion
Over the years the one thing iv learned is swinging is always going to cost you money. Wherever you go or whatever you do. Wether it's clubs pubs socials parties or hotels there's always a fee. People are entitled to an opinion but when money and sex come together people will cheapen and blacken it. It's meant to be fun. Let it be whatever you want it but don't reduce others who for doing it a different way from you. Each to there own. "
swinging can also cost you nothing
As long as people are happy doing what they do thats all that should matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Just like you pay for hotels for your fab meets. No difference!Sorry but there is a big difference in my opinion
Over the years the one thing iv learned is swinging is always going to cost you money. Wherever you go or whatever you do. Wether it's clubs pubs socials parties or hotels there's always a fee. People are entitled to an opinion but when money and sex come together people will cheapen and blacken it. It's meant to be fun. Let it be whatever you want it but don't reduce others who for doing it a different way from you. Each to there own. "
Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female.. |
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"Meant tae be raining the morra
Just thought I'd throw that in case anybodys interested 
I will look out my brolly "
offftt dangerous weapons them, get yer eyes poked oot if yer no careful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meant tae be raining the morra
Just thought I'd throw that in case anybodys interested
I will look out my brolly offftt dangerous weapons them, get yer eyes poked oot if yer no careful "
im ok  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
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The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course "
Did not say who's attitude but what attitudes and perceptions |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Did not say who's attitude but what attitudes and perceptions"
The attitude of some people that girls who attend sex clubs are sluts.. Im not saying this is my attitude but the reality is it is many peoples attitude |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course "
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X"
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience. |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience. "
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know. "
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know.
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses.. "
are ye giving it a bash ? Ye know ye want too |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know.
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses.. "
Least it's an honest one for a change. . Good luck on your quest. X |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Did not say who's attitude but what attitudes and perceptions
The attitude of some people that girls who attend sex clubs are sluts.. Im not saying this is my attitude but the reality is it is many peoples attitude "
Again! Not what you wrote lol
'The attitudes of guys and girls WHO are attending' and not the attitude towards those who attends.
So... My question still s_ands.
What attitudes and perceptions do the people who attends clubs have??
I'll wait lol  |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know.
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses..
Least it's an honest one for a change. . Good luck on your quest. X"
You may not agree but youll always get an honest answer from me |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know.
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses..
Least it's an honest one for a change. . Good luck on your quest. X
You may not agree but youll always get an honest answer from me "
More thsn can be said about your profile. |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X
Im judging on my own experience and speaking to other people and their perceptions and experience.
Who not go and get your own perception than spout off on what you think you know.
Im giving my opinion its no more valid than anyone elses..
Least it's an honest one for a change. . Good luck on your quest. X
You may not agree but youll always get an honest answer from me
More thsn can be said about your profile. "
Getting personal now i wouldnt go down that road  |
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Again you need to take into account the attitudes and perceprions of those who attend be they male or female..
What attitudes and perceptions would that be??
The attitudes of the guys and girls who are attending of course
Do you honestly think it's as easy as walking in saying youl do get on thst bed! Theshoebox is nothing like cjs greedy girl. The ratio is far smaller for a start. More intimate. More social. More friendly. I met my new partner in there and we've been together 5 months. So it's not all sleeze and sex. Never met anyone yet who lowers the tone. All professional. Respectable people. Your judging one club from another. Theybarec2 different places. X"
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Having been a few times ive found it also intimate, very sociable and a great laugh. Not seedy at all. The gals always great, the guys friendly. Again just an honest account of somebody whos been |
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Imo the biggest problem with most clubs is....... on the scottish forums cjs reigns supreme.any mention of another club is usually met with cjs is so much better.
Ive no idea why folk think this. in essence they are all the same. A house (diffrent sizes) where folk can mingle and have sex.
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Imo the biggest problem with most clubs is....... on the scottish forums cjs reigns supreme.any mention of another club is usually met with cjs is so much better.
Ive no idea why folk think this. in essence they are all the same. A house (diffrent sizes) where folk can mingle and have sex.
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For me i like the fact in cjs there are private rooms for fun ...i prefer my fun to be private hence why i havent and wont go to the shoebox |
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"Imo the biggest problem with most clubs is....... on the scottish forums cjs reigns supreme.any mention of another club is usually met with cjs is so much better.
Ive no idea why folk think this. in essence they are all the same. A house (diffrent sizes) where folk can mingle and have sex.
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Can't comment on the shoebox as I've never been however I can say cjs is not a house, this may have been the case in the past but hasn't been for over a year now.
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more.
That's a different tune!!!
May be my English is poor but 'you pay your money and take your choice' does imply that the girl has no decision of her own. And the man has the control because he paid 30 quid.
Not at all the case.
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That's how I read it too. If anyone thinks they have a right to fuck me because they've paid to get in somewhere, a swift kick to the bollocks will put them straight |
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"Imo the biggest problem with most clubs is....... on the scottish forums cjs reigns supreme.any mention of another club is usually met with cjs is so much better.
Ive no idea why folk think this. in essence they are all the same. A house (diffrent sizes) where folk can mingle and have sex.
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Part of that is probably because now that Aberdeen has closed there's only 2 clubs to choose from, and IMO CJs is much better than after8, partly due to it being a larger venue.
If there were clubs all over Scotland, that might not be the majority _iew - just my tuppence. |
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I don't get why some people feel the need to trash the clubs that operate in Scotland the three there are offer a vastly different experience you pay your money you take your chances. We're all on here trying to satisfy a need and one club may better meet that need than the others. They should be applauded for being there encouraged for risking money and their reputations to give us a place to socialise and play and applauded for making the world a little more diverse so you should be raising. A glass to these clubs even the ones that aren't for you and stop behaving like indignant muggles. Here's to more people like them. |
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By *igD262Man
over a year ago
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"I don't get why some people feel the need to trash the clubs that operate in Scotland the three there are offer a vastly different experience you pay your money you take your chances. We're all on here trying to satisfy a need and one club may better meet that need than the others. They should be applauded for being there encouraged for risking money and their reputations to give us a place to socialise and play and applauded for making the world a little more diverse so you should be raising. A glass to these clubs even the ones that aren't for you and stop behaving like indignant muggles. Here's to more people like them. "
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By *igD262Man
over a year ago
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"I don't get why some people feel the need to trash the clubs that operate in Scotland the three there are offer a vastly different experience you pay your money you take your chances. We're all on here trying to satisfy a need and one club may better meet that need than the others. They should be applauded for being there encouraged for risking money and their reputations to give us a place to socialise and play and applauded for making the world a little more diverse so you should be raising. A glass to these clubs even the ones that aren't for you and stop behaving like indignant muggles. Here's to more people like them. "
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if only closed minds came with closed mouths
This is so very real in the Scottish fab forum and club scene....people are very much like sheep and follow each other, not forgetting the dramas that follow certain members around who may be associated with certain groups and certain clubs....therefore certain people and clubs get blacklisted.
Make your own opinion and open your mind and live a little....perhaps you may get a surprise that theirs a life outside that little box many live in.
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs "
if this is the way The Shoebox works , it's not for us |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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One thing for sure, over the years people have complained about clubs and when you ask if they raised their concerns with management at the time...... No.
Much better bitching on a public forum |
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"Personally I wouldn't go near it, heard too much about it "
Sorry , but that's a useless piece of unqualified advice..... please make a valid point or quit trying to put organisations out of business! |
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"Personally I wouldn't go near it, heard too much about it
Sorry , but that's a useless piece of unqualified advice..... please make a valid point or quit trying to put organisations out of business!"
I don't need too lol my opinion and the _iews of others that I've spoke too . Calm down, have a beer  |
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"Personally I wouldn't go near it, heard too much about it
Sorry , but that's a useless piece of unqualified advice..... please make a valid point or quit trying to put organisations out of business! I don't need too lol my opinion and the _iews of others that I've spoke too . Calm down, have a beer "
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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People will always have opinions on clubs, parties & socials,think it so happens its the shoebox post everyone is commented on but _iew is right people should say to hosts & bitching is all part of life anywhere |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"The guys pay their 30 quid at the door and get to fuck the girls inside isnt that how it works, lol same as most clubs... pay your money and take your choice think your way of the mark with that comment regarding clubs
Each is entitled to their own opinon are they not
Yes each people are allowed to voice their opinions.
However, you have to have the right fact!
Never been to shoebox and not interested to go.
Just commenting on the Club bit!
Have been to Clubs like Cjs and After8 and if anyone think that their 30 quid give them any kind of right on 'Me' they have another thing coming!!
Entry in cjs or after8 I will only comment on those as I have been, do not guarantee a piece of anyone's body!!! Or right on anyone body!!
I never said anyone had any right ... having once attended cjs greedy girl as a favour to someone . I did not change or play. I found the whole thing very seedy with the guys following the few girls that were there around and waiting like a pack of wolves to dive on anyone to went into a room. I stayed a very short time and would never go back. This again is my personal experience nothing more. "
I've been recently on greedy girl night at cj's. It was a last minute arrangement and wouldn't have been my first choice of night to go. Person I was with was only free that night. We played with each other and were mostly left alone. Guys were respectful that we didn't want to play with anyone else.
Single guys do have to change in to a towel if they go upstairs but not if you're a couple. My advice is to choose your night carefully before going to cj's. Contact Caroline and she'll give you all the info you need. |
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Personally speaking, I would always treat women with respect at a club or party, whether its Shoebox or cj's gg gb or fun for all. Doesn't matter even if an entry fee is paid. I would only play when there is some mutual attraction. |
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I think that this thread has got a wee bit nippy. I've been to CJs on a gg afternoon ages ago. It wasn't well attended female wise and I was attending with a lady. I can only comment on this because I was there.
Can't understand why anyone would slag off a place if they've never even been there. Strap a pair on, go along , find out what happens and then if you must offer your opinion.
Just blacking a reputation because someone else does shows a lack of a certain something " character" |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think that this thread has got a wee bit nippy. I've been to CJs on a gg afternoon ages ago. It wasn't well attended female wise and I was attending with a lady. I can only comment on this because I was there.
Can't understand why anyone would slag off a place if they've never even been there. Strap a pair on, go along , find out what happens and then if you must offer your opinion.
Just blacking a reputation because someone else does shows a lack of a certain something " character""
Ive also seen folk say that they won't meet men/women That attend such events but it's hilarious because you know that they have been yet haven't displayed the verifications |
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This venue is well run,it is a small intimate venue.Which is no different from any of the other clubs in the UK.
You pay your money and you are not guaranteed that anything happens whether it is a gangbang,greedygirls or any other event.People who have never been,should either try it for themselves or dont slag the venue off.Mangement keep up all the good work you do for the swinging fraternity.HAPPY SWINGING |
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Been shoebox good few party's know the gals and the staff now it's not wot ppl say on here too many narrow minded I would happily go bk too shoebox any time for anyone not been and wanting too go and make ur own mind up abot it you see for your self how friendly and welcoming it is and u meet some great ppl |
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"Been shoebox good few party's know the gals and the staff now it's not wot ppl say on here too many narrow minded I would happily go bk too shoebox any time for anyone not been and wanting too go and make ur own mind up abot it you see for your self how friendly and welcoming it is and u meet some great ppl "
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions "
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion "
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open". |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open". "
I agree people are free to comment, but I usually find the most the most pertinent opinions are based on knowledge and experience. Anything else would be like trying to re_iew a film you've never seen |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
I agree people are free to comment, but I usually find the most the most pertinent opinions are based on knowledge and experience. Anything else would be like trying to re_iew a film you've never seen "
ok so all do it, we all have opinions on everyday stuff.. an example today being 'should I wear my regular boots or should I wear my new ones' my opinion was- well I'm doing a lot of walking today so I shall wear my old ones..even though I've 'never tried'my new ones...my opinion...taaaaa daaaaaa |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion ehhhh I'm perfectly entitled to share it regardless, chill out, have a doughnut "
I agree you're perfectly free to share on the forum.
What is it that you don't like about the venue? I'm not sure you said. Apologies if you did, it's quite a large thread.
Hmmm doughnuts ?? |
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"My post above made sense to me
Great you based your choice of boots on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable and good for walking makes sense more to the point I had an opinion on summit I hadn't tried "
Not really, you based your decision on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable an your past experience that new boots can take a while to wear in and might hurt if you have to walk any distance.
Can't get doughnuts out of my head now. I blame you |
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"My post above made sense to me
Great you based your choice of boots on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable and good for walking makes sense more to the point I had an opinion on summit I hadn't tried
Not really, you based your decision on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable an your past experience that new boots can take a while to wear in and might hurt if you have to walk any distance.
Can't get doughnuts out of my head now. I blame you "
lol we could go on all day about this, unfortunately I don't have the time, or incline too,dont eat too many doughnuts, . A minute on the lips a lifetime on the hips |
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"My post above made sense to me
Great you based your choice of boots on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable and good for walking makes sense more to the point I had an opinion on summit I hadn't tried
Not really, you based your decision on the knowledge that your old boots were comfortable an your past experience that new boots can take a while to wear in and might hurt if you have to walk any distance.
Can't get doughnuts out of my head now. I blame you lol we could go on all day about this, unfortunately I don't have the time, or incline too,dont eat too many doughnuts, . A minute on the lips a lifetime on the hips"
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Oh no how much is too much? Hips? It's my fat arse I'm worried about . Enjoy your day |
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I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open". "
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. "
Reason : the power of the mind to think, understand, and form judgements logically. |
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
Reason : the power of the mind to think, understand, and form judgements logically."
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
Reason : the power of the mind to think, understand, and form judgements logically."
That's correct reasoning is only possible when you have knowledge, experience and fact. When you don't it's called prejudice. I'm glad you understand that |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
Reason : the power of the mind to think, understand, and form judgements logically.
That's correct reasoning is only possible when you have knowledge, experience and fact. When you don't it's called prejudice. I'm glad you understand that "
Well done, that's put her gas at a peep!!! |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"I heard a fella with a 10" cock who goes there regularly has syphilis! Cancre penis sores!
I have never been back since."
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"It's an open forum, were all entitled to our opinions
I agree, it's an open forum and if you've been and have experience of a venue or know the people that run it, then you're perfectly entitled to share your opinion
ALL opinions are valid whether led by experience or not. That's why the forum is "open".
The definition of prejudice is: preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
Reason : the power of the mind to think, understand, and form judgements logically.
That's correct reasoning is only possible when you have knowledge, experience and fact. When you don't it's called prejudice. I'm glad you understand that
Well done, that's put her gas at a peep!!! "
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Big sigh...........after reading this thread
I have visited all the clubs in Scotland and I have even visited the shoebox and only played with one person the girls and the management were great
my _iew go and make your own mind up - that goes for all the clubs or socials etc
Life is too short try things out for yourself you might just like it
Have a fab weekend everyone
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"Big sigh...........after reading this thread
I have visited all the clubs in Scotland and I have even visited the shoebox and only played with one person the girls and the management were great
my _iew go and make your own mind up - that goes for all the clubs or socials etc
Life is too short try things out for yourself you might just like it
Have a fab weekend everyone
Claire
Ps or I will squeeze you to death with my booby hugs "
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"We have personally never been and probably wouldn't go.
The size of the venue and lack of private areas puts us off.
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if only closed minds came with closed mouths
This is so very real in the Scottish fab forum and club scene....people are very much like sheep and follow each other, not forgetting the dramas that follow certain members around who may be associated with certain groups and certain clubs....therefore certain people and clubs get blacklisted.
Make your own opinion and open your mind and live a little....perhaps you may get a surprise that theirs a life outside that little box many live in.
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I could not agree more!! .... we took a little break to come back and see exactly what you have said .... we've heard story's whilst we were away but that's just story's packs gangs and story tellers is one thing we didn't join the site for ... I think many ppl get too involved too wrapped up in all the drama ... I'm so very glad not everyone does and to hav a life and enjoy some extra fun is two diff things .... have your opinion everyone should but really all these heated exchanges over someone's opinion on somewhere they have never been before!!! if we were all to go on hearsay fab would be pretty much FKD |
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One of the reasons I really liked the shoebox is because it's only one room.
As a very shy newbie to this, it helps break the ice as you have nowhere to hide! Still easy to say no and sit out though.
Went to cjs and felt it was just too big. "Loads of guys just trawling the corridors, lol.
Don't get me wrong, cjs is an amazing venue and I'm sure I'll be back once I've built up my confidence a bit!! |
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"One of the reasons I really liked the shoebox is because it's only one room.
Went to cjs and felt it was just too big. "Loads of guys just trawling the corridors, lol "
Single guy doesn't like a club having private rooms, and thinks there's too many single guys hanging about
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ?? "
Interesting point.
I'm quite sure I'll get shot down for this but now that you've put the two descriptions together....
the difference could be that from the womans perspective, a gangbang is an act of willing surrender to 'allcomers' (or whoever is present by whichever consent has been agreed upon) and a greedy girl scenario is an act of procurement whereby the woman can choose from all of the helpings on offer and those that aren't chosen can't force their participation in the proceedings.
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"One of the reasons I really liked the shoebox is because it's only one room.
Went to cjs and felt it was just too big. "Loads of guys just trawling the corridors, lol
Single guy doesn't like a club having private rooms, and thinks there's too many single guys hanging about
Good point lol!!! Just felt a bit predatory. Guilty by charge tho lol
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"I dont go to clubs but as its getting brought up on this thread something iv always wondered wat is the difference between gangbangs and greedy girls events ??
Interesting point.
I'm quite sure I'll get shot down for this but now that you've put the two descriptions together....
the difference could be that from the womans perspective, a gangbang is an act of willing surrender to 'allcomers' (or whoever is present by whichever consent has been agreed upon) and a greedy girl scenario is an act of procurement whereby the woman can choose from all of the helpings on offer and those that aren't chosen can't force their participation in the proceedings.
Up for debate but definitely a good point. "
I would tend to agree with this.
I would class myself as a bit of a greedy girl, but selective in my choice of playmates, & definitely not open to a "free for all".
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