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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'm not a believe in one egg in a basket. I'd stay but situation depending. If it's dating then I would probably still meet or talk to people. If I started sleeping with them I'd keep fab but not use it. If it became official and I was sure it wasn't gonna go Pete Tong then I'd then leave.
In my experiences I get a girlfriend. Kill off fab and fuck buddies. Be the good guy. It ends and month later and I have no one to fuck and I think why didn't I just not tell the fuck buddy but not sleep with them.
So all my eggs stay in the basket and slowly get taken out one at a time. |
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"Personally I'm not a believe in one egg in a basket. I'd stay but situation depending. If it's dating then I would probably still meet or talk to people. If I started sleeping with them I'd keep fab but not use it. If it became official and I was sure it wasn't gonna go Pete Tong then I'd then leave.
In my experiences I get a girlfriend. Kill off fab and fuck buddies. Be the good guy. It ends and month later and I have no one to fuck and I think why didn't I just not tell the fuck buddy but not sleep with them.
So all my eggs stay in the basket and slowly get taken out one at a time. "
Wouldn't say that statements did you any favours lol talk about cake and eat it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Man like myself doesn't need favours haha
I see your point obviously but in terms of relationships (and not casual sex) I am very traditional. I believe in meeting people uou naturally click with in real life like the good old days before apps and social media. Relationships were more sacred and lasted longer instead of 2 dates back on tinder or fab.
I'm also not wanting a girl for well a while. Too many plans. So if I did get one it would to be naturally magical in which I wouldn't mind but would need to be sure she felt the same way  |
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I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.
I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it |
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"I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.
I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it "
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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Stay on fab to talk to friends and have a laugh in the forums (pretty much all I do now anyway).
Certainly wouldn't meet anyone or lead people to believe "I'm keeping my options open" just in case.. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.
I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it "
would hide my profile too |
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"I'd probably stay active as far as looking at the forum and stuff while I was dating someone but as soon as it started to get serious and I was in a relationship I'd stop messaging people on the site. I'd still look on the forum because I don't see them as being harmful but I wouldn't message.
I'm one of those who see texting/flirting while in a relationship as cheating. If I wouldn't be happy about someone doing it to me I won't do it
would hide my profile too"
That's another very fair point! Id probably do that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationships are all different it depends on the two people and how they feel honestly and communication right from the start and both sides agreeing on what should happen is a good start ,Its amazing when cupids arrow strikes  |
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I was in one on met via here until recently when it ended...
but still kept the profile open for chatrooms etc.... just stated on the profile that I wasnt meeting full stop...
I'd been talking to some people regarding meets and when i became spoken for I sent them a courtesy message saying i wouldnt be meeting anyone and explained why.....
now im single again I've met one of them and arranging a meet with a couple of the others |
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