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Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted |
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over a year ago
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"Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted"
It sounds the same thing to me, so no point in having a made up slang term for it. |
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"Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted"
cheers kola
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"Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghostedcheers kola"
Merci Kola!
May be I should find an Urban English class   |
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"Being used and being ghosted are very diffrent. meet a fem when out butter them up to get sex promising to phone while knowing you wont is being used......spending time with someone cultivating a relationship of sorts on each others social media then they get sex and completly wipe the person out their life ghosted"
Thanks, was a new one to me too |
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"i dont know aboutbeing ghosted but being used YES maybe im just to soft natured but either way it is a horrible thing to do  "
Never heard the term but it happens and yes it is a low thing to do |
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
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Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk  |
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk "
I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.  |
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk "
trick is to only expect to get sex out of it...nothing more
Far too many treat this site as a dating site then when it all goes tits up are surprised that the guy/girl has moved on ...if you make friends great...if not hey ho trick is not to expect anything more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk trick is to only expect to get sex out of it...nothing more
Far too many treat this site as a dating site then when it all goes tits up are surprised that the guy/girl has moved on ...if you make friends great...if not hey ho trick is not to expect anything more "
Wise words lovely lady  |
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk
I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo. "
Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk
I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.
Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway "
Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk
I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.
Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway
Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather! "
Ahhhh hope you don't get man flu then |
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk "
If I don't ghost you
Can I give you the Willies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe too many folk forgetting this is a sex site and nothing more
Agreed, but whether you think Fab is a Swinger site or a sex site (hotly debated on other threads) it's still low to profess something more just to get what you want sexually and also no need but then there's nowt as weird as folk
I'm still not going to let you "ghost" me, Flo.
Lol you're a zombie in your pic anyway
Zombie? I was just a bit under the weather!
Ahhhh hope you don't get man flu then "
I get "young man flu". |
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I just spent three weeks with my childhood sweetheart, I hadn't seen her for 20 years. We had great sex and laughted all the time, I thought it was the real deal after all these years and then BOOM, it's over just went all cold on me for no apparent reason. Gutted I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Aww brutal
Aye I was gutted but I'm strong, already moved on. No point musing over it, NEXT.
am glad to hear that shame though hugs
Thank you xxx"
your welcome
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world "
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x"
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you "
Or people could just speak proper English. |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English. "
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son "
PROPER English... |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English... "
Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English...
Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal "
I wouldn't expect it from aanyone from EK!  |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English...
Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal "
ah agree, jist no gonny happen |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English... "
One will endeavour to mind ones "p"s and "q"s |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English...
Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal ah agree, jist no gonny happen "
Ocht he can dream Lil |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English...
One will endeavour to mind ones "p"s and "q"s "
Especially when you Q for a P... |
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"I always thought a ghoster was when you did nightshift on building sites.
My... how words change meaning quickly in the modern world
In the restaurant industry it means the server is stealing... This is what I thought the post was about
K x
Wow you reallly need to know what/who/context don't you
Or people could just speak proper English.
English??? Like... apples'n'pears me old son
PROPER English...
Proper English in the Scottish forum naw nae chance pal
I wouldn't expect it from aanyone from EK! "
I'm not aanyone lol . I stay in EK but I'm not from there |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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What ever happened to good old honesty ..dont agree with anyone leaving someone hanging not knowing where they stand..its not something i would ever dream of doing and certainly wont be happy if it happened to me ....yep i had to urban dictionary it just to get the full jist of ghosting lol |
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Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level. |
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By *UNKIEMan
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"Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level. "
From what i can make out ghosting isnt a breakdown of communication or someone telling lies to get what they want ....think its more 1 person not prepared to be honest with another on where they stand and leaving the other person hanging  i could be wrong tho ..i usually am |
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"Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level.
From what i can make out ghosting isnt a breakdown of communication or someone telling lies to get what they want ....think its more 1 person not prepared to be honest with another on where they stand and leaving the other person hanging i could be wrong tho ..i usually am "
In other words, USING THEM. |
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"Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level.
From what i can make out ghosting isnt a breakdown of communication or someone telling lies to get what they want ....think its more 1 person not prepared to be honest with another on where they stand and leaving the other person hanging i could be wrong tho ..i usually am
In other words, USING THEM. "
Yes to both - meeting someone on here for NSA is fine. Having a relationship which may or may not have its ups and downs is fine. Instigating a relationship when all you really want is sex or to get sexual experiences that you wouldn't otherwise have - WRONG!
I think that's it - but like you Bunks I could be wrong in the definition but that's how I understand it ... CxXx |
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By *UNKIEMan
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"Agree Bunkie...Sometimes communication can break down but if two people really want to then they can work things out. Both have to try though... that can happen. However when one person deliberately lies to get a sexual advantage that's deception of a really low level.
From what i can make out ghosting isnt a breakdown of communication or someone telling lies to get what they want ....think its more 1 person not prepared to be honest with another on where they stand and leaving the other person hanging i could be wrong tho ..i usually am
In other words, USING THEM. "
No i dont agree its as simple as using both completely wrong in my book but very different |
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