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Has swinging changed your life?
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Ok so i started swinging after a i was involved in a traumatic event that nearly took my life several times in 2005 and three years later lots of operation's,physio and not so sexy stuff i took the bull by the horns and wanted to chat to people and have some fun in my life.
I joined a swinger's site as a single female and became a happier and much more confident person. I have had some AMAZING sexual experience's. I met my wonderful boyfriend and the man i love via fab. I have brilliant and supportive friend's on here whom i'am very close too and can be myself.
Yes i'am disabled and i have scar's, bad memory's/flashback and stretch marks but im the happiest now than i have ever been and it's thanks to fab swinger's and all the swinger's i have met on here. 
How has swinging changed your life for better or for worse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always good to see people thinking more positive mrs naughty hun , an your loverly just the way you are ,
wouldnt say its changed my life but def has made me more aware of what i really want and enjoy that was missing in it.
who i wanted to be an i can be that now as sioux , oh i fink i have multiple personalities now lol shh you , no you lol xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting set of circs as to how you chose the scene.
Look forward to this thread growing with oodles of diffrent accounts of how others chose,tried or stumbled across the idea of swinging.
Just a lifestyle choice for me now, ten years on, its safe to call it that i think.
T xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had come out of an abusive marriage with very low self esteem and zero cobnfidence and believed I was frigid. Swinging has helped me regain that confidence, improved my self esteem and I know I am definately definately not frigid. I have explored my sexuality and have met people who have become very good and close friends.
So "swinging" has had a very postive impact on my life.
Thank you to the people who helped me on this journey of discovery
Kay xxx |
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Great to hear that fine and Kay i can totally empathise with you. I felt i was unattractive, generally no self-esteem or the confidence to speak to people and swinging has helped me to gain confidence and be happier in myself. Glad again that im not the only one thinking this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It lets me enjoy various sexual encounters without feeling like a cheap slut. We are so much more accepting in our community. It's ok for a girl to say, god i'm horny, who wants it?
As a couple it brought variety to the bedroom, but as a single woman i feel there's not as much swinging as I'd like, it's more about 1-2-1s.
But I couldn't give it up, and any future partner would have to be ok with it too. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes deffinately changed me, make more of an efort now regards grooming like nasal n ear hair always trimmed, shaved below and also armpits but thats just the physical stuff. probably am a lot mre respectfull and understanding of women now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This may sound sad but here goes
me and ma partner have been togather on and off for nealry five years and chris used to cheat alot and i had no trust for him we got talking about why he cheated and he said he had a high sex drive no excuse but thats men so anyway we heard about this site from a freind and we joined it and since we have joined it chris has stopped cheating and is honest with me about everything so yes it has changed our life and for the better as we now r stronger also we communicate better and i trust him as we doing this as a couple |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"This may sound sad but here goes
me and ma partner have been togather on and off for nealry five years and chris used to cheat alot and i had no trust for him we got talking about why he cheated and he said he had a high sex drive no excuse but thats men so anyway we heard about this site from a freind and we joined it and since we have joined it chris has stopped cheating and is honest with me about everything so yes it has changed our life and for the better as we now r stronger also we communicate better and i trust him as we doing this as a couple "
sorry but the cheating is not ALL men and if you have started swinging just to stop him cheating, I feel you have joined for the wrong reasons. The reason, is of course, yours and yours alone. I offer no offence in this post.
You should swing becuase you BOTH want to, it should add something to your sex life.. not just stop him from straying.
Again, I mean no offence. |
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By *ouple123Couple
over a year ago
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We started swinging through pure curiosity! Both of us had fantasies about being with multiple partners.
we are in a very loving marriage and trust each other fully and the thought of cheating never an option.
Swinging to us is pure excitement, being in control and having fun - pure and simple. Being who and what you want to be without being judged.
No stopping us now!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This may sound sad but here goes
me and ma partner have been togather on and off for nealry five years and chris used to cheat alot and i had no trust for him we got talking about why he cheated and he said he had a high sex drive no excuse but thats men so anyway we heard about this site from a freind and we joined it and since we have joined it chris has stopped cheating and is honest with me about everything so yes it has changed our life and for the better as we now r stronger also we communicate better and i trust him as we doing this as a couple
sorry but the cheating is not ALL men and if you have started swinging just to stop him cheating, I feel you have joined for the wrong reasons. The reason, is of course, yours and yours alone. I offer no offence in this post.
You should swing becuase you BOTH want to, it should add something to your sex life.. not just stop him from straying.
Again, I mean no offence."
none taken and yes we both wanted to join infact it was my idea to join chris mentioned it to me and i had a look and got hooked |
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Swinging hasn't changed our lives but has made lives a whole lot more fun!! We have gone from being just mum and dad to fun exciting Mr and Mrs Lovers lol, met great friends and had alot of good times along the way. xxxx |
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