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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? |
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? "
its you , and its desperate  |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it
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But would you enjoy it if you only ever had that as an option?
I get that some see it as thrilling but if that's all there was would the novelty wear off? |
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? "
Im the same as you and like my comforts and unrushed meets .
I wouldnt say those who like it are desperate bit horny maybe but not desperate .
But I think your right in that the older I get its not for me .
Good luck to those who do like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A like my comfort and no rush but I do think it could be the thrill of doing something that is risqué. Personally I haven't had full sex in a car but never say never. Each to their own. |
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There's a time and a place for everything. When you just can't keep your hands off each other, or want a wee bit more excitement, then it's perfect.
If you can't keep your hands to yourself and you're close to home, then that is perfect too! Sometimes having sex in a different place can introduce new positions and new excitement.
Sex is as much in the mind as in the body, I take that to mean that for great sex a connection is needed and the right scene to be set. |
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"We enjoy both indoor and outdoor fun, there's nothing desperate about it
But would you enjoy it if you only ever had that as an option?
I get that some see it as thrilling but if that's all there was would the novelty wear off? "
Why would it ever be the only option?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me?
its you , and its desperate "
its ok if both of use cant accomidate .but its usualy so the guy can get a quickie when he's ment to be at asda ...never saw a woman ask for a car meet .unless she's dogging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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LovE car and outdoor sex and no there's nothing desperate about it.
That's like saying having sex in a club is desperate which it isn't.
Different strokes for different folks.
It's not for anyone to judge them.
Some like being tied up some like pain. Everyone is different that's what makes it interesting. Be a dull world if everyone liked the same stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it's the usual Fab message looking for a quickie in the car on the way home, any holes a goal type then it's desperate and I'll pass thanks.
However I'm partial to a bit of outdoor fun with someone I know. I like a comfy bed/sofa/shower as much as the next person but there is a certain rush that comes from being bent over the bonnet of a car while a warm summer rain falls .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a time and a place for everything. When you just can't keep your hands off each other, or want a wee bit more excitement, then it's perfect.
If you can't keep your hands to yourself and you're close to home, then that is perfect too! Sometimes having sex in a different place can introduce new positions and new excitement.
Sex is as much in the mind as in the body, I take that to mean that for great sex a connection is needed and the right scene to be set."
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? "
Love your username!
Are you a DJ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think as with others there's a time and a place. Outdoor/car can be fun exciting and thrilling with the right person for the right reasons. But being a single female for years on here you learn quick single guys will opt for anything just to get there 'hole'! I'd never outdoor or car with randoms. If they couldn't put time and effort and more imagination into meeting me then they can have outdoor fun with pam and her sisters as often as they like not me lol.! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Indoor is good but outdoor with someone you know and trust can be fantastic.
Maybe its just cause I have recently started thinking more about outdoor fun and finding quiet places for uninterupted fun.
Plus who wants to be stuck inside on a lovely summers day ???   |
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"I wouldn't call it desperate. Some people like the thrill.
Wouldn't you get bored of only ever having sex in a bed? "
Absolutely agree , nowt wrong with some variety and trying things , outdoor is plenty fun in the right circumstances |
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By (user no longer on site)
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for me, its not thrilling or desperate it just your choice. I do not like outdoor or car sex, never have nor never will. On the occasion I tried them both when younger it was not enjoyable but as stated in my profile I'm looking for a long session right through the night and into morning.
So I will leave it to others to enjoy
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it is thrilling or desperate tbh not something I like but a lot do so each to their own I guess x"
Yep, horses for courses and down to person mood and moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? "
No im not into car sex either, id rather have my home comforts than a quick fuck before a guy goes home to the wife lol if im seeing someone though i dont mind a wee play out in the car but not an actual meet if ye get me?? Lol |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think some are missing the thrust of the ops comment its not whether car sex is good between folk who know each other. Its randoms msging daily asking for it that to me is desprate "
Thats exactly it. I'm also not out to cause offence.
I suppose I wonder if anyone does the random meet now stuff?
I'm very "vanilla" in comparison to many on here but I'm quite happy with that. |
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By *illnatMan
over a year ago
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Have had a few car meets.... broad daylight.... thrilling! Prefer home comforts though as the chances of being caught are a little bit of a nightmare but so good at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have done car fun a fair bit over the years and within the last week  but only with someone I knew and trusted.
Did a dogging meet with someone I'd met at club and yes it was cold, (and my shoes were so wet, I had to stuff with tissue to use them to drive home in!) but the stress of being caught and other ppl following car have now stopped that.
I've now found locations that I know I can enjoy at least an hour uninterrupted
But if big comfy bed, bath, shower, sofa, you name it, I'm there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some are missing the thrust of the ops comment its not whether car sex is good between folk who know each other. Its randoms msging daily asking for it that to me is desprate
Thats exactly it. I'm also not out to cause offence.
I suppose I wonder if anyone does the random meet now stuff?
I'm very "vanilla" in comparison to many on here but I'm quite happy with that. "
Never have done random meets, have always spoken to the person for a couple of weeks. Think it's down to a safety thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me? "
in the "heat of the moment" anywhere is good for sex as long as reasonably discreet
car too cold in winter!!! what type of car do some people drive, most cars today have better heating systems than most home central heating.
Heavy rain or snow outside, lashing down on the windscreen, roasting warm and steamed up inside is sometimes very exciting, fun and daring.
Same as outside sex on a summers day in the hills (remember that blanket on the ground)
guess some have a lack of adventure, perhaps stuck in a routine, or a shape and figure that needs to be hidden under a blanket with lights out
Let yourself go, enjoy heat of the moment fun, think of that lovely drink ad - "anywhere, anyplace, anytime"
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life can be fun and exciting |
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"At 34 I'm past the stage of sneaking about and looking for quiet spots for a quick fumble.
If I'm having sex I want it to be good. Free of inhibitions, not rushed, somewhere safe and comfortable. Where all involved can really indulge and enjoy. For that reason car sex or "outdoor fun" doesn't appeal to me.
Yet on an almost daily basis on fab its offered to me like I should be grateful. Like I'm somehow missing out by turning it down. That the sex I desire is boring and unexciting.
Where as look at it as a bit desperate.
Is it just me?
in the "heat of the moment" anywhere is good for sex as long as reasonably discreet
car too cold in winter!!! what type of car do some people drive, most cars today have better heating systems than most home central heating.
Heavy rain or snow outside, lashing down on the windscreen, roasting warm and steamed up inside is sometimes very exciting, fun and daring.
Same as outside sex on a summers day in the hills (remember that blanket on the ground)
guess some have a lack of adventure, perhaps stuck in a routine, or a shape and figure that needs to be hidden under a blanket with lights out
Let yourself go, enjoy heat of the moment fun, think of that lovely drink ad - "anywhere, anyplace, anytime"
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life can be fun and exciting"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol I'm definitely an owner of a body that should be hidden under a blanket with the lights out!
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If you thought that you wouldn't have pics of your body of a website for anyone to see 
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Lol I'm definitely an owner of a body that should be hidden under a blanket with the lights out!
If you thought that you wouldn't have pics of your body of a website for anyone to see
Xx
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Gotta love filters, angles and breathing in! |
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