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Is there anybody on this site who is looking for a shag. We joined thinking that we might have some fun but all we seem to get is endless time wasters. Most of the people that contact us would be better off phoning the samaritins or Scottish Power if there looking for endless chat
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"Ones that don't want to fuck just endless chat why not join talk talk "
Not everyone want to fuck without getting to know a bit ....everyone played differently ....it's not just a fuck site for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones that don't want to fuck just endless chat why not join talk talk
Not everyone want to fuck without getting to know a bit ....everyone played differently ....it's not just a fuck site for everyone."
This and your earlier advice is excellent  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Those that don't want fucked end of "
The problem with this statement is just because they don't want to fuck you doesn't mean they don't want to fuck anyone! This is not a timewaster it's people making a choice not to meet you. |
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"It doesn't seem like a fuck site for anyone just endless messages and no meets "
It's not just about fucking , there's a scene ...not just fucking there's a lot of different things rolled into the swinging scene ...fetish, role play, friendships, sex, parties , gangbangs etc etc.....think maybe open your mind more into what happens and you might understand not everyone is a time waster maybe they just use the scene differently than you. |
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"Not saying that we haven't chatted and chatted and arranged meets and then nothing or lame excuses"
There are a certain amount of timewasters which normally consist of men pretending to be couples or those that like the chase and not the reality but if it's happening regularly then you are the common denominator and that's when you need to look at your process of selection etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it endless chat making arrangements and then backing out "
Sometimes people change their minds and it can be quite easy to say something in a message which the other person finds off putting and they decide that actually you are not for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not saying that we haven't chatted and chatted and arranged meets and then nothing or lame excuses"
I'm not sure if you're seeking feedback but Tands and Life is right there's a lot more to swinging than just fucking and if I can say so, you come across here as rather aggressive in looking to be "fucked" without "constant chatting" (yet you say you want loads of messages on your profile. They do say if you constantly run into the same problem then you should look at yourself not others as YOU are the common denominator. I've been a couple and a single here for six years and NEVER had a timewaster in all that time.
I wish you both well if you stay on site.
Flo |
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"Not saying that we haven't chatted and chatted and arranged meets and then nothing or lame excuses
I'm not sure if you're seeking feedback but Tands and Life is right there's a lot more to swinging than just fucking and if I can say so, you come across here as rather aggressive in looking to be "fucked" without "constant chatting" (yet you say you want loads of messages on your profile. They do say if you constantly run into the same problem then you should look at yourself not others as YOU are the common denominator. I've been a couple and a single here for six years and NEVER had a timewaster in all that time.
I wish you both well if you stay on site.
Flo"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not saying that we haven't chatted and chatted and arranged meets and then nothing or lame excuses
I'm not sure if you're seeking feedback but Tands and Life is right there's a lot more to swinging than just fucking and if I can say so, you come across here as rather aggressive in looking to be "fucked" without "constant chatting" (yet you say you want loads of messages on your profile. They do say if you constantly run into the same problem then you should look at yourself not others as YOU are the common denominator. I've been a couple and a single here for six years and NEVER had a timewaster in all that time.
I wish you both well if you stay on site.
Flo"
This
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"I would message you but I'm blocked.
Not into long winded messages and happy to turn up when arranged.
I don't think you read their profile hence why you are probably blocked "
 this made me actually chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't fall into their category and I'm not blocked... YET 
Aye, you've just blocked all your stalke... er admirers."
I don't have a block list I'll have you know young man... just filters 
Oooer admirers and stalkers???? gosh... I'm flattered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't fall into their category and I'm not blocked... YET
Aye, you've just blocked all your stalke... er admirers.
I don't have a block list I'll have you know young man... just filters
Oooer admirers and stalkers???? gosh... I'm flattered "
She called me "young man"! I am SO in there!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't fall into their category and I'm not blocked... YET
Aye, you've just blocked all your stalke... er admirers.
I don't have a block list I'll have you know young man... just filters
Oooer admirers and stalkers???? gosh... I'm flattered
She called me "young man"! I am SO in there! "
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After downing a large quantity of vino calapso we updated our profile and had a rant on the forum.
Normally we wouldn't have been so blunt and was thinking of removing our post this morning but on reflection to be honest that is how we feel although we maybe wouldn't have said it so bluntly.
And maybe it might cut down the amount of time wasters we get. |
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"After downing a large quantity of vino calapso we updated our profile and had a rant on the forum.
Normally we wouldn't have been so blunt and was thinking of removing our post this morning but on reflection to be honest that is how we feel although we maybe wouldn't have said it so bluntly.
And maybe it might cut down the amount of time wasters we get. "
Only a change in you and your vetting process will help prevent "time wasters " not rants .
I can say it will have cut down alot of genuine interest though . Alot of people use the forums as part of their filtering system and will use notes or blocks after seeing posts . So I'm afraid it would of put off the very people you may of been interested in .
I know it's easy to get fustrated but alcohol and forums rarely end well .I do hope you find what you are looking for . |
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I may not like your mannerisms but I like your bluntness. And imo it should help filter out the lovey doveys im guessing you want no part of. Unfortunatly alot of folk like a certain amount of fakeness so you will also have lost alot of possible meets |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"After downing a large quantity of vino calapso we updated our profile and had a rant on the forum.
Normally we wouldn't have been so blunt and was thinking of removing our post this morning but on reflection to be honest that is how we feel although we maybe wouldn't have said it so bluntly.
And maybe it might cut down the amount of time wasters we get. "
Alcohol and the forums seldom mix!
And as has been said, you may have cut down on the timewasters, but also the good guys too, as the forums often form part of peoples' filtering process, and you came across as ultra aggressive!!   |
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"It doesn't seem like a fuck site for anyone just endless messages and no meets "
It's not a 'fuck site' it's a swingers site. Most people like to make sure the people they are going to meet are right for them hence a wee bit of chatting or a social.
I'd suggest you just go to a nightclub and pull a random if you're just looking with an 'any holes a goal' attitude |
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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago
Lothians |
Problem is A lot of people join this "Swinging" site expecting intent sex thinking its easier and cheaper than going to the pub or club on the Pull! A lot of people forget this is a swinging site and NOT a dial a shag and if it dont go the way they want it then the toys come out the cot. looking at their profile I think they are on the wrong site. Like it has already been stated its not just about sex! we have met lots and not had sex with them still had fantastic time its not the be all end all. Its called fabe "Swingers" not fab shagars lol |
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"It doesn't seem like a fuck site for anyone just endless messages and no meets "
I noticed your profile and thought Mrs Hot Hot Hot was indeed very Hot Hot Hot! Couldn't imagine backing out of any arranged meet with you two
Unfortunately as a single guy, I Wasn't what you were looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't seem like a fuck site for anyone just endless messages and no meets
I noticed your profile and thought Mrs Hot Hot Hot was indeed very Hot Hot Hot! Couldn't imagine backing out of any arranged meet with you two
Unfortunately as a single guy, I Wasn't what you were looking for "
Yup! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've had 4 meets with couples in 9 weeks, I'd say that's a decent strike rate, there are time wasters here for sure and your profile probably attracts a lot of wannabes because you look like a fun couple, just stick with it, I don't think your doing too bad |
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I don't really think it is anyone's business why you are here. There is a huge amount of awareness out there now about mental health issues and probably more user's than share are aware of them or have had their lifes affected in some way.
Good luck op for my tuppence worth sometimes less is more. I certainly wouldn't have discussed something quite so personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My normal selection is look at profile make sure they have genuine veryifies and then message their is that many different types of people on here it's hard to find happy medium some want social some want just sex some want just sex but don't want messages stating that lol fake guys are a pain they ruin it for everyone thing about me if I say I will meet yous I will!! |
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