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CJ's Couple & Fem 5th Nov
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are thinking about it, would be the first time for us..stupid question but when you say couples and females is that exclusive or is there single guys aswell? |
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"We are thinking about it, would be the first time for us..stupid question but when you say couples and females is that exclusive or is there single guys aswell? "
Hey. Not a stupid question at all. The only guys that will be there are either those that are with their partner together as a couple or those that are with their FB. No others. 
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"We are thinking about it, would be the first time for us..stupid question but when you say couples and females is that exclusive or is there single guys aswell?
Hey. Not a stupid question at all. The only guys that will be there are either those that are with their partner together as a couple or those that are with their FB. No others.
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Personally think it should be as it says on the tin, couples and single females! No fuck buddies! Yeah it's not easy to tell the difference but sometimes it's very easy to spot and sadly it does ruin it at times for new couples who come looking for a starting point in the scene and for other couples who just want a more relaxed night to get to know other couples
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"We are thinking about it, would be the first time for us..stupid question but when you say couples and females is that exclusive or is there single guys aswell?
Hey. Not a stupid question at all. The only guys that will be there are either those that are with their partner together as a couple or those that are with their FB. No others.
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Personally think it should be as it says on the tin, couples and single females! No fuck buddies! Yeah it's not easy to tell the difference but sometimes it's very easy to spot and sadly it does ruin it at times for new couples who come looking for a starting point in the scene and for other couples who just want a more relaxed night to get to know other couples
John "
Why does it ruin the night if couples aren't an item? We don't all have empty homes to meet up in. Personally I have teenagers at home. I am going with a fab friend that I've known quite a while.
I certainly wouldn't go on my own as a single female. |
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"We are thinking about it, would be the first time for us..stupid question but when you say couples and females is that exclusive or is there single guys aswell?
Hey. Not a stupid question at all. The only guys that will be there are either those that are with their partner together as a couple or those that are with their FB. No others.
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Personally think it should be as it says on the tin, couples and single females! No fuck buddies! Yeah it's not easy to tell the difference but sometimes it's very easy to spot and sadly it does ruin it at times for new couples who come looking for a starting point in the scene and for other couples who just want a more relaxed night to get to know other couples
John
Why does it ruin the night if couples aren't an item? We don't all have empty homes to meet up in. Personally I have teenagers at home. I am going with a fab friend that I've known quite a while.
I certainly wouldn't go on my own as a single female."
Because single guys use it as a way to get in with couples, if that's what they want then goto the nights that cater for that and stop ruining the nights that aren't. We wouldn't goto a TV night to try and meet single females would we?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think what john is trying to say is that in the past there have been examples of single males tagging along with single fems to gain entry to the club then once inside they pretty much go their separate ways for the rest of the night. It happens from time to time its most definitely not every pair of friends that decide to attend together or every 'fuck buddy' couple but it does happen.
We really don't want to be one of those couples that labels all single males a pain in the arse because a great number of the single guys that attend CJ's (and here on site too) are genuinely decent respectful blocks who just want to have a good time. Sadly there are a good few who are a royal pain in the arse and the couples nights are supposed to be a night where you don't have to run the 'creepy single male' gauntlet every time you go up stairs in the club lol
There are a few single males who attend the couples nights reguarly and they turn up each time with a different companion. As long as they act respectfully it doesn't bother us so much but on a couple of occasions the couples nights have adopted some of the minor issues the fun for all nights sometimes have.
Anyway hopefully thats not all complete gibberish its 9.30am and I haven't been to bed yet.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's got to be unrealistic to say that your ever go I to be able to police an single fem n couples night, what about people that aren't on fab you would never know if they were together or not??
Also it's not just single guys that can be a pain, I've had male half of 'proper couples' being pushy and not taking no for an answer.
People just need to take it for what it is and then decide if they want to go or not x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is the couples night always a Saturday?"
Best night for a bigger attendance the midweek parties have much lower turn out I believe. Having said that we wouldn't be adverse to Friday night parties. |
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"Why is the couples night always a Saturday?
Best night for a bigger attendance the midweek parties have much lower turn out I believe. Having said that we wouldn't be adverse to Friday night parties."
Same! 2 days to recover 
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"Why is the couples night always a Saturday?
Best night for a bigger attendance the midweek parties have much lower turn out I believe. Having said that we wouldn't be adverse to Friday night parties."
Same, Friday night parties would be nice. Sunday morning footy duties with little sleep are no fun lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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CJ take note why not organise a Friday night couples evening, we have never been to your club and a couples night really appeals, however Saturday nights are no good for us, I'm sure there are other couples in the same situation |
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Personally thing it should be alternative weekends and nights ie couples night on a Friday and fortnight later on a Saturday and inbetween have fun for all nights
I'm sure some TVs can't make Friday nights at times when the TV nights are on and same goes for GB nights, permanent changes wouldn't suit but alternative would be good. Also have the kink night midmonth so it would suit others and maybe bring new people in who would be at other clubs when kink night is normally on
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice. We are most likely going to nip along tomorrow evening. What is suitable attire for us to wear ? Thanks again for the help x"
Wear what you feel comfortable wearing. You can take something slinky to change into. I usually wear mine under a dress. There's no need to have everything on show if you don't feel comfortable.
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Wear what you feel comfortable wearing. You can take something slinky to change into. I usually wear mine under a dress. There's no need to have everything on show if you don't feel comfortable.
I'll be there with a friend if you want to say hello. "
Agree with this. Wear whatever makes you comfortable although we draw the line with joggie b's. LOl
It'll be a fun night
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always a worry after a very busy night
John 
