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over a year ago
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"Allow yourself to grieve. Then keep busy and be kind to yourself. "
there is no best way, but post above is good, time does help, Lost my wife to the big"C" 3 years now, time slowly helps |
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over a year ago
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The way to get over someone is to get under someone else 
In all seriousness there's nothing for it other than time. A new haircut, new clothes, some great nights out with friends and lots of crying over soppy movies. Sooner or later you'll wonder what you ever saw in them! |
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I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease . |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease ."
I personally don't think I'll ever get over it. I think I have just learned ways to deal with my feeling about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To get over heartache.
Well, get a banana, a cucumber, some lurpak, some sort of gag and a packet of Jaffa cakes.....
Do I need to tell you what to do to get over it, I'm sure you can work it out.
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"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .
I personally don't think I'll ever get over it. I think I have just learned ways to deal with my feeling about it."
your probably right I dont think I will either xx |
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a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.
If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.
It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us
For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain
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"a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.
If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.
It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us
For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain
XxX peter
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a true heartache is losing someone you will never get over, you may recover but there will be times that you think back and wished things were different or you just think back to the good times you had.
If there's anyone feeling like that, I know I have well I'm sure there's always someone to chat to and help take away the pain.
It's life and we have to deal with it, for the sake of others around us
For the ones who have suffered true heartache then there are many who share your pain
XxX peter
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Keep your head Horsey ya Donkey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease ."
This is what I was referring to xx |
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"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .
This is what I was referring to xx"
ah I understand now xx |
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"I guess it depends on the kind of heartache really .
If its a breakup just take your time to decide where you go from here.
If its heartbreak from losing a loved one time is great healer so im told .
Im going through this just now and totally heartbroken and waiting for the pain to ease .
This is what I was referring to xxah I understand now xx"
All very wise words but yes allow yourself to grieve and keep your mind busy and try and recharge |
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Grief is a long thing. It is a lengthy process and not a "feeling" that passes in a few days or weeks.
Our minds can settle into it and stay there, trapped in an unpleasant rut or dwam (good old Scottish word). Best to try and get out and do things, physical exercise, meet people if possible, find new ways to expand yourself (new hobbies, pastimes, interests). Hard to start.. but try to do some of this a little at a time.
Be reasonable with yourself but challenge yourself too. It ain't easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grief is a long thing. It is a lengthy process and not a "feeling" that passes in a few days or weeks.
Our minds can settle into it and stay there, trapped in an unpleasant rut or dwam (good old Scottish word). Best to try and get out and do things, physical exercise, meet people if possible, find new ways to expand yourself (new hobbies, pastimes, interests). Hard to start.. but try to do some of this a little at a time.
Be reasonable with yourself but challenge yourself too. It ain't easy."
Thanks man, some good advice there and greatly appreciated. Take care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get ripped to fuck or looking shit hot if you're a lady.
Work on your confidence and making new friends and connections.
Watch the ex gone crawling back on all 4s.
And tell them to fucking ram it  |
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