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some amount of timewasters on here
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.
I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.
People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.
I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.
People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you"
Very sensible. Those who whine on about timewasters are generally nursing a huge sense of entitlement. People can meet (or not) who they wish to....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.
I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.
People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you
Very sensible. Those who whine on about timewasters are generally nursing a huge sense of entitlement. People can meet (or not) who they wish to.... "
Wise words young lady and young man - I concur!!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'They' seem to be annoying a few members just now as 2 threads running.
I've been accused of being a timewaster before when I stated I would only message via fab!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards  "
Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally |
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally "
My thoughts as well 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally
My thoughts as well
K x"
Thank ya young lady
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards "
I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards? "
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
I think that's called "self respect". Why on earth should anyone lower their standards? "
I thought I had read that wrong initially ... I would never lower my standards and if that earns me the title of time waster then I can live with that!!! |
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"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards "
Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.
I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.
I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
What's the fun in that for me
If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.
Going back to my Camomile tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.
I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.
I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
What's the fun in that for me
If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.
Going back to my Camomile tea "
Chin chin with my green tea and lemon Max |
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"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.
I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.
I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
What's the fun in that for me
If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.
Going back to my Camomile tea
Chin chin with my green tea and lemon Max "
Santé |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Lowering your standards only works if your objective is simply to get laid.
I have no desire to change my standards or my principles while on here!! or anywhere for that matter.
I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
What's the fun in that for me
If having standards and principles makes me a time-waster, I can totally live with that, as it means the person thinking that way is not for me.
Going back to my Camomile tea "
here was me thinking the bag over my head was one of yer kinks tae wummin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You do get lots of time wasters in here in guys and girls and people who think they should be put om a pedestal and not lower there standards
Why should anyone "lower their standards" which doesn't equate to thinking you're on a pedestal incidentally "
I'm a timewaster then I have standards without the pedestal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
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If any of you ladies does decide to lower their standards, I'm quite happy to wear the paper bag. Hell, I'd even supply my own, and sign a non-disclosure agreement, to protect your dignity!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I 'could' lower my standards (she says choking on the words) but the poor guy would have to wear a paper bag over his head before during and after and keep his mouth shut!!!
If any of you ladies does decide to lower their standards, I'm quite happy to wear the paper bag. Hell, I'd even supply my own, and sign a non-disclosure agreement, to protect your dignity! "
Primark bags....rip easily bud..
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I get called a timewaster all the time because I won't take fab chats onto social media. Most will accept due to problems in the past I keep my fab life contained within fab however a few childish individuals think I'm wasting their time as it takes me longer to message them.
Water Ducks Back
Move on forget as plenty more decent people on here xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you class as time-wasting? We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to meeting someone because they weren't our type or they were out of our age range or because we didn't want to meet them when they were horny. We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to quickies so it's subjective really. We class time-wasters as people who don't turn up and never message you to tell you why or people who have no intention to meet but are just fishing for sexting buddies and pics. Or people who tell you at last minute that they won't able to stay long when we specified we don't do quickies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends what you class as time-wasting? We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to meeting someone because they weren't our type or they were out of our age range or because we didn't want to meet them when they were horny. We've been classed as time wasters for saying no to quickies so it's subjective really. We class time-wasters as people who don't turn up and never message you to tell you why or people who have no intention to meet but are just fishing for sexting buddies and pics. Or people who tell you at last minute that they won't able to stay long when we specified we don't do quickies "
Sexcellent points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys class you as a time wasters for saying no? As if I'm not allowed to have a say in who fucks me. Had one guy who asked us to meet him and we said we weren't playing and he responded saying that I was a slut who should do as told. The cheek of it, Dorian replied saying that just because I enjoyed sex didn't mean I was a slut and even if I was i still have final say in who I fuck or if I want fucked and that I still deserve respect and blocked him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys class you as a time wasters for saying no? As if I'm not allowed to have a say in who fucks me. Had one guy who asked us to meet him and we said we weren't playing and he responded saying that I was a slut who should do as told. The cheek of it, Dorian replied saying that just because I enjoyed sex didn't mean I was a slut and even if I was i still have final say in who I fuck or if I want fucked and that I still deserve respect and blocked him "
That sort of rudeness and ignorance deserves a block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET
Could you eat a whole one ? "
only if covered in bacon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET
Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!  "
And ruin my perfect score |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET
Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!
And ruin my perfect score "
Look, somebody has to go first. I'm making you a generous offer here!
And it would ruin my 100% score too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny and I guess there has to be at least one but in six plus years I've never had one... YET
Arrange a meet with me, and I'll be your first!
And ruin my perfect score
Look, somebody has to go first. I'm making you a generous offer here!
And it would ruin my 100% score too."
I wouldn't be able to live with my conscience if I did that |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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It depends on what you class as a time waster !!! My definition would be someone who does not turn up with no prior warning at agreed location.
In all our years we have never had a "time waster" unless you class the bloke that cancelled as he forgot he had paid in advance for his Chinese (who pays in advance ) and it was due to be delivered the same time as we were meeting ..... But to be fair he did say this before we left the house so didn't really waste our time!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me at all. If someone is worth meeting they'll meet you. If they're not you're probably not missing out.
I've not regretted a meet yet... and only regretted one meet that didn't and won't happen now... but it's not the end of my world.
People on here owe you nothing. If you get a meet all well and good... if you don't... just move on find someone who is for you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had to choose between chicken balls and real ones I know what I'D choose but I think you should consider that experience a lucky escape. The move on thing... in spades |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"It depends on what you class as a time waster !!! My definition would be someone who does not turn up with no prior warning at agreed location.
In all our years we have never had a "time waster" unless you class the bloke that cancelled as he forgot he had paid in advance for his Chinese (who pays in advance ) and it was due to be delivered the same time as we were meeting ..... But to be fair he did say this before we left the house so didn't really waste our time!!!!! "
I normally pay in advance  |
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