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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would appreciate any pointers on recognising the signs you have a timewaster on your hands.
Recently been arranging a few multi guy meets with couples/fems and i understand when the guys who initially say "oh yes love to come" then message back to explain something has cropped up and then they cant attend but what i dont understand is the "oh yes i want to come,i will be there,im on my way" guys who simply never show ! Why say that? Why do that?
It would be appreciated, any pointers things to help me identify the timewasters
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"Would appreciate any pointers on recognising the signs you have a timewaster on your hands.
Recently been arranging a few multi guy meets with couples/fems and i understand when the guys who initially say "oh yes love to come" then message back to explain something has cropped up and then they cant attend but what i dont understand is the "oh yes i want to come,i will be there,im on my way" guys who simply never show ! Why say that? Why do that?
It would be appreciated, any pointers things to help me identify the timewasters
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T "
Im a great beliver in giving ppl the benefit of the doubt but think eventually u just know when ur being strung along with the endless excuses of no moblie, too busy at the mo or cancelations and rescheduling i think if uve been chatting for say a month or more n u dont get the comittment to meet then things gonna just fizzle out and its never gonna happen ....
i know for some planning can be dificult as it is for me right now but i have explained to ppl why i can commit to meeting if i cant for most who know me in not a time waster and hopefully they will wait for the meet or they just move on xxxxxxx
ps~i find it very funny when u cant commit how u get called a time waster when ur profile is full of verifications and theres has none
luv jacs
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By (user no longer on site)
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u cant realy spot a time waster cause some of the guys on here can be genuine at the start then make plans 2 meet again a few times realy an no follow threw way the plan an comes up way same old excuse's xx |
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