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over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult trying to get another girl for a ffm threesum?
WTF are we doing wrong lol? "
Can't see anything wrong with your profile TBH (and I'm usually very critical lol). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I gave up. Too many couples make u feel like a performing seal. Or a list of rules a mile long. I'm not there for their entertainment. But more often than not there was noting mildly interesting in it for me. |
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over a year ago
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For me personally as a bigger woman I'm not on a lot of couples radar. From the ones who are interested it's difficult to find a couple where all click.
I'm not giving up the search though!x |
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over a year ago
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No idea what the male half of you is like as there is barely a pic of him to be seen.
And as others have said I'm not sure what I would get out of a couples meet??? I don't want to be someone's plaything or toy for the night, or risk the wife / gf going off on one.
Plus I'm greedy, sharing cock doesn't appeal lol |
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"No idea what the male half of you is like as there is barely a pic of him to be seen.
And as others have said I'm not sure what I would get out of a couples meet??? I don't want to be someone's plaything or toy for the night, or risk the wife / gf going off on one.
Plus I'm greedy, sharing cock doesn't appeal lol "
ya dont have to share make the half time snacks  |
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We've got them all locked up in our cupboard 
The couples nights at cjs are good for meeting single females but I'd say it's good for meeting them and arranging a play for another time with less pressure of others trying to muscle in  that's not to say you'll not have fun that night but find that once the drink flows the chances of play become less and less
Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for
John  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We seem to take ages to get talkingvto folk then seem to have fun with newbies lol, not that newbies aren't fun but we feel we ready to play properly rather than so many nerves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult trying to get another girl for a ffm threesum?
WTF are we doing wrong lol? "
personally for me, I don't meet women that are bi curious- mainly as, what if we start to have fun and you change your mind cos you don't like it after all. For me, I'd rather go with a couple that know what they are |
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"Why is it so difficult trying to get another girl for a ffm threesum?
WTF are we doing wrong lol? personally for me, I don't meet women that are bi curious- mainly as, what if we start to have fun and you change your mind cos you don't like it after all. For me, I'd rather go with a couple that know what they are "
You know what we are but you like to keep an eye on me think I amuse you too much lol
John |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so difficult trying to get another girl for a ffm threesum?
WTF are we doing wrong lol? personally for me, I don't meet women that are bi curious- mainly as, what if we start to have fun and you change your mind cos you don't like it after all. For me, I'd rather go with a couple that know what they are
You know what we are but you like to keep an eye on me think I amuse you too much lol
John "
naughty john and innocent k |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so difficult trying to get another girl for a ffm threesum?
WTF are we doing wrong lol? "
can't see what's wrong, if I was female I'd join you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always had non swinging relationships that were straight, but as a single girl I've enjoyed playing with couples or flirting with other girls at Cjs , some of them are well fitter than me (including your good self!) so feel bit self aware 
But I'm up for it next time you're there  |
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I used to when single only play with couples where the female was bi to help me with my bi side to develop. The biggest issue I came across is alot of the time it's being driven by the guy. Every guy on this sites fantasy is a FFM. I think that's what puts most females of. I think if you social first a few times and make it clear it's the females fantasy and her who is looking for the bi play it will help. I know that from personal experience. Also agree with above you can feel like a performaning monkey as well. Maybe offer bi play to start with just the 2 fems. Hope this helps x |
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When I had a singles profile I never got to meet a couple:
One refused to have a social
Another did the 'it's his birthday so the sole focus is on him' when I politely declined I still got messages.....
Some couples didn't get that it was about me too not just me performing for them - the tell not ask is a real turn off
The guy liked me but the woman didn't hey that's life
It just felt like hard work tbh
So my advice is ask what they would like what's their ideal scenario etc and maybe that might help
More pics of the guy too couples profiles on here drive me nuts as hardly any guys pics! Ok I'm off my soap box
Good luck op xx |
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When I was on here as a single fem I was reluctant to meet couples as I had a couple of bad experiences where the fem was alledgedly bi but as things progressed it was obvious she was doing it for her man can assure it you was not a nice experience.
Now on as a couple looking for ffm and can't get one!!
C'est la vie
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By (user no longer on site)
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I gave up meeting couples ages ago purely because if he and aparent that I was there to fulfill their fantasises rather than it be for mutual pleasure. One couple told me as much and that it would keep them going in foreplay for months 
So not for me now, or ever again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has been a few threads on this and the conclusion I came to was
Not a lot of females meet
Very few want to meet couples
The ones that do stick to regulars
The chances of a couple having an ffm are slim to none x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has been a few threads on this and the conclusion I came to was
Not a lot of females meet
Very few want to meet couples
The ones that do stick to regulars
The chances of a couple having an ffm are slim to none x"
I would say this is a good observation...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I had a singles profile I never got to meet a couple:
One refused to have a social
Another did the 'it's his birthday so the sole focus is on him' when I politely declined I still got messages.....
Some couples didn't get that it was about me too not just me performing for them - the tell not ask is a real turn off
The guy liked me but the woman didn't hey that's life
It just felt like hard work tbh
So my advice is ask what they would like what's their ideal scenario etc and maybe that might help
More pics of the guy too couples profiles on here drive me nuts as hardly any guys pics! Ok I'm off my soap box
Good luck op xx "
I think this is probably accurate |
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