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Telling someone you fancy them
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc.
Txnot just on but in general  "
Then no I wouldn't be shy saying in general what the worst that could happen x |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"On here do you mean? If so I wouldn't use those words more on the lines of saying they looked hot, awesome pics etc.
Tx
Ohhh   "
Lolll now I'm off to check every post I've said awesome pics  |
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame "
I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief |
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame
I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief "
go for it |
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame
I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief
go for it "
It would involve emailing her out of the blue, and I don't even know her orientation lol |
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame
I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief
go for it
It would involve emailing her out of the blue, and I don't even know her orientation lol"
ah okay I see how that could be awkward  |
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"Was terrible at the beginning ..would skirt around it all the time .probably from fear of rejection ..but i am getting better at it lmao ..well i think anyway lol "
just tell them ..whats the worst thing that could happen ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never...
Iv said great pics on your profile...that's about as far as il go  so if its on here how you go from nice pics to fancy some fun ?"
Iv never asked anyone to meet lol
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"Nope never...
Iv said great pics on your profile...that's about as far as il go so if its on here how you go from nice pics to fancy some fun ?Iv never asked anyone to meet lol
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ah so your one of the shy ones who dont ask for meets ? |
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them?
Or are you a go all out to let them know ?
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I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step.
Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step.
That is a turn on for me in a way |
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them?
Or are you a go all out to let them know ?
I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step.
Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step.
That is a turn on for me in a way "
Im quite good at the signs and Im just waiting for the ask ...but if it doesnt come il take the bull by the horns so to speak lol ...only so long a girl can wait |
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them?
Or are you a go all out to let them know ?
I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step.
Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step.
That is a turn on for me in a way Im quite good at the signs and Im just waiting for the ask ...but if it doesnt come il take the bull by the horns so to speak lol ...only so long a girl can wait "
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"I'd defo say fear of rejection lol
But I'm a if it happens it happens if the dosnt I'm not that bothered kinda chick
Lol"
ah right Im no I need to know kind girl if I know there is an attraction for more and I want it to happen then il go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I would just say it and well if the feeling isn't mutual that's ok. I like to tell someone if I think they're hot (and there is a person who definitely knows what I think lol  ) As for in the real world it takes me a lot longer (I can be shy) and seeing as I'm only 5 months single I'm very very out of practice lol xx |
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"Do you struggle to let someone know you fancy them?
Or are you a go all out to let them know ?
I do kinda struggle yes as I can be shy and totally blind to subtle signs... But there has been occasions where I have made big hints and took the first step.
Saying that, in general, I prefer a man to be assertive and make the first step.
That is a turn on for me in a way "
Max, très bon, vous êtes le mien |
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I would have thought the fact that someone either messages or winked at anyone would be enough to tell them they kind of fancy you , unless that meant peeps would fancy anyone for the sake of it, which surely doesn't happen on here |
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I usually try and make it obvious that I like someone and just hope they make the first move. My real struggle is knowing when someone is interested in me...... I don't pick up signals very well lol
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally found being honest but adult about it is fine .
Happily tell someone and fully accept their response as an adult would even if it crushes your soul !
Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally found being honest but adult about it is fine .
Happily tell someone and fully accept their response as an adult would even if it crushes your soul !
Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer "
you know its bad when the first thing you do after a night out is look back your messages to make sure u havent declared your love of someone...and yep i have done that a couple times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally found being honest but adult about it is fine .
Happily tell someone and fully accept their response as an adult would even if it crushes your soul !
Failing that a d*unken pm at 4am telling them you love them is the answer
you know its bad when the first thing you do after a night out is look back your messages to make sure u havent declared your love of someone...and yep i have done that a couple times "
Sure we all have at sometime . After a night out the fear as you check all social media to make sure you haven't told the boss you want to stick your tongue in her dirt box or the hottest lass in the gym that you've paid her numerous tributes on her Instagram is real |
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"Has anyone actually said they fancy anyone yet????
Ok
I fancy Sweet
I had a message from a guy, as this thread is running in the lounge too. Which confused me a bit as he's in England lol"
And you know we both fancy you V |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
bellshill |
"I usually try and make it obvious that I like someone and just hope they make the first move. My real struggle is knowing when someone is interested in me...... I don't pick up signals very well lol
Mrs x"
Every man is interested in you K
Trust me |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
bellshill |
"Has anyone actually said they fancy anyone yet????
Ok
I fancy Sweet
I had a message from a guy, as this thread is running in the lounge too. Which confused me a bit as he's in England lol"
Fancy V too |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
bellshill |
"I never have a problem asking anyone for a coffee then saying yes or no to taking it further for playing.
Still a bit wary of getting too involved with anyone I think. "
Can't tell you I fancy you  |
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"I never have a problem asking anyone for a coffee then saying yes or no to taking it further for playing.
Still a bit wary of getting too involved with anyone I think.
Can't tell you I fancy you "
think you just did
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"I just wouldn't. I'd be terrified of rejection and as soon as I decided I liked someone, I'd already be convincing myself they wouldn't be interested in me"
I thought it was just me that did that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wouldn't. I'd be terrified of rejection and as soon as I decided I liked someone, I'd already be convincing myself they wouldn't be interested in me"
Hi there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult thing to say on here especially when your a single guy as it's unfortunately a given that only a small percentage will reply anyway regardless of how genuine you may be...at least in my experience anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, I am hopeless at asking people out so I don't do it thats a shame
I'm working on it, I met a lady recently who's the first female I've ever wanted to ask on a date, but I just can't bring myself to ask. It's someone I've met only a couple of times so interaction was brief "
Dates make me extremely nervous only way I can do them is if I drink for Dutch courage. However meets on here I'm totally fine with them. Which makes no sense to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I said it once to a guy on here after we met, seen him nearly everyday at work, and text morning noon and night,but it kind of went down hill after i said that. He must have thought i was going to leave things in my real life and move in with him but that so wasnt the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me, I'm an open sleeve, (if there is one. Not shy about showing my emotions and telling the way I feel.
BUT I wont be telling anyone I fancy them in here again, that's for sure.
You'll get the burnt or the pish ripped out of you.
but hey, I can handle that, anyone got gloves so I can hold this cold milk
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In here, I wouldn't tell anyone.
In real life, follow her around, until I get either a date, or a restraining order...
(Sick, I know but it is just a joke) |
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