Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do they really think that'll achieve??
Do they think you'll change your mind after their rant and start chatting??
I've had many a "thanks but no thanks" message, just take it on the chin and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's true though. Never had an issue with guys outwith that range. Even the younger newbies don't seem to get the hump when told no thanks.
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Some see it's a swinging site and just expect a conversation from everyone they message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And Im quite sure if you spoke to the genuine single guys who have been on fab a while they could tell you a few stories on the messages & attitudes from women and couples who get turned down.
Works both ways,you just don't hear guys moaning as much about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not us all, I've had plenty of abuse from women on here ages from 18-60, the real question is will I now tar you all with he same brush or will I assume it's just a few rude few |
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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
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Well out of it also. Besides, no thanks is more than I usually get. Lol. . |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Yes that's why I have my age limit set from age 40 -50 . Guys are a lot more respectful and never get any hassle anymore "
That's because
A. We're too old and lazy to be bothered with insults.
B. We're old and senile and can't remember any insults.
And C......what was I saying???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any person of any age can be a prick.
So to pigeon hole younger guys is idiotic imo
The older you get generally the more short tempered and crabbit you become. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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in all honesty, its good they throw their dummies out, at least you get to know what kinda person they are
here endith the lesson, just bin them
XxxX peter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And Im quite sure if you spoke to the genuine single guys who have been on fab a while they could tell you a few stories on the messages & attitudes from women and couples who get turned down.
Works both ways,you just don't hear guys moaning as much about it."
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
" abusive members are not age spcific nor are they sex specific either womem can be just as bad at giving out abuse.
Its a person thing rather than what you are describing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
abusive members are not age spcific nor are they sex specific either womem can be just as bad at giving out abuse.
Its a person thing rather than what you are describing "
True.
Fudds are not bound by age or gender - they simply are fudds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
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"the abusive messages begin"
After the first abusive message..surely that would have inherited a Report & Block.
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"I think there must be something in the water this week. I've had guys take offence cos I didn't reply to messages, or didn't like my response when I did reply. Major toys out of the pram moments! "
And these guys were in their 50s. |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"I think there must be something in the water this week. I've had guys take offence cos I didn't reply to messages, or didn't like my response when I did reply. Major toys out of the pram moments!
And these guys were in their 50s."
Age is no guide to maturity lol |
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Im in that age group and have to say I prefer it when I get a reply to say no thanks (obviously prefer a yes & conversation lol) and usually I will reply to say thanks and that I appreciate them taking the time to reply to me |
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Think it's just the nature of Fab unfortunately. A lot of people just come on here just thinking meets are a done deal and when it doesn't happen, they can hide behind the profile and get abusive. Don't see the point myself as being on here should be fun and enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
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I got some quite horrid abuse from a 43 year old last weekend for daring to send a polite no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
I got some quite horrid abuse from a 43 year old last weekend for daring to send a polite no thanks "
No need for someone to do that
If someone sends me a thanks but no type message I accept it - if someone has taken time to reply accept it and move on |
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"Well again the idiots are out in force this afternoon.
Get a message reply no thank you twice and then dummy gets launched from the pram and the abusive messages begin.
Now might be me but the abuse always seems to come from single guys of a certain age group 25-35.
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All they do is make it all the more difficult for us other guys to meet and chat as it puts people of and makes them wary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly people hide behind an online persona. Wouldn't do it in real life. Don't have the bottle. Just keyboard warriors.
You get them on any kind of forum online.
Take the moral high ground and ignore them as best as you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age has nothing to do with it in my opinion. I've had some really rude, horrible messages in the past from guys in the 55-65 bracket. It's all about the individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best to delete, block, repeat when it comes to the idiots on here! Sadly the place seems to be rather full of them.
Pity Fab didn't come with an electro-shock function.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There should be a function where a group vote of minimum 15 verified trustworthy longtime users who have a majority vote in whether or not a user Is banned for harassment ect. Too much of this single guys are the worst of the worst lark |
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