I'd have to credit two women.
The first was a co-worker I had an affair with about 13 years ago. Had led a pretty sheltered vanilla life up till then, but she helped me realise that my sexual fantasies weren't abnormal. We split years ago but she was the catalyst to my ending up on fab.
The other was one half of a couple I met here early on. Was a good friend to me and helped me get over first girl above. We never played but was one of the most sexually confident women I've ever met. I understand the female species a lot better for being friends with her. Playing with them could've ruined the friendship. |
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Yes. I don't get to meet him as often as I'd like but when we do meet he gives me the confidence to be me.
I lose my inhibitions about my size and he encourages me and gives me the confidence to wear sexy lingerie...... something that some others in the past have rediculed or made me feel stupid and very self concious about.
Im very much a confident bubbly person in everyday life but he has nurtured and given me the confidence I lacked in intimate situations. |
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If it wasn't for meeting C and joining here I wouldn't be as confident, comfortable with myself, healthy and happy as I am now. I owe him everything.
Right, mushiness over - regular service resumed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had knockbacks in my life always had confidence in myself with people . Played
a lot of sport gave me confidence like a laugh making people laugh but i am.lazy sometimes and just cant be bothered putting myself out there people see me as being quietbon here i think  |
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Been through a really tough few months and although a bubbly, friendly and caring person always I was definitely on a bit of a downer but I have slowly built myself back up and the few people I keep in touch with regularly from here have definitely helped. x |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope! I built mine up myself over the last 18 months, then had a social meet a few weeks ago and it all crashed down again!!
Is that a hint?
Do you need a furry hug again?  "
Aye, it's only been 2 years ya fud x |
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Yes, also someone who took it away. Now I think it comes from within and with experience, learning from your mistakes, turning them into positives and not being so hard on myself. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Yes. Several people have helped me over the years I've been on here.
One in particular helped me to explore my sub side and another my bi side.
A few have remained good friends and have picked me up when I've needed it.
Always more to explore and no doubt I will with the new people I've met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, also someone who took it away. Now I think it comes from within and with experience, learning from your mistakes, turning them into positives and not being so hard on myself. "
this
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" X-Hamster.  you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis "
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger   |
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By *ndykay OP Man
over a year ago
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger "
Is it bad I remember all 3??  |
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3?? "
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc |
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3??
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc "
Is it bad VHS seems old to me |
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3??
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc
Is it bad VHS seems old to me "
Bloody whippersnappers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3??
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc
Is it bad VHS seems old to me
Bloody whippersnappers "
Terrible aren't they  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3??
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc
Is it bad VHS seems old to me
Bloody whippersnappers
Terrible aren't they "
although the young do need educating |
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" X-Hamster. you mean you've been on a porno?
on?? or in? xin
had a horrible image of him dry humping an old VHS tape lol... Where's the brain bleach??
Yer fine it was a betamax tape your showing your age now sis
I only used the philips 2000 as they were bigger
Is it bad I remember all 3??
I had all 3 also used a philips laser disc
Is it bad VHS seems old to me
Bloody whippersnappers
Terrible aren't they although the young do need educating "
Not always  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes a lady I hooked up with from London who was holidaying by herself in the highlands having just being dumped. She made me realise I'm not bad lover after all |
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"Ok, WITHOUT naming names.....
Is there someone who has helped build your confidence sexually?
Encouraged you to try new things?
Helped you on your journey of exploration?
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Yes one in particular who did boost my failing confidence but I dont see him anymore but grateful to him for giving a little more confidence than I had  |
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