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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"is it other men you have said this to or both sexes? The reason is if it had been another guy they may be straight and don't know how to handle a bi guy "
I think that you are right, some guys cant handle it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. I personally don't meet bi guys. Think yeh bi guys are more frowned upon than bi fems. It's the whole act of males able to penetrate each other. Most straight guys wouldn't contemplate being with a guy it's taboo to them. I kinda think if you like girls you shouldn't like men or yer gay lol. Soz I know it's old fashioned but just my view. Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like Bi guys 
I enjoy watching men together and I think in a mmf situation it's better if both guys are bi. Takes away from it all being about you. As always though it's each to there own but plenty of women and couples will meet bi men. Always be honest what you like and i'm sure there will be fun had x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only have to read the bi threads on the forums to see that there’s plenty people out there looking for bi guys, don’t think its frowned upon personally, it normally a preference thing.
Think it’s more the ones who hide behind the straight label that are frowned upon rather than the fact they’re actually bisexual, it’s probably a trust thing, not sure, but it’s a strange one because if everyone was upfront on their profile there would be an even split I’d imagine.
The bottom line is there are people on here looking for bisexual men but struggle to find them or won’t meet them as they say on their profiles they are straight.
Even seen threads on here from other bisexuals saying they won’t meet or they just delete the messages from people who contact them who say they’re straight on their profiles so that backs up the theory it’s more about not being upfront about it than it is about actually being bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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perhaps its more the point people think you are yet another guy who isnt honest as your profile claims you are str8 yet you are really bi....they cut thier loses and block n delete you? |
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Blimey, isn't life complicated sometimes lol
It may be that some men (and I point fingers at no one in particular but I do include myself in "some men") find it difficult to come to terms with the fact that they may be in a sexy situation with a couple where the other man becomes attractive, in a certain way, and that makes them (us) think we should back off ?  |
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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago
glasgow |
I haven't found there to be any problems. It's best to be upfront about being bi though.
With regards to myself, I don't find guys attractive but I do like bi fun occasionally (it's a cock thing lol) |
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"I haven't found there to be any problems. It's best to be upfront about being bi though.
With regards to myself, I don't find guys attractive but I do like bi fun occasionally (it's a cock thing lol)"
know what you mean about the cock thing ....i have a male bi friend too who says he aint attracted to guys just likes to suck cocks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x"
A bizzare statement.
If you have a problem with your guy meeting other women then why on earth are you on a swinging site?
And as you're also actively meeting isn't it a bit hypocritical? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own. I personally don't meet bi guys. Think yeh bi guys are more frowned upon than bi fems. It's the whole act of males able to penetrate each other. Most straight guys wouldn't contemplate being with a guy it's taboo to them. I kinda think if you like girls you shouldn't like men or yer gay lol. Soz I know it's old fashioned but just my view. Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x"
Have you ever been with a women kissed, touched etc?? If men like men you think there gay why can't they be bi lol? I like women but i'm not gay. |
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Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x"
I find this statement also a bit bizare too.... its a swingers site of course guys are going to be fucking about same as fems other wise what we all here for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nowt to do with me but maybe they give ya cold shoulder cos your profile says STRAIGHT and then when ya chatting you tell em you are BI. The only thing I have worked out on swingers community is that most of us like the truth to be stated straight away. Maybe if you alter your profile to say you are bi wont be such a turn off ya could try it hun xxxx anyway good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x
A bizzare statement.
If you have a problem with your guy meeting other women then why on earth are you on a swinging site?
And as you're also actively meeting isn't it a bit hypocritical?"
Firstly I aint part of a couple on here....was talking about life in general....hope Ive cleared that up for you...there is a life outside fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly I aint part of a couple on here....was talking about life in general"
So you are part of a couple off of the site?
"....hope Ive cleared that up for you"
Not really. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Each to their own. I personally don't meet bi guys. Think yeh bi guys are more frowned upon than bi fems. It's the whole act of males able to penetrate each other. Most straight guys wouldn't contemplate being with a guy it's taboo to them. I kinda think if you like girls you shouldn't like men or yer gay lol. Soz I know it's old fashioned but just my view. Besides bad enuf thinking any guy I'm with is fcuking about with other fems let alone guys too lol x"
Kinda bizarre point of view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lots of guys say straight on profile but r not. many chose the tv option as its somehow not like being with a guy. we are all wonderfully different"
true anna variety helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly I aint part of a couple on here....was talking about life in general
So you are part of a couple off of the site?
....hope Ive cleared that up for you
Not really."
No i aint thats wot i sad lol x |
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"You only have to read the bi threads on the forums to see that there’s plenty people out there looking for bi guys, don’t think its frowned upon personally, it normally a preference thing.
Think it’s more the ones who hide behind the straight label that are frowned upon rather than the fact they’re actually bisexual, it’s probably a trust thing, not sure, but it’s a strange one because if everyone was upfront on their profile there would be an even split I’d imagine.
The bottom line is there are people on here looking for bisexual men but struggle to find them or won’t meet them as they say on their profiles they are straight.
Even seen threads on here from other bisexuals saying they won’t meet or they just delete the messages from people who contact them who say they’re straight on their profiles so that backs up the theory it’s more about not being upfront about it than it is about actually being bisexual"
That is our view too, we are bi and find it annoying when other guys cant be honest on their profiles, we take some convincing if they say straight but their opening line on message says "but i'm bi!" sorry guys that dont wash with us. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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"I like Bi guys
I enjoy watching men together and I think in a mmf situation it's better if both guys are bi. Takes away from it all being about you. As always though it's each to there own but plenty of women and couples will meet bi men. Always be honest what you like and i'm sure there will be fun had x"
i have to agree here i love playing with bi guys tho most i have been lucky to have played with are orally bi only. but maybe one day ......  |
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So many comments to my original post.
I can play bi when the occasion is right but have realised that there are a lot of people here who love to play with both sides but never advertise the fact.
So I don't say anything and if it leads to anything further then great but if not then I can have the best of both worlds. Or does that make me a cheat and a liar? |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
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well we are both str8 and only meet for mmf fun. have met bi guys many times but we are always up front and tell them there wont be any man on man in the meet and its then up to the guy decide if the are happy to play str8 or not. we find some str8 guys (not all) struggle in a mmf if their body even touches the other guy's.
in defense of other posts on this subject we will all find somebody else's comments "bizarre" or different from our own but its the same with our sexual preferences - we dont have to agree with or like what someone else does but neither should we slate either their opinion or sexual preferences. to each their own i say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many comments to my original post.
I can play bi when the occasion is right but have realised that there are a lot of people here who love to play with both sides but never advertise the fact.
So I don't say anything and if it leads to anything further then great but if not then I can have the best of both worlds. Or does that make me a cheat and a liar?"
"I’m not a liar, I only hide the truth"
"A man is never more truthful than when he acknowledges himself a liar" Mark Twain
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess its an each to their own kind of thing, but personally if i was chatting to you and your profile says straight and then you say your bi i'd not trust you either. |
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