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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
People post that they can't get meets. You offer suggestions and they either don't want to go to socials or clubs or they've tried them previously.
I started the pub quiz and it's been great fun and getting a steady mix of people.
If you ask for advice why not try it instead of blaming everyone one else for not getting any meets!
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"People post that they can't get meets. You offer suggestions and they either don't want to go to socials or clubs or they've tried them previously.
I started the pub quiz and it's been great fun and getting a steady mix of people.
If you ask for advice why not try it instead of blaming everyone one else for not getting any meets!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People post that they can't get meets. You offer suggestions and they either don't want to go to socials or clubs or they've tried them previously.
I started the pub quiz and it's been great fun and getting a steady mix of people.
If you ask for advice why not try it instead of blaming everyone one else for not getting any meets!
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Crack the Whip Misses x
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles. "
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
bellshill |
"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x"
Mmmmmm easily burst |
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x"
Lucky you  |
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By *alcon43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles. "
Lol they can dream! |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Lol they can dream! "
Can't we all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x"
Watch you don't drop the phone lol |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x
Watch you don't drop the phone lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x"
Mmmmm bubbles I like bubbles I like kisses too but you know that right?    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're hoping that a string of fab ladies will message offering themselves covered in a variety of things including - but not limited to - nothing, honey, sexy underwear, Nutella and bubbles.
Bubbles ..... That's what I am covered in right now x
Mmmmm bubbles I like bubbles I like kisses too but you know that right? "
Oh yes ..... I remember x |
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Most guy's expectations of fab are that they'll simply join a swingers site and they'll ball deep in a heartbeat. They really don't understand swinging or swingers. They're not looking to put in any effort other than a few messages or a wink. I think for a simple five pounds sign up fee most would unlikely join. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't moan about not getting meets, other sisites and apps are easier and better but fab used to be a lot better, people would meet for random sex just for a bit of fun with a stranger, I myself when I 1st joined had at least 2meets a week every week on here but now ad be lucky to get 2 in 4years
A lot of people treat this like a dating site, meet for socials, drinks, coffee etc if I wanted that I'd go on POF which ironically I joined POF to try dating and had more sex on there
Telling people to go to clubs and socials won't help because it's not for everyone, it's deffo not for me I don't mind a social to talk coz it lets me take the dog somewhere new but clubs aren't my scene. |
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"I don't moan about not getting meets, other sisites and apps are easier and better but fab used to be a lot better, people would meet for random sex just for a bit of fun with a stranger, I myself when I 1st joined had at least 2meets a week every week on here but now ad be lucky to get 2 in 4years
A lot of people treat this like a dating site, meet for socials, drinks, coffee etc if I wanted that I'd go on POF which ironically I joined POF to try dating and had more sex on there
Telling people to go to clubs and socials won't help because it's not for everyone, it's deffo not for me I don't mind a social to talk coz it lets me take the dog somewhere new but clubs aren't my scene."
This is where the problem lies.
A lot of the people wanting to meet socially aren't looking for someone to date 
"swinging" in the true sense of the word is about the social aspect of swapping partners or group sex. It's about finding couples or individuals to build lasting sexual friendships with not just a quick fuck with a random stranger!
Occasionally that might happen yes but I'd say that the majority of women and couples on here aren't looking for a long list one one offs, they're looking for something either regular or other couples etc.
Single men are here for a wham bam, moan about not getting replied to when their profiles are either blank, obnoxious or clearly state they're wanting a quick fuck/no strings/can't accommodate(aka cheating on their partner or living with their mum).
There will always be room for a one night stand on fab but like previous members say, guys aren't going to be balls deep after 2 days and crap chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't moan about not getting meets, other sisites and apps are easier and better but fab used to be a lot better, people would meet for random sex just for a bit of fun with a stranger, I myself when I 1st joined had at least 2meets a week every week on here but now ad be lucky to get 2 in 4years
A lot of people treat this like a dating site, meet for socials, drinks, coffee etc if I wanted that I'd go on POF which ironically I joined POF to try dating and had more sex on there
Telling people to go to clubs and socials won't help because it's not for everyone, it's deffo not for me I don't mind a social to talk coz it lets me take the dog somewhere new but clubs aren't my scene.
This is where the problem lies.
A lot of the people wanting to meet socially aren't looking for someone to date
"swinging" in the true sense of the word is about the social aspect of swapping partners or group sex. It's about finding couples or individuals to build lasting sexual friendships with not just a quick fuck with a random stranger!
Occasionally that might happen yes but I'd say that the majority of women and couples on here aren't looking for a long list one one offs, they're looking for something either regular or other couples etc.
Single men are here for a wham bam, moan about not getting replied to when their profiles are either blank, obnoxious or clearly state they're wanting a quick fuck/no strings/can't accommodate(aka cheating on their partner or living with their mum).
There will always be room for a one night stand on fab but like previous members say, guys aren't going to be balls deep after 2 days and crap chat. "
Couldn't have put it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't moan about not getting meets, other sisites and apps are easier and better but fab used to be a lot better, people would meet for random sex just for a bit of fun with a stranger, I myself when I 1st joined had at least 2meets a week every week on here but now ad be lucky to get 2 in 4years
A lot of people treat this like a dating site, meet for socials, drinks, coffee etc if I wanted that I'd go on POF which ironically I joined POF to try dating and had more sex on there
Telling people to go to clubs and socials won't help because it's not for everyone, it's deffo not for me I don't mind a social to talk coz it lets me take the dog somewhere new but clubs aren't my scene.
This is where the problem lies.
A lot of the people wanting to meet socially aren't looking for someone to date
"swinging" in the true sense of the word is about the social aspect of swapping partners or group sex. It's about finding couples or individuals to build lasting sexual friendships with not just a quick fuck with a random stranger!
Occasionally that might happen yes but I'd say that the majority of women and couples on here aren't looking for a long list one one offs, they're looking for something either regular or other couples etc.
Single men are here for a wham bam, moan about not getting replied to when their profiles are either blank, obnoxious or clearly state they're wanting a quick fuck/no strings/can't accommodate(aka cheating on their partner or living with their mum).
There will always be room for a one night stand on fab but like previous members say, guys aren't going to be balls deep after 2 days and crap chat. "
A very well put across point that has maybe shown me the site in a new light. Need to work up the courage to go to socials and clubs I think. I've read some negativity towards how single guys can be seen in those situations and it made me a little hesitant but thanks for changing my mind.
Also did someone say pub quiz?!!! |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
happy lil world |
"I don't moan about not getting meets, other sisites and apps are easier and better but fab used to be a lot better, people would meet for random sex just for a bit of fun with a stranger, I myself when I 1st joined had at least 2meets a week every week on here but now ad be lucky to get 2 in 4years
A lot of people treat this like a dating site, meet for socials, drinks, coffee etc if I wanted that I'd go on POF which ironically I joined POF to try dating and had more sex on there
Telling people to go to clubs and socials won't help because it's not for everyone, it's deffo not for me I don't mind a social to talk coz it lets me take the dog somewhere new but clubs aren't my scene.
This is where the problem lies.
A lot of the people wanting to meet socially aren't looking for someone to date
"swinging" in the true sense of the word is about the social aspect of swapping partners or group sex. It's about finding couples or individuals to build lasting sexual friendships with not just a quick fuck with a random stranger!
Occasionally that might happen yes but I'd say that the majority of women and couples on here aren't looking for a long list one one offs, they're looking for something either regular or other couples etc.
Single men are here for a wham bam, moan about not getting replied to when their profiles are either blank, obnoxious or clearly state they're wanting a quick fuck/no strings/can't accommodate(aka cheating on their partner or living with their mum).
There will always be room for a one night stand on fab but like previous members say, guys aren't going to be balls deep after 2 days and crap chat. "
But coming from my point of view some women on here have so many lists of demands,I've not got any demands I do preferences. I do feel some guys don't get a chance how do we know they are all the same?
I've had social meets with guys who have told me it's terrible trying to get a reply. I've just thought I will agree to a social to get them started as profiles also state you need to be verified well I'm sure we all started with none  |
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But coming from my point of view some women on here have so many lists of demands,I've not got any demands I do preferences. I do feel some guys don't get a chance how do we know they are all the same?
I've had social meets with guys who have told me it's terrible trying to get a reply. I've just thought I will agree to a social to get them started as profiles also state you need to be verified well I'm sure we all started with none "
No I would agree there are some very spoiled princesses on here who want the tall, hung, six pack, pussy eating, goes all night type...
However I don't see anything wrong with women having standards and sexual preferences. And sometimes we need to be pretty specific considering the site is made up of at least 20 men for every one woman.
Insinuating that a woman should be easier just because it's a sex site is still an insult. Women on here are women in the real world and they can accept or reject anyone they like for any reason without need for apology or explanation.
As can the men. But usually when the men do it they don't simply ignore a message or say a "polite no thank you". They usually throw insults left right and centre because they're gods gift and deserve the gym bunny.
There are many successful people on this site of all varieties and I think that if you want to be one of them you need to adjust your attitude. Not you specifically, the male population in general.
If you can't beat em, join em (at a bloody social!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But coming from my point of view some women on here have so many lists of demands,I've not got any demands I do preferences. I do feel some guys don't get a chance how do we know they are all the same?
I've had social meets with guys who have told me it's terrible trying to get a reply. I've just thought I will agree to a social to get them started as profiles also state you need to be verified well I'm sure we all started with none
No I would agree there are some very spoiled princesses on here who want the tall, hung, six pack, pussy eating, goes all night type...
However I don't see anything wrong with women having standards and sexual preferences. And sometimes we need to be pretty specific considering the site is made up of at least 20 men for every one woman.
Insinuating that a woman should be easier just because it's a sex site is still an insult. Women on here are women in the real world and they can accept or reject anyone they like for any reason without need for apology or explanation.
As can the men. But usually when the men do it they don't simply ignore a message or say a "polite no thank you". They usually throw insults left right and centre because they're gods gift and deserve the gym bunny.
There are many successful people on this site of all varieties and I think that if you want to be one of them you need to adjust your attitude. Not you specifically, the male population in general.
If you can't beat em, join em (at a bloody social!) "
That's all WAY too sensible for here missus, lol, but very well said. |
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