NSA! Now this is where I feel old but (cough) back in the day NSA was just that. No strings, No hassles, No troubles. Just good ole fun. I know it's difficult not to connect emotionally on some level with someone that your having sex with. I mean...... we aren't heartless robots!
But OMG please leave baggage and head fuckery at the door. Don't be going all Bunny Boiler and stalky. Don't be picking out curtains and please don't be asking me to come round when your kids fast asleep in the next room.
What happened to "hey-hey, I fancy the arse off you- I kinda like that-I'm just looking for fun- me too- we doing this-yeah" and three wonderful minutes later it's done (hehe). You both chat and part on good terms. Maybe now and again you hook back up. You hang out. "ITS FUN JUST FUN" because there are NO STRINGS ATTACHED!
Now I know that feelings can grow but I'm not talking about forming relationships. I'm talking about people who actually get off on drama and know this all the while saying NSA!
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over a year ago
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My thoughts exactly!!!
I always thought because I was married it would be obvious that all I'm looking for is no strings fun...clearly states on my profile I'm married and my husband knows I'm on here but nope still have met some that think I can meet at the drop of a hat or behind his back...why Iv no clue as I stated before he already knows I'm on here?
Although Iv met the same guys more than once I'm finding it the more I meet the same 1 it gets a tad confusing for them thinking there's more in it than there is  |
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"My thoughts exactly!!!
I always thought because I was married it would be obvious that all I'm looking for is no strings fun...clearly states on my profile I'm married and my husband knows I'm on here but nope still have met some that think I can meet at the drop of a hat or behind his back...why Iv no clue as I stated before he already knows I'm on here?
Although Iv met the same guys more than once I'm finding it the more I meet the same 1 it gets a tad confusing for them thinking there's more in it than there is "
Why do they not get it!
It's just bursts my happiness! |
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"My thoughts exactly!!!
I always thought because I was married it would be obvious that all I'm looking for is no strings fun...clearly states on my profile I'm married and my husband knows I'm on here but nope still have met some that think I can meet at the drop of a hat or behind his back...why Iv no clue as I stated before he already knows I'm on here?
Although Iv met the same guys more than once I'm finding it the more I meet the same 1 it gets a tad confusing for them thinking there's more in it than there is
Why do they not get it!
It's just bursts my happiness!"
some guys tend to get a tad possessive if Iv met them more than once? Some...not all but think that's why I tend not to meet the same guy more than once  |
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I had feelings for someone I used to meet frequently (he's not on here).
Since figured out he's an arse and I was probably just hormonal.
NSA all the way  |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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It's a tough line because there has to be a connection for me or I won't have sex with someone... But, at the same time, I'm not really looking for a relationship.
So, in summary, I have to like you... But not THAT much  |
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"It's a tough line because there has to be a connection for me or I won't have sex with someone... But, at the same time, I'm not really looking for a relationship.
So, in summary, I have to like you... But not THAT much "
Dude I totally miss you! |
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Its not gender specific and happens to both sexes including the odd couples too .
Its natural if you meeting someone regular to have those feelings sometimes but its knowing how to handle them that makes all the difference .
Here for fun and only fun   |
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"Its not gender specific and happens to both sexes including the odd couples too .
Its natural if you meeting someone regular to have those feelings sometimes but its knowing how to handle them that makes all the difference .
Here for fun and only fun "
This. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a tough line because there has to be a connection for me or I won't have sex with someone... But, at the same time, I'm not really looking for a relationship.
So, in summary, I have to like you... But not THAT much
Dude I totally miss you!"
Who wants the number for interflora? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I had a guy from another site send me a text to celebrate our 50 day anniversary lol.
I quickly set the record straight. Fortunately he understood.
I do have to like someone to have fun too. Some fab friendships have now lasted years! We can still have a laugh, socialise and have fun without the trip to Samuels. |
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"It's a tough line because there has to be a connection for me or I won't have sex with someone... But, at the same time, I'm not really looking for a relationship.
So, in summary, I have to like you... But not THAT much "
I'm with you all the way on this big chap. Of course there has to be a connection. Without one sex is nothing more than an animalistic calling to sate an urge. If a lady stays overnight I enjoy the closeness of a cuddle too. But I'm not going to wake up and start making wedding plans lol. |
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