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Improving Fab for All

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know that I have been a member for a relatively short time but I consider myself to be a person who can size up situations very quickly and make informed judgements and develop and implement necessary actions. As a female on Fab I am becoming increasingly annoyed, frustrated and quite frankly TURNED OFF by the messages WE (it does indicate we are a couple boys) receive from single men and their very apparent sexist attitude to women. It has become very apparent from reading various posts and chatting to a few women that this is not a situation unique to me.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I pay £60

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"I know that I have been a member for a relatively short time but I consider myself to be a person who can size up situations very quickly and make informed judgements and develop and implement necessary actions. As a female on Fab I am becoming increasingly annoyed, frustrated and quite frankly TURNED OFF by the messages WE (it does indicate we are a couple boys) receive from single men and their very apparent sexist attitude to women. It has become very apparent from reading various posts and chatting to a few women that this is not a situation unique to me.

So by that definition i would have to pay a membership for this profile while having a free cpls profile + not all single guys on here are like that alot know how to speak to people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From the perspective of couple who meet single guys that's a terrible idea. It's not hard to delete, block and forget.

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

Couples and fems can be just as bad.

Block single guys from messaging you and the problem is solved

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's a good idea but there would need to be some implementation towards woman aswell with regards to forwarding abusive messages etc

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

the site provides tools to minimise angst and the not so positive people.

block all guys and do the searching for playmates.

it is that easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We want to meet single guys, have done and will do so in the future I daresay. However I just think that as it is a free site that there is no "filter" to separate the guys who are genuine swingers and like Bunkie (apologies I shouldn't have generalised) know how to talk to women and are acutely aware of the protocols and etiquette of swinging and not wee Deco fae Possil who is "banging his massive staunner or yer banging tits and would eat a pie supper fae yer mingle"

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"We want to meet single guys, have done and will do so in the future I daresay. However I just think that as it is a free site that there is no "filter" to separate the guys who are genuine swingers and like Bunkie (apologies I shouldn't have generalised) know how to talk to women and are acutely aware of the protocols and etiquette of swinging and not wee Deco fae Possil who is "banging his massive staunner or yer banging tits and would eat a pie supper fae yer mingle""

The simple answer is block single guys and for you to initiate first contact with guys that take your fancy ..as soon as you contact them the block for them instantly lifts

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By *appyDeviantsCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

The majority already pay £60 a year ,why should they be treated differently because they are single men .They have the same right to be here as the rest of us.The block bottom is great as are filters.

Let the guys have there fun like the rest and don't tar them all with the same bullshit!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bollocks. why should I have to suffer for the dickheads who cant play fair. use your filters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The simple answer is block single guys and for you to initiate first contact with guys that take your fancy ..as soon as you contact them the block for them instantly lifts

Ahhhh it would appear I am having a whinge for no good reason. I didn't realise that was the case Bunkie....thank you

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By *agic37Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry but you can't generalise every bloke the same. I've been on here for over 4 years and to my knowkesge never offended anyone and been blocked. Like has been mentioned some couples and females are just as bad so where do we draw the line?

I appreciate you want to see single males but my genuine advice would be block us all and you message who catches your eye and if they turn out to be wrong you can delete and forget

Hope things turns round for you very soon

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

The simple answer is block single guys and for you to initiate first contact with guys that take your fancy ..as soon as you contact them the block for them instantly lifts

Ahhhh it would appear I am having a whinge for no good reason. I didn't realise that was the case Bunkie....thank you

Your welcome....fountain of knowledge me lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

"
salty

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

"
don't mind if I do, would you feed me them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I appreciate you want to see single males but my genuine advice would be block us all and you message who catches your eye and if they turn out to be wrong you can delete and forget

Hope things turns round for you very soon"

Thank you very much

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By *orthseatiger69Man over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

Sweet and salty X

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Whilst I understand your angst, as others have said, there are already functions built into the site and a lot of us already pay for membership too.

All I would say is use the report button for any abusive messages, maybe alter your filters a bit to deal with unnecesary messages and speak to admin if it continues.

Just remember this too.....for every 100 bad ones, a good one will stand out a mile

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

don't mind if I do, would you feed me them

All you could handle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

don't mind if I do, would you feed me them

All you could handle

I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wasn't aware that I could implement my filters in this way, thought that if I blocked single guys that I would not be able to perv certain profiles. I've since had a phone call advising me to "shut up and change the message filters you silly tart everyone will think you're a stuck up C U Next Tuesday"

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"I wasn't aware that I could implement my filters in this way, thought that if I blocked single guys that I would not be able to perv certain profiles. I've since had a phone call advising me to "shut up and change the message filters you silly tart everyone will think you're a stuck up C U Next Tuesday"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

O/P you sure your not a single male playing as a couple, perhaps you also have a female account lol.

If you want to see an end to fab then by all means make it payable, people will simply move else where as they have done in the past

YOU HAVE A BLOCK BUTTON,

if your not happy then use it

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

don't mind if I do, would you feed me them

All you could handle

I'm waiting

Need to shave again first

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Could a potential remedy be that Fab remains free for couples and single females but that men must pay an annual subscription of £50? Unless they do they can join the site but the only photos they can see are profile pictures, they can not wink, they most definitely can't send graphic and quite frankly alarming messages in some instances and they can not participate in Forum discussions. Also that all males sending messages there was a function to forward abusive messages to Admin for their immediate attention. "
yes great plan ostracise males make them leave then all the more single fems for the entirely diffrent breed......the male half of a couple lol. The functions are there if you recieve things or behaviours you believe are against the rules report the user fill in the box the reason why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Av got popcorn.. Anyone ?

Toffee????

salty

I'll have the sweet you can have the salty

don't mind if I do, would you feed me them

All you could handle

I'm waiting

Need to shave again first

"
haha very good,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Could a potential remedy be that Fab remains free for couples and single females but that men must pay an annual subscription of £50? Unless they do they can join the site but the only photos they can see are profile pictures, they can not wink, they most definitely can't send graphic and quite frankly alarming messages in some instances and they can not participate in Forum discussions. Also that all males sending messages there was a function to forward abusive messages to Admin for their immediate attention. yes great plan ostracise males make them leave then all the more single fems for the entirely diffrent breed......the male half of a couple lol. The functions are there if you recieve things or behaviours you believe are against the rules report the user fill in the box the reason why"

If you had bothered your arse to check 2-3 posts above you will see that I had admitted my mistake, apologised for my haste and indicated that I now know how to change my message filters. Do however continue to preach and pontificate if that's what gets your rocks off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MORE POPCORN PLEASE.

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By *orthseatiger69Man over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"MORE POPCORN PLEASE.

It just gets better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stupid idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being blunt but following the same logic in the response you just gave to the guy then maybe it would have been wiser if you had got to know the tools of the site before posting your suggestions

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Sorry you were explaining how you grasp things quickly then bluster forward with what imo is a ludicrous suggestion. No pontification just increduality at your means of fixing a problem that isnt there.and you aeriously thought that users wouldnt take umbridge to your elitist thoughts and remedys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aw naw **hides**

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Being blunt but following the same logic in the response you just gave to the guy then maybe it would have been wiser if you had got to know the tools of the site before posting your suggestions

Never been in a situation where you haven't fully appraised yourself of the facts and make a decision to do or say something that makes you look like an arse? This is one of those situations for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aw naw **hides** "

Peaking from behind sofa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being blunt but following the same logic in the response you just gave to the guy then maybe it would have been wiser if you had got to know the tools of the site before posting your suggestions

Never been in a situation where you haven't fully appraised yourself of the facts and make a decision to do or say something that makes you look like an arse? This is one of those situations for me. "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry you were explaining how you grasp things quickly then bluster forward with what imo is a ludicrous suggestion. No pontification just increduality at your means of fixing a problem that isnt there.and you aeriously thought that users wouldnt take umbridge to your elitist thoughts and remedys "

Suppose like arseholes everyone has an opinion, mines differs greatly from yours do I, as I'm entitled to, will stick with my original assessment of your response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple over a year ago

Falkirk

Gotta a love Kola's answers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

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I've been informed its called fartin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

But from what I've heard, ladies don't fart.

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By *yreboy69Man over a year ago

on the move

Oh the thesauri have been deployed. It's going to get pernicious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

But from what I've heard, ladies don't fart.

"
am no lady though, ah can lift ma leg n lettum rip like the next yin yeehaa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

But from what I've heard, ladies don't fart.

am no lady though, ah can lift ma leg n lettum rip like the next yin yeehaa.

Hahaha.

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Simple, use your filters to block ALL guys, and then you can contact those you fancy.

However, that means YOU having to do some work, which as a couple you might not be prepared to do. But you can't have your cake and eat it!!

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Wishing my arsehole had an opinion

I'm sure it has.

But from what I've heard, ladies don't fart.

am no lady though, ah can lift ma leg n lettum rip like the next yin yeehaa.

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Simple, use your filters to block ALL guys, and then you can contact those you fancy.

However, that means YOU having to do some work, which as a couple you might not be prepared to do. But you can't have your cake and eat it!!

I appreciate that Bothy and have been informed of this on several occasions and have also apologised for the ill judged haste of my original post. However it would appear that scorn and ridicule take precedence over accepting someone admitting they got it terribly wrong.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Someone else will get it tomorrow don't worry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it safe to out from behind the sofa now ?.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Someone else will get it tomorrow don't worry

No BOO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone else will get it tomorrow don't worry

No BOO

Oh Steph, now I need a tena lady. you made me piss myself.

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Bollocks. why should I have to suffer for the dickheads who cant play fair. use your filters.

there are some not so nice couples and ladies on here too let's not pretend all ladies and couples are the perfect members to have on the site.

There are some genuinely nice guys on here! And your approach would be unfair to them.

Develop a thick skin, block, delete, ignore or do what I do

and block. Sorted!

Use your filters, decide to contact single guys yourself for instance.

Paying members do not guarantee genuine members

That's my opinion anyway

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By *orthseatiger69Man over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"Bollocks. why should I have to suffer for the dickheads who cant play fair. use your filters.

there are some not so nice couples and ladies on here too let's not pretend all ladies and couples are the perfect members to have on the site.

There are some genuinely nice guys on here! And your approach would be unfair to them.

Develop a thick skin, block, delete, ignore or do what I do

and block. Sorted!

Use your filters, decide to contact single guys yourself for instance.

Paying members do not guarantee genuine members

That's my opinion anyway

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"Paying members do not guarantee genuine members

That's my opinion anyway

A very valid point.

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

I think we need to remember that the orIguana message was made out of sheer frustration.

I have a friend on here who told me she has 1300 plus unread messages that are variations of "fancy a fuck!"

How demoralising must that be? I constantly get messages from straight guys who have seen I am a straight guy and just assume I was a blowjob from them... Because if they're "straight" I must be "straight" too. And it's a fraction of the rubbish a lot of the women and couples get on here.

It's a shame that some people just hit the block gender button because there are genuinely nice guys out there and if there are any who don't frequent the forums then they are just missing out.

It's also very frustrating seeing someone on here you like and sending a message, knowing they're going to get lost in the multitude of messages the receiver already has, been treated with the same contempt as "fancy a fuck" or, in an attempt to not just be one dimensional, has become just too damn long for someone to appreciate having read through 2,000 messages of "ma baws need emptied!"

I see people on her all the time that I think "Oooh!" And go to message and my gender is blocked, or it remains unread, or just gets deleted.

Granted the ones that get deleted are probably on account of me being really uninteresting

I think that's one of the reasons I prefer the forums - I get to know people better on here.

Anyway before I start Chapter 2 I'm away for a tea!

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

Obviously that was supposed to read original in first paragraph

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously that was supposed to read original in first paragraph

You obviously need the Tea

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Obviously that was supposed to read original in first paragraph

You obviously need the Tea

You've no idea

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I think there's plenty couples and men that feel females should be charged as often we are branded fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority already pay £60 a year ,why should they be treated differently because they are single men .They have the same right to be here as the rest of us.The block bottom is great as are filters.

Let the guys have there fun like the rest and don't tar them all with the same bullshit!!"

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By *976scottMan over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

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By *eddybear1873Couple over a year ago

Stirling

Think the tools provided on site ie block button, report to admin or just ignore....

This works perfectly well and doesn't discriminate against single men who are genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!"

If you had read the entire thread you would have seen that I have apologised not just once but twice for the haste and lack of thought I showed with my original post. By Christ you guys on here don't half like a public flogging eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

That kind of flogging I do not mind in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

That kind of flogging I do not mind in the slightest

Ooooer missus

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By *976scottMan over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

That kind of flogging I do not mind in the slightest

Ok ok your forgiven! Just don't do it again or us single guys will gang up on you and overwhelm you with cock picks! Lol

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By *p4funduoCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

This is the best read for ages! I so pmsl x

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By *p4funduoCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

This is the best read for ages! I so pmsl x

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By *p4funduoCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Clearly I read it twice! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

That kind of flogging I do not mind in the slightest

Ok ok your forgiven! Just don't do it again or us single guys will gang up on you and overwhelm you with cock picks! Lol

At which point I will break out the strap-on pick and your cocks will become flaccid wee sausages dangling in the wind due to the abject horror of imminent pegging

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By *eddybear1873Couple over a year ago

Stirling

Don't judge the majority by the actions of the minority!

There's a few like flogging... paddles, ropes, cuffs and all sorts of accoutrements... nawty buggas

That kind of flogging I do not mind in the slightest

Ok ok your forgiven! Just don't do it again or us single guys will gang up on you and overwhelm you with cock picks! Lol

At which point I will break out the strap-on pick and your cocks will become flaccid wee sausages dangling in the wind due to the abject horror of imminent pegging

"
I didn't read past your first post couldn't be bothered lmao far too long.....If you can give it out must be able to take it on chin only banter lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread reminds me why I don't visit the Scottish forum that much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clearly I read it twice! Lol"

And obviously suffered a weak bladder twice too, tsk tsk a terrible mess

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By *atureMale321Man over a year ago

Moray

I have been on this site for a number of years and I'm sure that £50 would still allow for abusive e mails , therefore its not really a deterrent, however if the site is not to your pleasing there is always the option that you just leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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must be someone you trusted to gI've them your phone number for them to phone you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fab is fine the way it works and has been for many years..thats why it's hardly changed!

I get annoyed at single men bashing, I've been here around 10 years like many other single guys.

Why not take control of your own fab destiny OP, by simply making your filters stricter so that you message the men you want?- simple solutions are the best for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ...and I think i've messaged you OP..I mighta been d*unk n sent several cock pics..

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

must be someone you trusted to gI've them your phone number for them to phone you

Maybe it was their other half phoning them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

must be someone you trusted to gI've them your phone number for them to phone you

It was my partner so I hope that eases any concerns you may have had with regards to discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry ....This is the only interesting part of the full thread ..It keeps it FUN

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"fab is fine the way it works and has been for many years..thats why it's hardly changed!

I get annoyed at single men bashing, I've been here around 10 years like many other single guys.

Why not take control of your own fab destiny OP, by simply making your filters stricter so that you message the men you want?- simple solutions are the best for everyone."

OK for all the people very kindly offering advice I have now CHANGED my messaging filters and the problem is solved. I have also apologised for the error I made in the initIial post. Can the moral high horses be put back in their stables please lol

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

glad to have been some help

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

glad to have been some help

You were Bunkie....you were nowhere near as merciless as some of the others lol

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

glad to have been some help

You were Bunkie....you were nowhere near as merciless as some of the others lol"

I can be nice sometimes ..dont let others tell you different lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So by that definition i would have to pay a membership for this profile while having a free cpls profile + not all single guys on here are like that alot know how to speak to people

What he said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From the perspective of couple who meet single guys that's a terrible idea. It's not hard to delete, block and forget. "

What they said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couples and fems can be just as bad.

Block single guys from messaging you and the problem is solved "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the site provides tools to minimise angst and the not so positive people.

block all guys and do the searching for playmates.

it is that easy"

and what he said

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So by that definition i would have to pay a membership for this profile while having a free cpls profile + not all single guys on here are like that alot know how to speak to people

What he said"

Your moral high horse is very shortly going to get a Micky Finn slipped to it via a sugar cube.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*sings*

I can't get off my high horse and I can't let you go

You are the one who

You are the one who makes me feel so real, yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh, what am I supposed to do, baby

When I'm so hooked up on you

Then I realized, oh, I realized

That you are somebody else's guy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"*sings*

I can't get off my high horse and I can't let you go

You are the one who

You are the one who makes me feel so real, yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh, what am I supposed to do, baby

When I'm so hooked up on you

Then I realized, oh, I realized

That you are somebody else's guy...

Oooooooo Jocelyn Brown......I LOVE!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think everyone should have one of those sugar cubes.... points given by OP (not entirely wrong) have been (rightly) redressed and taken on board. Well done all... noo calm doon and get back tae shexysuckityfuckitystuff all of ya.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think everyone should have one of those sugar cubes.... points given by OP (not entirely wrong) have been (rightly) redressed and taken on board. Well done all... noo calm doon and get back tae shexysuckityfuckitystuff all of ya.

Ya bossy wummin!! But ok.

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

Ya bossy wummin!! But ok.

Bossy is good. Me likey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ya bossy wummin!! But ok.

Anno am feelin awww masterful today Jintz - Gin later ... YER TELT

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you very graciously madam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahll calm doon ....Has she apologised ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ya bossy wummin!! But ok.

Bossy is good. Me likey"

Me tae... sometimes... sometimes I need TELT

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

Ya bossy wummin!! But ok.

Bossy is good. Me likey

Me tae... sometimes... sometimes I need TELT

Me too. Otherwise how would we learn?

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By *atandasmileMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

"points given by OP (not entirely wrong) have been (rightly) redressed and taken on board."

I saw that; successfully held my tongue. Now I have slippery fingers

Well said. I just wanted to back you up, because that's roughly what I would have said earlier.

"get back tae shexysuckityfuckitystuff"

No need to tell me twice on that front

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yassss madam on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In all fairness ..£50 isnt that bad for some guys ..

They could look out for Special Offers ..Like buy one get one half price..

The discounted offer would subsidise their Fake Female Profiles ..

Just a vivid thought

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Gotta a love Kola's answers.

"
most dont prefering the sit on the fence have no opinion type of answer. I may be blunt I may not sign of with platitudes but you get my honest opinion. I wont simply agree cause you have chesticles and I care not whether folk agree or not it may not be the right opinion but at least it is actually mine. and not a line designed to ingratiate me with others

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Gotta a love Kola's answers.

most dont prefering the sit on the fence have no opinion type of answer. I may be blunt I may not sign of with platitudes but you get my honest opinion. I wont simply agree cause you have chesticles and I care not whether folk agree or not it may not be the right opinion but at least it is actually mine. and not a line designed to ingratiate me with others

I do hope you're not suggesting that my _iews are not my own and are in any way expressed to curry favour Mr Kola? That would be highly presumptuous of you lol

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By *p4funduoCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

"In all fairness ..£50 isnt that bad for some guys ..

They could look out for Special Offers ..Like buy one get one half price..

The discounted offer would subsidise their Fake Female Profiles ..

Just a vivid thought

There's a good idea!

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Gotta a love Kola's answers.

I do hope you're not suggesting that my _iews are not my own and are in any way expressed to curry favour Mr Kola? That would be highly presumptuous of you lol"
not at all its my _iew of the forums as a whole. I was mearly saying alot of folk dont like my answers as they are my true thoughts on the given topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

must be someone you trusted to gI've them your phone number for them to phone you

It was my partner so I hope that eases any concerns you may have had with regards to discretion."
taken out of context mucho apologies

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Filters & Block buttons tend to filter out stupid people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Filters & Block buttons tend to filter out stupid people.

Oi...Im taking that personally like...

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Filters & Block buttons tend to filter out stupid people.

Oi...Im taking that personally like...

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We are just trying to work out if the op is a real or fake couple. We think they are fake. Have any established members here met them? Just trying to make fab better guys. They were fishing for face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

joined + 3 weeks

verified by member joined = 5 weeks

as they say in still game " I smell shite"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If u dont want to talk to single guys blick them . Why should u penalise single guys and not others ? Im single i dont send offensive mails or that so why should i have to pay for others and its not just single males others are jyst as bad

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"joined + 3 weeks

verified by member joined = 5 weeks

as they say in still game " I smell shite"

Yes looking to swap face photos. I said why not meet socially or if you get verified by well established people. Just trying to improve fab guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"joined + 3 weeks

verified by member joined = 5 weeks

as they say in still game " I smell shite"

This

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I think they are genuine.

I also think she has joined a more experienced swinging guy to create a couples profile and she is finding her feet. She may be overzealous in some of her comments but no more than others can be on different threads. She apologised early on in the thread, multiple times but once we have a bone.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So by that definition i would have to pay a membership for this profile while having a free cpls profile + not all single guys on here are like that alot know how to speak to people

Well said Bunkie

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

"I think they are genuine.

I'm with View on this one.

This thread was chalked up to naivety in how the site works very early on. Not sure why people are still getting the hump

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think they are genuine.

I'm with View on this one.

This thread was chalked up to naivety in how the site works very early on. Not sure why people are still getting the hump

Me too, am with View.

I know we are all perfect on here

She apologised... give the girl a break!

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By *andom2chatMan over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think they are genuine.

I'm with View on this one.

This thread was chalked up to naivety in how the site works very early on. Not sure why people are still getting the hump

EH ?...

Explain that ?

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I think they are genuine.

I'm with View on this one.

This thread was chalked up to naivety in how the site works very early on. Not sure why people are still getting the hump

Me too, am with View.

I know we are all perfect on here

She apologised... give the girl a break!

Exactly

There's far too many people on high horses on here.

And yes they are real

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So by that definition i would have to pay a membership for this profile while having a free cpls profile + not all single guys on here are like that alot know how to speak to people

"
aggreed can't tar everyone with the same brush tbh

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once. "

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to burst your bubble but the couple is real. I have known them for over a year. The forum just lives to swoop on someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loves not lives before the spelling/grammar police pounce on me

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile. "

And you've came to this conclusion because?

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile.

And you've came to this conclusion because?"
pmsl now its dont like the answer must be fake. I may not agree with what was said but I wouldnt call into question whether real or not.

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile. "

You'll never make detective grade.

They're a very 'real' couple. It doesn't do anyone on Fab any favours when someone on Fab makes false allegations based upon absolutely no substance whatsoever.

Although in this case, I knowingly suspect that someone may have taken umbrage because they were turned down...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry to burst your bubble but the couple is real. I have known them for over a year. The forum just lives to swoop on someone.

Next "

I would love too swoop on you ..Ya Ride x

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile.

And you've came to this conclusion because?pmsl now its dont like the answer must be fake. I may not agree with what was said but I wouldnt call into question whether real or not."

That's exactly what it is, sour grapes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile.

You'll never make detective grade.

They're a very 'real' couple. It doesn't do anyone on Fab any favours when someone on Fab makes false allegations based upon absolutely no substance whatsoever.

Although in this case, I knowingly suspect that someone may have taken umbrage because they were turned down...

Haw Haw ....My sparring partners back ..Where the feck have you been lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"FFS, I go offline for a week & there's popcorn everywhere!

We were all newbies once.

No not a Newbie but it's a guy on a fake couples profile. The op is a single guy not a couple. As in a fake profile.

And you've came to this conclusion because?pmsl now its dont like the answer must be fake. I may not agree with what was said but I wouldnt call into question whether real or not.

That's exactly what it is, sour grapes "

Sour Grapes or Sour Plums ?

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By *earded blossomCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"We are just trying to work out if the op is a real or fake couple. We think they are fake. Have any established members here met them? Just trying to make fab better guys. They were fishing for face pics. "

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x"
ah cool. That's ok then.

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x ah cool. That's ok then. "

well that's shut you up

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By *igD262Man over a year ago

glasgow

Not all single guys like that so you what good ones to pay £50 on here because some of dick heads on here I do not think so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not all single guys like that so you what good ones to pay £50 on here because some of dick heads on here I do not think so

If you read above the op apologised for her post . Read the full thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x ah cool. That's ok then. "

Royal seal of approval

Happy days sorted

Can go back to shagging now

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x ah cool. That's ok then. "

I'm so glad you guys know "it''s ok" and will be able to sleep at night now.

It must have been a terrible worry for you both.

Keep up the good work.

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By *earded blossomCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x ah cool. That's ok then.

Royal seal of approval

Happy days sorted

Can go back to shagging now

Just giving my opinion like everyone else...

K x

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Not all single guys like that so you what good ones to pay £50 on here because some of dick heads on here I do not think so

If you read above the op apologised for her post . Read the full thread

"
just to be fair some folk will read the opening statement and take instant umbridge to whats written and reply before reading the whole thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x ah cool. That's ok then.

Royal seal of approval

Happy days sorted

Can go back to shagging now

Just giving my opinion like everyone else...

K x"

Wasn't aimed at you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell fire,

I thought this had died the natural death it deserved ages ago

Do we really need to drag it up again

Let it go

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Hell fire,

I thought this had died the natural death it deserved ages ago

Do we really need to drag it up again

Let it go"

Do you want to build a snowman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im going to be totally honest ..i did presume it was a Single Guy...

Maybe that was wrong of me ..so therefore i will genuinely put my hand up and apologize.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hell fire,

I thought this had died the natural death it deserved ages ago

Do we really need to drag it up again

Let it go

Do you want to build a snowman? "

With you, yes please

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By *outhsider69Man over a year ago

glasgow

Yer mingle? Is that a vagina at a social?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like a shag button

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By *outhsider69Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Simple, use your filters to block ALL guys, and then you can contact those you fancy.

However, that means YOU having to do some work, which as a couple you might not be prepared to do. But you can't have your cake and eat it!!

Just for the record, I joined this thread late and didn't pour scorn or ridicule on you for your original post, just your typo that made me giggle.

Oh and you didn't make yourself look like an arse, you just have a very cute one

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By *implyJayGeeMan over a year ago

Garthamlock

"I pay £60"
. Like _iew, the legend that he is!!! I also pay for the site services. That gives me the usual privileges and the added bonus of having 99% of my messages ignored. I'd like to think I have a good grasp of English and can indeed communicate without the need for text speak and abuse, but in my own humble opinion, I feel there are far too many on here for that Wee ego stroke that just see fit to play me, ignore me or dangle that wee carrot.

In a nutshell, some are as equally bad as the single guys!!

I'm away back to my hideyhole now and await further discovery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wesht you

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

" Just for the record, I joined this thread late and didn't pour scorn or ridicule on you for your original post, just your typo that made me giggle.

Oh and you didn't make yourself look like an arse, you just have a very cute one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hell fire,

I thought this had died the natural death it deserved ages ago

Do we really need to drag it up again

Let it go"
let it gooooooo offft I feel a song coming on

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By *implyJayGeeMan over a year ago

Garthamlock

"Wesht you

Make me!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hell fire,

I thought this had died the natural death it deserved ages ago

Do we really need to drag it up again

Let it go let it gooooooo offft I feel a song coming on

You start and I'll join in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you know what really grinds my gears?

It's not single males who apparently are all the same and message couples/females with ridiculous/unsavoury messages

It's folk that seem unable to use the bloody search function on the forum and end up whining and moaning about the same topics have been done to death!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K x"
hang on.... you have no positive id on them as a man and woman?

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By *earded blossomCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K xhang on.... you have no positive id on them as a man and woman?"

As we said our opinion.... we've been around that block a few times

K x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I've had a few chats n they didn't come across as fake or ask for any pics either.

K xhang on.... you have no positive id on them as a man and woman?

As we said our opinion.... we've been around that block a few times

K x "
ill pm you. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not bothered reading the entire thread but you've been here 3 weeks... 9 year down the line I still come back, just deal with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will help end the thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 to go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fanny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tits

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

No wonder very few newbies join in the chat on the forums. It's the same few people every day talking about the same thing.

The newbies apologised for their idea to improve the site. And yes they are real and I'm pretty sure it's against site rules to be talking about private pm's. So probably best keeping your opinion to yourself

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