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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious as to how you go about getting an invite to parties on here without actually having to invite yourselves!..as we've been to one and that's exactly what we had to do!..lol..Like Billy Connolly would say you don,t get invited you have to go looking for them..and sadly so far that just seems to be the case..Would really just like someone to open the door and welcome us in instead of just standing there knocking!..My knuckles are bleeding! ..All reply's welcome good bad or indifferent!..Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is a lot of folk put them on the Meets section and that's exactly what you have to do is ask.
Even though mrs dlt and myself have been on for ages in various profiles etc,we still have to message the party hosts to get our names down.
An invite is never guarenteed,failing that host your own party  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Every now and then someone may notice your profile taking a liking to it and invite you but more often than not youll find you will have put yourselves forward when someone advertises their party  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every now and then someone may notice your profile taking a liking to it and invite you but more often than not youll find you will have put yourselves forward when someone advertises their party "
^^^my point exactly^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to arrange a party but not sure where to start. Problem is that I don't have an extensive friends list or verifications a mile long so am wary of just putting out a blanket invite."
make it a limit of who you invite,x amount of single guy's, girls and couples
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"I would like to arrange a party but not sure where to start. Problem is that I don't have an extensive friends list or verifications a mile long so am wary of just putting out a blanket invite.make it a limit of who you invite,x amount of single guy's, girls and couples"
I agree but it is who to invite into my house. No offence to honest people but would like to invite people who aren't going to wreck the place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to arrange a party but not sure where to start. Problem is that I don't have an extensive friends list or verifications a mile long so am wary of just putting out a blanket invite.make it a limit of who you invite,x amount of single guy's, girls and couples
I agree but it is who to invite into my house. No offence to honest people but would like to invite people who aren't going to wreck the place. "
and that's where the verifications CAN but not always,come in handy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can always look at apartments. That way ur not letting people u dont know into ur home.
Im very funny about who knows where i stay and have nosy neighbours x"
nae just invite your neighbours?saves them asking awkward questions |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Can always look at apartments. That way ur not letting people u dont know into ur home.
Im very funny about who knows where i stay and have nosy neighbours xnae just invite your neighbours?saves them asking awkward questions "
Only if they are hot tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't know if this will help.
But may be try attending socials or organise your own social and get to know people that way and people get to know you too if that makes sense.
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We were at one a few weeks ago for exactly that reason and if it hadn't been for a couple we had been talking to before it..we would have been sitting on our own ..as sadly it was anything but social!..Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nae just invite your neighbours?saves them asking awkward questions
Well one of them would be more than welcome but his mrs wouldnt like it lol x"
Haha ach well just a suggestion |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"Im about to say the dreaded word. It can be quite "clique". Took me a long time but now i tend to just go over and introduce myself, have made some great friends x"
What you said it can be quite cliquey. Do want i do make myself known xx |
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"Don't know if this will help.
But may be try attending socials or organise your own social and get to know people that way and people get to know you too if that makes sense.
We were at one a few weeks ago for exactly that reason and if it hadn't been for a couple we had been talking to before it..we would have been sitting on our own ..as sadly it was anything but social!..Xx"
Bummer! Try another... Dundee Social 5th November coming up Just saying  |
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"Every now and then someone may notice your profile taking a liking to it and invite you but more often than not youll find you will have put yourselves forward when someone advertises their party "
We do both of these - we have a post up about our party asking interested parties to get in touch, plus we also message profiles that we like the look of and people that we have already met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to how you go about getting an invite to parties on here without actually having to invite yourselves!..as we've been to one and that's exactly what we had to do!..lol..Like Billy Connolly would say you don,t get invited you have to go looking for them..and sadly so far that just seems to be the case..Would really just like someone to open the door and welcome us in instead of just standing there knocking!..My knuckles are bleeding!..All reply's welcome good bad or indifferent!..Xx"
if you would have asked we may have been able to squeeze you into our party last night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely agree with some of the comments above about responding to meets advertising parties, or having your own but there are different types of parties so it depends what you are looking for.
Warning: Personal Opinion reflected here.
There are three types of parties:
(1) public socials, which are generally advertised on forums and held in public places.
(2) private parties fab users have (social or otherwise) and invite friends (sometimes with friends of friends too).
(3) private parties (again social or otherwise) users have but invite people they have seen on fab, or its an open invite.
Best way (I think) to get into these:
(1) Watching the forums and adding people who post a few, because they might advertise them on their profiles too.
(2) This is generally for friends, so you can host your own party or make friends with people in other ways (like messaging, going to clubs or attending bigger events etc) which can often lead to invites.
(3) Respond to meets, chat and put yourself out there
All of this is just my personal ideas/opinions based on our experiences, but hope some of it its helpful to you.
Kisses
Mrs J xx |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I started having social meets at a local pub quiz. This will be our third quiz night but although small numbers (6-7) at first it looks like a good turn out this week. I've started doing them fortnightly.
It's just at a local pub and locals will be there too. Maybe you could do something like that to meet more people. Then maybe party invites will be more forthcoming.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just curious as to how you go about getting an invite to parties on here without actually having to invite yourselves!..as we've been to one and that's exactly what we had to do!..lol..Like Billy Connolly would say you don,t get invited you have to go looking for them..and sadly so far that just seems to be the case..Would really just like someone to open the door and welcome us in instead of just standing there knocking!..My knuckles are bleeding!..All reply's welcome good bad or indifferent!..Xxif you would have asked we may have been able to squeeze you into our party last night "
..sorry we didnt know about it!..or we would have loved to have been there..thanx anyway..maybe next time..Xx |
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"I started having social meets at a local pub quiz. This will be our third quiz night but although small numbers (6-7) at first it looks like a good turn out this week. I've started doing them fortnightly.
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I do love this idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who used to host regular parties you soon realise who is reliable. A lot of people are 'desperate' to come along and then don't appear. So you tend to invite those you know will attend. If new comers say they will come you just wait and see! Some then call this cliquish I call it reliable. So ask to come along, turn up, be respectful and have lots of fun and you will soon start getting lots more invites! Simples! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think simply enquiringly about availability of space is a good side step - you're not really inviting yourselves but showing your availability . We put posts up on the forum and the meets section for people to enquire - I think if someone is actively looking for a party and already know they are free on that day then they are more likely to show up.
(I'm sure we did send you an invite to our last party)
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