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Is there actually any point being on here if you're a single guy looking for a woman?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"
And why wouldn't a woman want to admit to over a 100 'liaisons'?
Is there a problem with this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.
Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".
In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term. |
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"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"
No there's no point in being here if that's your mindset . The site is mearly a tool ..how effective it is for you is solely dependent on you . You can either blame everything else and class it as fake or fiction ,or you can face facts ppl do meet and look at what the successful people are doing to achieve that |
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"The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.
Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".
In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!
No there's no point in being here if that's your mindset . The site is mearly a tool ..how effective it is for you is solely dependent on you . You can either blame everything else and class it as fake or fiction ,or you can face facts ppl do meet and look at what the successful people are doing to achieve that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!"
Hi Keith ..
ive been here pretty much from the beginning .ive probably had 10 meets in 9years...and in saying that ive enjoyed some continuity with one amazing woman in particular.
I will be totally honest with you.i look around and notice some Guys who have met some lovely women on here and i feel humble...I have never in my entire time on Fabswingers felt that i could not get a meet.
Do yourself a favour..eberyone knows why your here..Put the Sex to the back of your head and focus on bringing out your personality.Use the Forums too express your views and opinions..Use the chat rooms get along to some social events.The site has a lot more too offer than just Sex...your patience and preparation is paramount in seeking like-minded people for mutual exploration.
Stick with it Auld Yin...
Good Luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this just not like life in the everday world you win some you lose some i know guys who say they have shagged 100 of women and i.know they have not although this is a sex site people still have preferences some like tall some like gingers etc if is not what you expected just leave grr how many times does this raise its head |
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Hi op - you have only joined 9 weeks ago wich in fab time is 3 minutes ago. It may be a sex site but it's not a fuck at the drop of a hat site either . Don't take things personally on here . You have to accept that people may not find you attractive , or not their type . If you are of a mindest to question if being here is worthwhile then perhaps it's time to leave , patience and perhaps social nights would be benificial. Woman have the same rights to admit to however many liaisons they have. So don't understand the validity of the statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi op - you have only joined 9 weeks ago wich in fab time is 3 minutes ago. It may be a sex site but it's not a fuck at the drop of a hat site either . Don't take things personally on here . You have to accept that people may not find you attractive , or not their type . If you are of a mindest to question if being here is worthwhile then perhaps it's time to leave , patience and perhaps social nights would be benificial. Woman have the same rights to admit to however many liaisons they have. So don't understand the validity of the statement "
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
Patience is the key
There is a lot of lovely guys I chat to on a regular basis, but I actually would love to meet every one that I chat to but since it's impossible and at least they are super patient with me, but I also know the type I'm looking for also.
I don't just drop what I'm doing to suddenly meet someone I kind of can't even if I wished to
I'm looking forward to a trip soon where I've got meets I'm looking forward to ,social kind of meets to play meets
To me I find that certain types who come here and are new don't have patience,then get whiny if you say no sorry but will constantly ask.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile is very rarely looked at, messages are mostly deleted without even being read. Yet the site is full of men boasting about how many girls they've had "success" with. Seems like pure fiction to me, and would a woman want to admit to over 100 "liaisons" - that's not real life either!
Hi Keith ..
ive been here pretty much from the beginning .ive probably had 10 meets in 9years...and in saying that ive enjoyed some continuity with one amazing woman in particular.
I will be totally honest with you.i look around and notice some Guys who have met some lovely women on here and i feel humble...I have never in my entire time on Fabswingers felt that i could not get a meet.
Do yourself a favour..eberyone knows why your here..Put the Sex to the back of your head and focus on bringing out your personality.Use the Forums too express your views and opinions..Use the chat rooms get along to some social events.The site has a lot more too offer than just Sex...your patience and preparation is paramount in seeking like-minded people for mutual exploration.
Stick with it Auld Yin...
Good Luck
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Funny that, same here, except it was an amazing man   CxXx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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pure murder on here being a 6ft 1" single guy, fit, thick cock and who can accom.
feel like hanging myself
anyone any rope lolllllllllllll
is looking in the mirror with a st8 face
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Go to socials, go to cj's, join in the forum discussions.
Chat to people and have a social meet.
This site is much more than just sex. There's fun, friendship, new experiences and adventures!
You've only been on a few weeks. Be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The point of view I take (Male) on Fab, and I had a single guys profile for many years, is that most single guys on here aren't actually swingers....they're just mad shaggers....ask them to participate in straight group fun and they bottle it.
Then you have my personal hate....the "sleekit cunt" the guy who messages a woman asking if she will meet without her partner. Furthermore, the complete lack of respect shown by an alarming percentage of guys on here , there is. Distinct failure to appreciate that single women/couples have lives which don't revolve around dropping whatever we have arranged, dumping our kids with anyone who will watch them in order that we can have a "fuckfest".
In short, the decent guys on here, and we've chatted to a fair few, are being hamstrung by a lot of guys who would be better served getting up the dancing, find themselves a "wee durty" and let people who wish to participate in the swingers lifestyle, in the truest sense of the term."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try not to take it so personally, from what it seems women on the site don't need to look for anyone and get hundreds of messages a day so must be easy to miss some... Or so I keep telling myself
Just got to say the right thing, to the right lady, on the right day.  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Try not to take it so personally, from what it seems women on the site don't need to look for anyone and get hundreds of messages a day so must be easy to miss some... Or so I keep telling myself
Just got to say the right thing, to the right lady, on the right day. "
That just about sums it up! Catch us on a good day and you're more likely to get a response lol. Go to socials. I've a pub quiz meet up for Tuesday in Paisley. |
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