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over a year ago
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This is beyond annoying now, people arrange a meet with you then when you turn up at the agreed place they don't bother answering you when you're sitting there waiting for them, bloody pain in the arse, or maybe i'm just doing something wrong, thoughts?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did you talk to them on the phone at all beforehand?
I find you get a better idea of potential meets n if they're really up for it or not if you can at least hear their voice n chat for a bit.I'd especially want to confirm over the phone before on the day of the meet.
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Tbh, we don't really talk on the phone and we never have a problem. We do spend a fair bit of time chatting first and get a feel for if we'd get on, check photos aren't stolen etc. Were they verified, or was it a new profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear your time was wasted
As suggested maybe try messaging a bit more to suss them out
I stopped talking on the phone on here as the last guy I spoke to was obviously wanking when we were chatting 
So I try to chat a wee while longer on here before I meet anyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is beyond annoying now, people arrange a meet with you then when you turn up at the agreed place they don't bother answering you when you're sitting there waiting for them, bloody pain in the arse, or maybe i'm just doing something wrong, thoughts?? "
(Lee)
It happens to couples too. (3 times)
Its like they get cold feet or have a wierd excuse.
Or one of the partners finds out the other has been messenging secretly. OOPS!
Choose your meets wisely and have a plan B so your time is not wasted.
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Yeah it could be someone just messing you about. There is a lot of people who like the buzz of chat and arrange the meet but then they stop as its too much for them or some other reason. Crap I know but you will never get ride of those people.
Just try and make sure you've got the right person(s) that wont bail
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