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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We actually had a constructive convo in chat today shock horror haha and it was basically what attracts you to the people or persons you are talking to....
For me...the female half....its a sence of humour they gotta be able to make me laugh...theres gotta be that look in the eye... they gotta stimulate me mentally in a sexual way not just visually......of course to an extent visually they gotta do it for me also...but also it cant be all talk as sometimes the talk is there and thats where it ends......no-one bites the bullet.....hmmm need to work on that bit lol
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Apart that lovely picture above , mmmmm, i am probably the same i like teasing physically and mentally is this is not there i dont see the point of the meet. At the end of a good meet you should be coming out with smiles....
but hey that me . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We actually had a constructive convo in chat today shock horror haha and it was basically what attracts you to the people or persons you are talking to....
For me...the female half....its a sence of humour they gotta be able to make me laugh...theres gotta be that look in the eye... they gotta stimulate me mentally in a sexual way not just visually......of course to an extent visually they gotta do it for me also...but also it cant be all talk as sometimes the talk is there and thats where it ends......no-one bites the bullet.....hmmm need to work on that bit lol
what does it for you?"
also to add to this do you meet socialy first or just go for it? |
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For me stimulate the mind and the body will follow ...there has to be a common connection if you can hold a decent conversation that aint all about sex then thats good its nice to have a mix of everyday things and some flirting thrown in too .
I think also there definatley has to be an inital attraction for you to contact someone in the first place .
Always meet socialy first when meeting on my own but if meeting as a couple then we have just gone for it in the past and its all worked out well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me its got to be a nice curvy butt and the fact that there is some kind of chemistry for all, prefer to have a wee chat then "BANG" get right to the point after all thats why we are all on here ....no?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me its got to be a nice curvy butt and the fact that there is some kind of chemistry for all, prefer to have a wee chat then "BANG" get right to the point after all thats why we are all on here ....no? "
u like curvy butts... no way lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always meet socially first, we both love the flirting, eye contact and hopefully decent conversation, where you get to know people. Has to be some physical attraction between all, and both love knowing that hopefully the next meet may lead to more than conversation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Always meet socially first, we both love the flirting, eye contact and hopefully decent conversation, where you get to know people. Has to be some physical attraction between all, and both love knowing that hopefully the next meet may lead to more than conversation"
yup there eyes say it all.... always said that |
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It's kind of funny for us, there has to be a physical attraction, but that attraction is coloured by behaviour. For example, one of us finds a person very attractive but, in conversation, they reveal themselves to be egotistical, nasty, etc… it sort of corrupts their looks and the very thing that seemed attractive at first then seems gross.
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By *taffenMan
over a year ago
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Was the first decent chat Ive seen in that room since I joined
For me all of what has been said before goes but then again sometimes you know within 30 seconds of meeting someone and if that happens why not go for it? Hopefully we are all experienced consenting adults that know how to show respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i wind the clock back ten years, i was just clueless,never knew what i was lookin for, now,its priority, the sense of humour thing,dry humour, quick humour, observational humour, but they got to have it.
And that mutual "making an effort" when it comes to meeting socialy or at a meet or party too, lookin nice,smelling great,that can be any style, casual,dressed up.
On a personal level, if a lady looks sexy and great dressed, i find that fantastic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jo, i know u sit often with knickers soaking at me in chat, thats what turns me on WET knickers!-BrB Fuck i forgot to stop the washing machine spin drying!!!!!
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eye contact and a seductive smile is for me, not a creepy stare or a leer, more of a come to bed kind of look but they also got to look ok and have a sense of humour. prefer to get to know someone before i dive in, as first impressions can be wrong. |
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