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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
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could be a number of things, unfortunately on a site like this guys will say pretty much anything to get laid. Well some if not all, shallow springs to mind, hope your OK, learn from it and find someone worthy of your time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno..shag me and we can find out..
in all honesty, most people have to remember why some use the site, regardless of their gender.
some things aree best to fizzle out..
onwards n upwards really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than likely.. but I've had lads that don't respond for a while then one night they want their hole.. they're swiftly told where to go  "
That's young lads for ya  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It doesn't bother me as I know what the site is for. But I'd just rather be told, 'hey I'm not interested anymore'
There is a thing called good manners lol. Guess we're all not the same when it comes to it x
Thanx ppl for ur opinions x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some folks just wanna get laid once with as many as possible however some of us are looking for something more regular and not with everybody. Also some maybe just don't know how to say sorry that wasn't for me. All the best chin up n keep going x. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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I have to admit that I am bad at keeping in touch with friends 
Luckily they all know that though.
But in this case OP, I'm afraid my advice would be to live and learn. There is a small chance he is bad at communicating but you'd have to give him the benefit of the doubt for that  |
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"You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
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It does happen sadly
but its not gender spcific females do it too .
If they are ignoring your emails after meeting you thats just rude ..block and move on im sure there are people more than happy to chat to you and not just when its convenient for them |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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I think some guys just wanna be players. Maybe this isn't what he's done. Maybe he is trying to play cool.
I'd rather have good sex with people I enjoy being around than lots of random sex. Don't get me wrong I like random sex too it has its place. But I'd rather get on with someone - does that make sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think some guys just wanna be players. Maybe this isn't what he's done. Maybe he is trying to play cool.
I'd rather have good sex with people I enjoy being around than lots of random sex. Don't get me wrong I like random sex too it has its place. But I'd rather get on with someone - does that make sense?"
Yes makes alot of sense thanx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
It does happen sadly
but its not gender spcific females do it too .
If they are ignoring your emails after meeting you thats just rude ..block and move on im sure there are people more than happy to chat to you and not just when its convenient for them "
Thanx for ur advice xx |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"I think some guys just wanna be players. Maybe this isn't what he's done. Maybe he is trying to play cool.
I'd rather have good sex with people I enjoy being around than lots of random sex. Don't get me wrong I like random sex too it has its place. But I'd rather get on with someone - does that make sense?
Yes makes alot of sense thanx"
I hope you're okay. Just know, in the long run, he probably wasn't worth it x |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
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Unfortunately some men will say ANYTHING to get laid but some are decent genuine guys ..dont lose heart the good guys will outweigh the bad |
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Only you can answer that question is the site full of users yes but interspersed through it there are decent folk. If your left with this feeling change the criteria of how you meet to filter out more of the undesirables. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know when you chat to people for a while, and then finally meet and they say they are gonna message afterwards and then don't respond to your messages. Does that mean they were just feeding you to get laid?
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Course it does!!! Until the next time they want a shag, message you and make up an excuse to why they didn't mail you back! |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that,but best thing is talk to many as well as the one you intend to meet, and in a way you tend to gain friendships as well,
Friendship as in once you meet,have a fun rapport with them,can have a laugh,then if you can still play and then afterwards still have that non stilted conversation even after a few days then to me even better.
I tend to hope I'm still likeable to know even afterwards hehe which I seem to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv met the same guy more than once
Iv Met guys only once
As I said...it is what it is lol
But have you met someone ...said youd keep in touch then ignored their messages lol "
I reply to all my messages lol
But if Iv met someone and he dosnt txt or message me..hey ho I wouldn't lose any sleep over it lol .
I class this as a sex site that's what I'm on here for ultimately if I make friends...brilliant but thats what I'm on here for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately people are terrible and if they aren't interested in seeing you again they will just go silent and not respond. I hate it personally and would much rather get a message saying sorry I'm not interested then be met with the slow death of hope due to silence. You may be lucky and they've just been busy but don't get your hopes up I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cool. I totally agree the site is what it is. I'm not upset about it. It's just rude not to reply or at least say that they weren't interested anymore. Especially if they say to ur face that they definitely want to stay in touch or see you again, to ur face then don't reply to a message it's bad news. Especially if I've verified them saying how nice they were lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cool. I totally agree the site is what it is. I'm not upset about it. It's just rude not to reply or at least say that they weren't interested anymore. Especially if they say to ur face that they definitely want to stay in touch or see you again, to ur face then don't reply to a message it's bad news. Especially if I've verified them saying how nice they were lol"
Oh that does my tits in too, I think some lads think it's better just to go quiet then say it to your face which is a pussy move, I like people to be straight with me as I am with them |
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