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People wanting to meet but won't show face pictures?
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Does anyone else come across people like this ? Asking to meet up but point blank refuse to send a face picture ? We have plenty and obviously they have looked at them what on earth makes people think you are going to meet without seeing one ? There would be a lot of very awkward meet ups if everyone did this there needs to be initial attraction no ? Or am I just being really unreasonable? |
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Pics dont intrest me saying that I would have to see a pic in order to be able to recognise them. Irrespective of looks I would meet socially anyway as I must have been speaking to them for there to be any intrest. |
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You're not being unreasonable. This isn't blind date, a face pic when arranging a meet is essential. We wouldn't meet anyone we weren't interested in after swapping pics either, no point in wasting each other's time
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Friend of mine was chatting to someone in here who wouldn't show a pic of herself. He wentto meet hermuch against my better judgement, and low and behold she never showed. She Has been verified which makes me wonder how on earth anyone would meet without seeing some sort of pic |
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"Friend of mine was chatting to someone in here who wouldn't show a pic of herself. He wentto meet hermuch against my better judgement, and low and behold she never showed. She Has been verified which makes me wonder how on earth anyone would meet without seeing some sort of pic"
Maybe a guy creating a lady profile then verifying it from his own? Seen that quite a few times. |
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over a year ago
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Although I would agree a pic before meeting is essential I've found a lot of people won't chat without a pic. Personally speaking I would much rather chat a bit first before sending and that's well before arranging to meet someone. |
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"Although I would agree a pic before meeting is essential I've found a lot of people won't chat without a pic. Personally speaking I would much rather chat a bit first before sending and that's well before arranging to meet someone."
again im one who likes to exchange photos fairly early on as i think there isnt any point in getting on great only to discover there is no attraction further down the line xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My time for meeting is very limited so id rather spend that time meeting someone im attracted to than meeting someone I might not be .
No pic no meet from me either  "
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A Face Pic is A Must. if they don't show you then why waste time on them.
Although, for me, I'm gonna hide my face pics on my profile as I don't meet as much due to girls n cpls seeing my face first lol. Maybe Surprise them
lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple asking me to meet with just the woman's face pic, it was def a woman as we chatted on phone, but just found it very weird, needless to say I didn't meet them  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
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"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
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just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya "
Ive had to do that at socials before now as the ladies wouldn't believe it was me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya
Ive had to do that at socials before now as the ladies wouldn't believe it was me "
ye can show me again  I'd never tire of rubbing it  . (Chest) |
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"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya
Ive had to do that at socials before now as the ladies wouldn't believe it was me "
would recognise you and that chest anywhere lol |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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If someone sends a face picture I will send one back.
If they have loads of filters on their face pic I usually ask for normal pic.
My display pic is for my privacy but my face is really me. I got a shock at a social meet with someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't meet without seeing face pic.... and I won't show my face pic to anyone until after they send me one.
Recently I started chatting to a lovely guy on here only to find when he sent me his face pic he is a friend of many years standing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya
Ive had to do that at socials before now as the ladies wouldn't believe it was me "
You won't have anything left if my Mrs gets her hands on you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definetley need a face photo and not one of them disguised ones of someone up a hill, a million miles away, wearing sunglasses and a hat in disguise! A clear face photo. Preferably a quick chat on cam to see there photo isn't 10 years out of date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I am naive but I just go with gut instinct cos what is to say the pics are really that person. Oh and Vampira you look fantastic get more pics up x |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"I'm happy to chat to anyone with or without a pic. It has never bothered me. If I find them interesting or funny then that's great.
But, I'd always swap face pics before meeting so that I know what they look like when we meet for a cuppa. Otherwise they might think I stood them up if I start chatting to someone else by mistake.
just show them yer chest wig, then they would recognise ya
Ive had to do that at socials before now as the ladies wouldn't believe it was me
You won't have anything left if my Mrs gets her hands on you lol"
She is welcome to have a feel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, we have had this before. I put it down to them being fake or they know who I am and have a girlfriend.
We exchanged a few messages with a guy, asked for a face pic (the person in the picture was absolutely beautiful!) I didn't believe it was him (didn't tell him that, obv) so asked if he wanted to chat on kik. We did and then I asked for a live face picture and he refused point black to send one. My point was proven and he got blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had the demands of numerous pics , face , body , full frontal, cock so on and so on before she would consider sending a face pic .
Explained I wasn't going to jump through hoops and carry out a photo shoot to appease her and my pics covered what needed covered for an initial chat . Apparently this was a rant and I was blocked lol |
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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago
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"IMO these people have absolutely no intention of meeting ..they are playing games ...just avoid n block "
Ahem. . . We are those people . and I'm pretty sure we're real, or I was the last time I sat on your knee lol xxx |
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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago
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We don't show full face pics, nor ask for face pics from other people. It's probably a wonder we get any meets at all, but we do. People just work out what works for them and stick to it. Some will take the chance on meeting a "munter", others wont. We realise everyone's time is precious, and fortunately haven't disappointed anyone yet. However, there's always a first time for everything - except for sending our face pics. Love N Lust, The Blues xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well our pics are up for viewing and we often go on cam ........saves on any confusion. as for others sorry we wouldn't even consider a blind date , let alone getting into deep meaningful conversation etc ..... our preference . |
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We don't do cam, we're not together often enough to be able to do that. We swap pics, and are happy to chat on the phone if required. Never had any problems yet, and our verifications show we're real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've meet before and nothing like the pics or they have been older, so even with a pic it can be a bit different.
Those whom I didn't meet with a pic but wasn't really them, ive been polite and said good bye.
I don't do that anymore as it can be quite off putting. this site is a girl site as in like 100 guys to a girl, (that's being polite) so most guys would take a chance and meet without a pic
such is the world of fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we don't get a pic back we wont continue to chat. We don't have a lot of free time so there's no point spending it talking to people we might not be attracted to
Something else that annoys me is "I will send u a pic on kik" no thanks just send it on here |
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"If we don't get a pic back we wont continue to chat. We don't have a lot of free time so there's no point spending it talking to people we might not be attracted to
Something else that annoys me is "I will send u a pic on kik" no thanks just send it on here "
Yep, that bugs me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't quite get my head round some of this... people will meet without sending or recieving pics????
what do you do- wear balaclavas when you meet so that no-one recognises you? |
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"I can't quite get my head round some of this... people will meet without sending or recieving pics????
what do you do- wear balaclavas when you meet so that no-one recognises you?"
giant condom straight over their heads lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be honest - don't think you learn that much from a face pic, I've seen girls who look like stunners in a pic but in real life they've not been so attractive, others who wouldn't be said to be classically beautiful but who there is a real sexy spark with. I suppose it depends how important looks are to you, or of you've got a specific type. I like to think I can see the beauty in any lady (particularly if she's married & cheating lol). |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"We had our face pics stolen by a man pretending to be a couple then used them on another profile
Now we only Skype"
Only want to see a face pic so if meet set we can recognise each other. By that time there should be a rapport |
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"Does anyone else come across people like this ? Asking to meet up but point blank refuse to send a face picture ? We have plenty and obviously they have looked at them what on earth makes people think you are going to meet without seeing one ? There would be a lot of very awkward meet ups if everyone did this there needs to be initial attraction no ? Or am I just being really unreasonable? "
I think your completely right to question this behavior, it would make me very suspicious if someone wanted to meet but wouldn't show me their face.
They will probably not even turn up to anything that you arrange with them. I'd stay well clear! |
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"I'll be honest - don't think you learn that much from a face pic, I've seen girls who look like stunners in a pic but in real life they've not been so attractive"
aye take anyway the effects and makeup, most look rather ruff lol
a picture doesn't mean much, who's to say it's a picture of them their showing for a start?
personally i prefer to chat a little before showing a picture of my face. |
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"Does anyone else come across people like this ? Asking to meet up but point blank refuse to send a face picture ? We have plenty and obviously they have looked at them what on earth makes people think you are going to meet without seeing one ? There would be a lot of very awkward meet ups if everyone did this there needs to be initial attraction no ? Or am I just being really unreasonable?
I think your completely right to question this behavior, it would make me very suspicious if someone wanted to meet but wouldn't show me their face.
They will probably not even turn up to anything that you arrange with them. I'd stay well clear!"
we never show face pics and have never not shown up.hubby would meet the person first and if they are who they appear to be he will show pics of us and if all is good would meet for fun on the same day.not sure if its overreacting but we wouldint be comfortable showing face pics online as to many timewasters etc who could use our face pics to set up their on profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually they see my face pic then they don't want to meet  "
That's why I send them Mr Big's Pic or George Clooney pic, works every time
yeah as if loll
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