"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab" yes I think you if thats really what you want |
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"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab" I struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case
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"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fab"
It's perfectly possible to leave the swinging lifestyle and go back to a vanilla lifestyle - it's all horses for courses and different things tick different boxes for all of us at different times.
Each to their own |
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"Is it just me that thinks vanilla is one of the yummiest and most exciting flavours?
(sorry for dragging things off topic for a bit)"
Prefer raspberry ripple, yummy |
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I think vanilla for say couples would mean to leave the site and lead what would be classed as a typical couple lifestyle ie only having sex with each other not involving others or for a singles to go back to vanilla ie only meeting and having sex with partners.
How kinky someone thinks they are but others might think its all very vanilla because vannila can mean very dufferent things to many different people
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"Is there a middle of the road where you might leave the life style for a bit then return seen a few profiles now with been away now back is this a common occurrence to leave and return "
If we were taking a step away we would hide but not delete the profile. Then if we decided to return we wouldn't lose all the veris we have. |
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"Is there a middle of the road where you might leave the life style for a bit then return seen a few profiles now with been away now back is this a common occurrence to leave and return " pmsl its a staple some have had more profiles than hot dinners |
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No way! Tried it and it just wouldn't work for me. This is a lifestyle choice for me. I have that on my profile. Not a stop gap between relationships.
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"Yes I also concur the post was ment as a discussion about leaving the swinging life and going back to the vanilla one not about the sex we've had through fabI struggle with the term vanilla what exactly does it mean? before I joined fab I was swinging. It cant mean sexually liberated as lots of folk have varied sex lives outside of swinging. so in my mind those who use the term "vanilla" are promoting themselves as some sort of better more liberated person than sadie from iceland. Which from personal experience isnt the case " I know Sadie fae Iceland . Nice wummin that |
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As much as I would miss it I think I could if I had to. We both love it and can't see us stopping any time soon but if she didn't feel she could do it any more and I had to pick between swinging and her I'd pick her. Hopefully I'll never have to pick. |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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It's the 21st century and people just seen so much more up for exploring different things now than they once were I think.
It's always been there but people are more open to it. I think do what you want in the moment. This is a lifestyle choice but you never know what's round the corner... Go with the flow.
Don't think I'll ever be vanilla, though. |
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Yes....sex with Mr A is better than anyone I've met here....the meets although good haven't even come close.....my life as a whole couldn't be better and just have meets every now and again when we fancy....I can't imagine people not being able to live without that like it's their whole life x |
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