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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Four years on....it's still working out. In many ways it's better than ever. It's a constantly evolving, mutually supportive,deep friendship that is also hotter and hornier all the time....we enjoy "us"!   |
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You can meet anyone anywhere most of the time it wont work. sometimes it does I tend not to see fab life as a seperate entity to real life. I think knowing yourself goes a long way to comfort in singledom. |
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Nope
Had many close friendships tho which aint the same I know but were mistaken for more than it ever was.
Im a very passionate girl and play that way too but not to be mistaken for anything other than that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope
Had many close friendships tho which aint the same I know but were mistaken for more than it ever was.
Im a very passionate girl and play that way too but not to be mistaken for anything other than that "
same....some single guys think it's more than it actually is...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?"
Just speaking for myself. |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself."
Do you think the girls you might meet can't be good enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not yet lol 
As for not looking for someone here. I would rather meet someone through here than meet a vanilla. Been there and done that and didn't work out. At least on here you both know how it works and it wouldn't cause an issue. I think I have more chance of meeting someone on here than in vanilla life. Just my opinion
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself."
was just curiois as to the reason why this is definatly not the place no need to answer if you dont wish just my curious mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself.
Do you think the girls you might meet can't be good enough?"
Why you assume something so negative?
I would just prefer looking for a long term/wife irl. Not online at all and not on a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself.was just curiois as to the reason why this is definatly not the place no need to answer if you dont wish just my curious mind "
I think it's because the girl l still love is quite traditional and old fashioned. |
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself.was just curiois as to the reason why this is definatly not the place no need to answer if you dont wish just my curious mind
I think it's because the girl l still love is quite traditional and old fashioned."
sounds like you still carry a torch. Raises another question though what would she think of you being on here and does it not make you feel guilty (been in a similar situation) but my ways were a known factor |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.out of curiosity why is this definatly not the place ?
Just speaking for myself.
Do you think the girls you might meet can't be good enough?
Why you assume something so negative?
I would just prefer looking for a long term/wife irl. Not online at all and not on a sex site."
If you read it right I asked might.
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place."
Hmm well depending in how you must think some one is on here, im curious as to why being on Fab is any different to any other sites.
Do you judge what a woman must be like for being on here,because then wouldn't it be viable to judge every gentleman here also.
Take away all the waffling on my profile, and im just a standard female and no personality,maybe I add loads on my profile as a barrier who knows but I do have a wall in a way..But anyhoo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day "
Not been on the site for long, but I've met an amazing woman already  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.
Hmm well depending in how you must think some one is on here, im curious as to why being on Fab is any different to any other sites.
Do you judge what a woman must be like for being on here,because then wouldn't it be viable to judge every gentleman here also.
Take away all the waffling on my profile, and im just a standard female and no personality,maybe I add loads on my profile as a barrier who knows but I do have a wall in a way..But anyhoo"
Read up. I explained. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day
Not been on the site for long, but I've met an amazing woman already x"
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day
Not been on the site for long, but I've met an amazing woman already x
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Oh get a room you pair 
K xx |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.
Hmm well depending in how you must think some one is on here, im curious as to why being on Fab is any different to any other sites.
Do you judge what a woman must be like for being on here,because then wouldn't it be viable to judge every gentleman here also.
Take away all the waffling on my profile, and im just a standard female and no personality,maybe I add loads on my profile as a barrier who knows but I do have a wall in a way..But anyhoo
Read up. I explained."
I Know LOL Just Read ...And I Hit THE Caps Key Somehow eeps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I have only ever loved one girl. If i'm looking for a relationship, this is definitely not the place.
Hmm well depending in how you must think some one is on here, im curious as to why being on Fab is any different to any other sites.
Do you judge what a woman must be like for being on here,because then wouldn't it be viable to judge every gentleman here also.
Take away all the waffling on my profile, and im just a standard female and no personality,maybe I add loads on my profile as a barrier who knows but I do have a wall in a way..But anyhoo
Read up. I explained.
I Know LOL Just Read ...And I Hit THE Caps Key Somehow eeps"
Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember chatting to a guy on here for ages....was really hitting it off..I'm thinking oh think I might actually meet this guy lol then he asked...so your husband knows your on here...me...yeah of course he does as I wouldn't be here if he didn't...he says...
If I had a gf or wife no way would I let someone else shag her....oookkkkkk
Needless to say we never chatted again after that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weirdly was talking to a friend from here today and we both said that exact same thing...
If I was single and met another single off here
1st thing I'd do is delete both profiles...new relationships need to build trust...then things can go further.. |
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"Weirdly was talking to a friend from here today and we both said that exact same thing...
If I was single and met another single off here
1st thing I'd do is delete both profiles...new relationships need to build trust...then things can go further.."
agreed if people hook up and concentrate on getting their relationship on track away from prying eyes on here.
Some relationships from here have worked and some havent.
Love can be found anywhere even on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day
Not been on the site for long, but I've met an amazing woman already x
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Oh get a room you pair
K xx"
Hahahaha sorry Karen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens....sometimes it works out and sometimes not. It's not what I am looking for but know some it's worked for and sadly some that have been hurt x "
Just as with meeting anywhere else then.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens....sometimes it works out and sometimes not. It's not what I am looking for but know some it's worked for and sadly some that have been hurt x
Just as with meeting anywhere else then...."
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day "
Yup... Lasted for 3 years, we went vanilla then I caught her cheating... The irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious to know if anyone has fell for someone who started off as a fab meet.
Wee bit of _omance for the day
Not been on the site for long, but I've met an amazing woman already x
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Oh get a room you pair
K xx"
You tell 'em. We are ALL amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you have an attraction and you fall for someone then why not lol feel the love  I have felt very close to someone of here and we have had some amazing times nothing wrong with it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if you have an attraction and you fall for someone then why not lol feel the love I have felt very close to someone of here and we have had some amazing times nothing wrong with it xxx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People seem to be taking this as meaning being a couple forever.
Can they not be a couple till it simply runs it's course, and part amicably?"
...ah, it's the parting amicably that is the stumbling block for most i suppose. If you start off and indeed continue with the right mindset and honesty it's easier. In many ways I think fab can be an ideal platform for such a relationship. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"People seem to be taking this as meaning being a couple forever.
Can they not be a couple till it simply runs it's course, and part amicably?
...ah, it's the parting amicably that is the stumbling block for most i suppose. If you start off and indeed continue with the right mindset and honesty it's easier. In many ways I think fab can be an ideal platform for such a relationship. "
Very true, Jinty, and as you know very well, my previous experience didn't end well. But the important thing, when the opportunity arose again I didn't think, 'I'm not doing that again', as seems to be the case so often here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met as singletons and now have a joint profile. We also got married a few weeks ago xxxxawww congratulations guys i had no idea.
Another lovely couple good luck to you both for the future "
Thanks honey xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope a few Fbs over the years but never fell for one. Though I don't think there's anything wrong with people that do and it works, some doesn't. Same as real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People seem to be taking this as meaning being a couple forever.
Can they not be a couple till it simply runs it's course, and part amicably?
...ah, it's the parting amicably that is the stumbling block for most i suppose. If you start off and indeed continue with the right mindset and honesty it's easier. In many ways I think fab can be an ideal platform for such a relationship.
Very true, Jinty, and as you know very well, my previous experience didn't end well. But the important thing, when the opportunity arose again I didn't think, 'I'm not doing that again', as seems to be the case so often here. "
Did you just agree with me...?
*Faints* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it wasn't for fab I wouldn't have met Mrs J. It's been amazing getting to know her & spending time together & becoming best friends as well as everything else.
Now if you don't mind, I have a lovely lady to go & snuggle with.
mr j |
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Yep its one rule for men and another for women with some men.
Luckily not all guys are the same and iv met a couple of decent guys.
And TBH there are more decent guys on here than on a certain "normal dating site " I cd mention. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it matters whether it be on here.. dating site... work or the pub ... as long as both parties feel the same then it will work... it's human nature and as they say ye can't help who you fall in love with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it matters whether it be on here.. dating site... work or the pub ... as long as both parties feel the same then it will work... it's human nature and as they say ye can't help who you fall in love with x "
Mr dlt and I met from the telly, 9 years on we are still together, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it matters whether it be on here.. dating site... work or the pub ... as long as both parties feel the same then it will work... it's human nature and as they say ye can't help who you fall in love with x
Mr dlt and I met from the telly, 9 years on we are still together, "
We met each other through an AOL chat room. We were a bit on/off in the early days, but we've now lived together almost ten years and have two kids together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it matters whether it be on here.. dating site... work or the pub ... as long as both parties feel the same then it will work... it's human nature and as they say ye can't help who you fall in love with x
Mr dlt and I met from the telly, 9 years on we are still together,
We met each other through an AOL chat room. We were a bit on/off in the early days, but we've now lived together almost ten years and have two kids together."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no because we dont see it as a dating site.
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I dont see it as a dating site either but then do people who met in the pub say oh sorry i csnt get attacjed to you we never met in a dating pub ?
i suppose what people are saying above is you can meet anyone anywhere and if the chemistry is there end up with feelings for them ... So why would fab be any different
It might not have been what you set out looking for , and it might or might not have worked out but in life and love really anything is possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no because we dont see it as a dating site.
I dont see it as a dating site either but then do people who met in the pub say oh sorry i csnt get attacjed to you we never met in a dating pub ?
i suppose what people are saying above is you can meet anyone anywhere and if the chemistry is there end up with feelings for them ... So why would fab be any different
It might not have been what you set out looking for , and it might or might not have worked out but in life and love really anything is possible "
Agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep
Previous profile, became regular fun and quickly turned to more , sadly long term we wanted different things and it wasn't to be . Wasn't looking and certainly wasn't expecting it .
Seems she hates me now for being honest enough to say I couldn't give her what she wanted . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep
Previous profile, became regular fun and quickly turned to more , sadly long term we wanted different things and it wasn't to be . Wasn't looking and certainly wasn't expecting it .
Seems she hates me now for being honest enough to say I couldn't give her what she wanted . "
If that's true, you can consider it a lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep
Previous profile, became regular fun and quickly turned to more , sadly long term we wanted different things and it wasn't to be . Wasn't looking and certainly wasn't expecting it .
Seems she hates me now for being honest enough to say I couldn't give her what she wanted .
If that's true, you can consider it a lucky escape."
Can't say I'm not disappointed in her reaction , maybe wasn't handled the best at the time but we live and learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep
Previous profile, became regular fun and quickly turned to more , sadly long term we wanted different things and it wasn't to be . Wasn't looking and certainly wasn't expecting it .
Seems she hates me now for being honest enough to say I couldn't give her what she wanted .
If that's true, you can consider it a lucky escape.
Can't say I'm not disappointed in her reaction , maybe wasn't handled the best at the time but we live and learn "
Well, hopefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I fell for someone I once met through craigslist it didn't work out but story of my life so far. I don't see any reason why you couldn't meet someone through FAB just wouldn't give it great odds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy on here. Fell head over heels. Left my husband for him. Turned out he was married and I got called a home wrecker! !! Never again!"
Is that true?! No way. That is too brutal! x |
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"Met a guy on here. Fell head over heels. Left my husband for him. Turned out he was married and I got called a home wrecker! !! Never again!
Is that true?! No way. That is too brutal! x"
Yup. And I have the divorce papers to prove it!!! He told me he was divorced. So you can imagine how stunned his wife and I were by the whole situation. We stood in his lounge, both of us in front of him sagging him off. He was mortified. She made him apologise to me!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fell for someone - yes
Ended up with them - no
Looked like an idiot - yes
Likely to do it again - no
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Fell for someone -yes
Did it work out - no. But ever could
Feel stupid - - yep
Do it again? - head says no way. Heart says now way. Dick says yeah, yeah , yeah.
Hate it when that happens. |
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"Met a guy on here. Fell head over heels. Left my husband for him. Turned out he was married and I got called a home wrecker! !! Never again!"
how soon after you left your hubby did you find out he was married?
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"Met a guy on here. Fell head over heels. Left my husband for him. Turned out he was married and I got called a home wrecker! !! Never again!
Is that true?! No way. That is too brutal! x
Yup. And I have the divorce papers to prove it!!! He told me he was divorced. So you can imagine how stunned his wife and I were by the whole situation. We stood in his lounge, both of us in front of him sagging him off. He was mortified. She made him apologise to me!!!!"
Wow how did you find out he was married?? |
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Find some of the comments made, mostly from single guys, that they are quiet happy to hook up with ladies on here, but the thought of relationship with them abhorrent . Double standards ?
There are many people using 'vanilla ' dating sites that are more promiscuous than some swingers , but that's ok?
In my short years I have knwn the most unlikeliest of couples who you wouldn't give a snowballs chance hell in surviving long term actually turn out to have a very strong relationship and outlast the odds on ones .
We find love in the strangest of places . |
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After a few bad vinila relationships I said never again and I would only look for a relationship with someone in this lifestyle.
Then out of the blue I met P and she is amazing, she never judged in about my swinging lifestyle and has enjoyed dipping her toes in.
We are now planning on moving in together.
So you never know where you will meet the right person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find some of the comments made, mostly from single guys, that they are quiet happy to hook up with ladies on here, but the thought of relationship with them abhorrent . Double standards ?
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Its an excellent filter for who not to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male seeking Females
Females seeking Males
Wink Wink ..
Love at first sight..riding into the sunset..
Couples Profile..
THEN..
"no single males"
Now thats funny as feck
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Happened to Me.
Used to just have banter in the chatroom, met at a social, something clicked. We were supposed to hook up at another social thing in 3 weeks time and pair off.... started chatting offsite a lot 5 days later we had a date and spent the night together.
8 months later we're still together |
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