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I guess it depends on how your using the site really.
If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.
If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.
But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good  |
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over a year ago
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"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.
If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.
If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.
But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good "
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"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.
If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.
If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.
But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good
This "
Plus respect each other's preferences and not judge them............... |
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over a year ago
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For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x"
this to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now"
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way. |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."
I would love a friend with benefits to swing with! group sex turns me on |
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"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.
If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.
If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.
But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good
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Plus respect each other's preferences and not judge them..............."
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."
the thing with the ultra positive outlook is you miss the subtle diffrences looking for a fwb is not looking for friendship its looking for someone to open more shagging doors.this is only my take on it but fab users are mostly focused on sex and not the friendship side of it. Oh many will snivel and brown nose to appear friendly but fade away once they get what they want.lts that fake side of humanity I dont like and its very prevelant here |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way."
Agreed. We've made many friends on here, some we play with and some we don't. It's a lifestyle choice for us. |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way.the thing with the ultra positive outlook is you miss the subtle diffrences looking for a fwb is not looking for friendship its looking for someone to open more shagging doors.this is only my take on it but fab users are mostly focused on sex and not the friendship side of it. Oh many will snivel and brown nose to appear friendly but fade away once they get what they want.lts that fake side of humanity I dont like and its very prevelant here "
I'm sure that's how you find it, but it is a big generalisation, but totally from your personal perspective which I totally respect. But for me its how I see it, I don't feel I miss out and get hood winked by those looking for a quick shag. I think I'm astute and intelligent enough to be able to spot the differences you mentioned.
And as the French would say
"Vive la difference"
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Swinging
"A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. Swingers tend to refrain from romantic attachments with their outside partners, thus differentiating themselves from PolyAmorists. There is some overlap between the two communities, though the closeness of the comparisons are generally not acknowledged"
I'm sure many would disagree with this definition, especially as it doesn't really mention singles or the social side of it all.
Personally I use fab as a sex site with an eye to become more involved in the social scene....I suppose you could even argue that by using the forums you are already engaging in the social aspects of the lifestyle |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life x"
Exactly the same for me |
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"For me it's a sex site which allows me to have 3 somes....I have no interest in making friends on here or anyone I meet on here be part of my day to day life xthis to me is the prevailing mindset on fab now so while its not what I seek I would say its what fab is in general now
I disagree I find that many want friends with benefits and are looking for regular meets , but that's only how I find it, not saying its the "norm" in any way.
Agreed. We've made many friends on here, some we play with and some we don't. It's a lifestyle choice for us."
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"I guess it depends on how your using the site really.
If your just meeting 121 and shagging then its a shagging site.
If your socialising,partying and shagging then its a swinging site.
But at the end of the day everyone is here doing their own thing and as long as that works for them then alls good "
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