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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not? |
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"It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not?"
I came with no expectations at all.
But happy to say my time on here has been an amazing journey .
Some fabulous people and some not so fabulous people .
Some things im so glad I got to do and a few things not so much .
I have no regrets each and everyday is different ive lernt a lot from it and many things il continue to do and enjoy and some will never be repeated.
The memories will always be there and looked back on when im old and gray ...il always have a nawty smile on my face but only il know why
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined bout 5 yrs ago found it by chance originally joined just to chat to escape real life for a bit no expectations at all but hey ho still here after leaving few times n coming back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not?"
Joined about 1 and 1/2 months ago same expectations as yourself but found it difficult and awkward. Don't know if the place has moved on or if it is just too many males on here. |
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"It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not?"
no new fantasies ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not?no new fantasies ?"
Of course I do... You want me to share with the class? The ones that involve you specifically or the generic ones? |
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"It was about 7 years ago and it gave me an escape from the pressures of the real world. I really wanted to explore swinging and attend parties. I had a couple of fantasies that I am pleased to say have been ticked off.
what was your expectation - and has the reality exceeded your expectations or not?no new fantasies ?
Of course I do... You want me to share with the class? The ones that involve you specifically or the generic ones?"
generic ones lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined not really knowing what the site and lifestyle was about, rarely meet and even less now, had a few not so nice encounters which has definitely made me think twice whether I should really just delete and get on with normal life, as for friends on fab I've made a few gems , and I'm sure they know who they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't give up on us all lil tease! Stay and play! think my faith in fab has gone to be honest way too many fakes
Even the odd one that isn't too "
you weeesht lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't give up on us all lil tease! Stay and play! think my faith in fab has gone to be honest way too many fakes even the genuine ones are fakes apparently "
I am a fake 
Good at faking it too  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I came from another site and had great times in chat, at socials and meets. The great times all outweigh the few not so good.
I live my life for happiness, contentment and enjoyment. I found it all on here.
I will leave the second it stops and not look back. |
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We were very naive as to what to expect made mistakes and learned very quickly ....we realised the fantasy and reality can be very different. Had some great times and certainly will always remember them.....been 10 years now not sure if we will ever be as involved as we once was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined when Sluttycpl had the site in the beginning.I never really joined too meet.I think i just got lucky sometimes.Ive used it to my advantage and tried too create fun and banter in all that time.
Unfortunatly the site is a shadow of its former self.
Ive chatted to some inspirational people and some not so.
How long will i be here.?..not long
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined after a friend suggested I have a look - almost 3 years ago
Didn't have any expectations and actually it was the forums that really interested me - I had been on a site previously that had forums which I really liked.Fab is my people watching without going to Costa and with more drama!
Fantasies...probably one big one that still considering
Disappointments - yes the odd one but I don't worry about it and move on
As for the site changing...people change and they change how they use it so I see it as something constantly changing - bit like 'evolving' |
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"Don't give up on us all lil tease! Stay and play! think my faith in fab has gone to be honest way too many fakes "
I agree.....but you also say you have good friends theres still more gems unfortunatly the sh** shovelling gets tiresome rest up n start anew
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"Negativity attracts negativity in some cases yes, in mine no
Good for you and its exactly this is what I'm talking about  "
You are looking for negativity. I said good for you if you don't let it attract and put a thumbs up to you.
But look at the negative and roll your eyes, it clearly works for you
All the best |
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"Negativity attracts negativity in some cases yes, in mine no
Good for you and its exactly this is what I'm talking about
You are looking for negativity. I said good for you if you don't let it attract and put a thumbs up to you.
But look at the negative and roll your eyes, it clearly works for you
All the best "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My only expectation was too meet like minded people for some chat and hopefully some NSA Fun. I would be lying if I said anything else.
However during my time I have came met and chatted with some amazing people but as we all know there are others on here that are less than desirable.
I'm still happy to be part of this community and as above my expectations remain constants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Negativity attracts negativity in some cases yes, in mine no
Good for you and its exactly this is what I'm talking about
You are looking for negativity. I said good for you if you don't let it attract and put a thumbs up to you.
But look at the negative and roll your eyes, it clearly works for you
All the best "
until you actually know what I was referring to then I dont think you can comment on my situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Negativity attracts negativity in some cases yes, in mine no
Good for you and its exactly this is what I'm talking about
You are looking for negativity. I said good for you if you don't let it attract and put a thumbs up to you.
But look at the negative and roll your eyes, it clearly works for you
All the best "
also I ain't looking for negativity, I'm looking for genuine people which are few and far between.. Oh |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"Negativity attracts negativity in some cases yes, in mine no
Good for you and its exactly this is what I'm talking about
You are looking for negativity. I said good for you if you don't let it attract and put a thumbs up to you.
But look at the negative and roll your eyes, it clearly works for you
All the best also I ain't looking for negativity, I'm looking for genuine people which are few and far between.. Oh "
As opposed to a genuine windup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined with my husband about 8 yrs ago...
At the start it was such fun
ie...Scottish chat rooms and Scottish forums plus the socials were only usually on special occasions like Halloween Christmas and valentines with everyone from the chat rooms and forums chatting about them and getting good excited months before ..most were only a few pounds to attend and then think some thought...hey ho ...open market here and hell now being back i spotted a social at £30!!
Anyway...as someone said earlier it's a shadow that it used to be ...but I think that's more us oldies from the beginning Looking back in rose tinted glasses lol
There will always be folk that don't get on...always be Chinese whispers...just treat it as it is...a bit of fun from the normal...if a comment from a person you don't know ruins your day...it's time to have a re think
Me personally don't look at fabswingers being a swingers site anymore...I see it as a whatever folk want it to be site...chatting...fetish...instashag whatever...
Good luck to those just joining cause it can be a bit of a minefield
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came here by accident..and stayed in the hope of having some fun. Guess I was exceptionally fortunate as I found someone special who makes me happy and has changed my life very positively. I never expected that, so I feel very lucky.
As for the negative aspects..? The tools are at hand to deal with those so I use them. Some people turn out not to be what you think they are and others are exactly what you thought. I trust my instincts and act accordingly. I'm here to be happy, not to listen to a lot of incessant garbage.
I'm reminded of some lyrics from Sweeney Todd....
"Demons may charm you with a smile, for a while, but in time, nothing can harm you, not while I'm around"....
When the time comes to go, only the happy thoughts will go with me. |
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"I came here by accident..and stayed in the hope of having some fun. Guess I was exceptionally fortunate as I found someone special who makes me happy and has changed my life very positively. I never expected that, so I feel very lucky.
As for the negative aspects..? The tools are at hand to deal with those so I use them. Some people turn out not to be what you think they are and others are exactly what you thought. I trust my instincts and act accordingly. I'm here to be happy, not to listen to a lot of incessant garbage.
I'm reminded of some lyrics from Sweeney Todd....
"Demons may charm you with a smile, for a while, but in time, nothing can harm you, not while I'm around"....
When the time comes to go, only the happy thoughts will go with me. "
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
Came here out of curiosity around 5 yrs ago, I had a nice few meets,but tbh it was my first actual meet that had my confidence questioned after meeting them, I heard the crass things they thought of me so in a way I couldn't wait to leave lol....and now I've sort of learned I watch who im considering meeting,and any person I meet,have met and want to meet I would think be a friend,even if we rarely see one another. But then bump into each other various places.
I have tons of fantasies and experiences I want to try, so care to help me..old and new
I find that taking a little break from here can be therapeutic,im happy in my own skin and the person who put me down,well I look forward and not back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stick with it mate.
You are a good looking lad.
maybe best not to describe yourself as a shagger on your profile. "
Haha not the best idea to post a profile when deprived of sleep n sex. I have never actually read it back either! Cheers for pointing that out mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to try to experience new things sexually that "normal" life didn't really allow me to do and can safely say that the last 10 years have been an amazing mish mash ofsocials/hotels/meets/laughs/chatroom hilarity and the odd numptie and weirdo thrown in for good measure.
its been an experience and a half and I'm glad I did it all and can't believe I'm relatively sane at the end of it all. |
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No expectations really. A distraction a journey of adventure perhaps? Forums are either a great laugh to read or sometimes not so. Socials are always fun. Met some really nice folk's and some not so. But as in life we can't always be each others cup of tea. |
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Introduced to the site by a work colleague who said "you need a right good shag to snap you out of this depression" i had very little self confidence and took everything to heart and left after a month. Rejoined and met a some really great people, joined a kik group and got involved in the forums. All of which has boosted my confidence and self esteem. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
It must be about nearly 8 years ago that I joined this place, and have had several 'incarnations'.
I joined assuming that NSA was the thing, and although I had several things against me, enjoyed several meets. But then, nearly 4 years ago, and because she had been rather economical with the truth regarding her location, I met a certain wee woman fae Fife. And the rest as they say, is history!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Joined with my husband about 8 yrs ago...
At the start it was such fun
ie...Scottish chat rooms and Scottish forums plus the socials were only usually on special occasions like Halloween Christmas and valentines with everyone from the chat rooms and forums chatting about them and getting good excited months before ..most were only a few pounds to attend and then think some thought...hey ho ...open market here and hell now being back i spotted a social at £30!!
Anyway...as someone said earlier it's a shadow that it used to be ...but I think that's more us oldies from the beginning Looking back in rose tinted glasses lol
There will always be folk that don't get on...always be Chinese whispers...just treat it as it is...a bit of fun from the normal...if a comment from a person you don't know ruins your day...it's time to have a re think
Me personally don't look at fabswingers being a swingers site anymore...I see it as a whatever folk want it to be site...chatting...fetish...instashag whatever...
Good luck to those just joining cause it can be a bit of a minefield
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A love this Woman |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"I'm reminded of some lyrics from Sweeney Todd....
"Demons may charm you with a smile, for a while, but in time, nothing can harm you, not while I'm around"....
When the time comes to go, only the happy thoughts will go with me. "
Aww FFS Jintz, now I'm gonna be singing show tunes & Barbra's Broadway Album all fkn night! |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"Don't give up on us all lil tease! Stay and play! think my faith in fab has gone to be honest way too many fakes even the genuine ones are fakes apparently "
Hey sometimes it's best to fight fire, with fire.  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"stick with it mate.
You are a good looking lad.
maybe best not to describe yourself as a shagger on your profile.
Haha not the best idea to post a profile when deprived of sleep n sex. I have never actually read it back either! Cheers for pointing that out mate. "
Yeah stick with us Fman. Random needs some eye candy in the Forums & your back pic cheers my day up. (Not to mention some of the ladies days too). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Joined with my husband about 8 yrs ago...
At the start it was such fun
ie...Scottish chat rooms and Scottish forums plus the socials were only usually on special occasions like Halloween Christmas and valentines with everyone from the chat rooms and forums chatting about them and getting good excited months before ..most were only a few pounds to attend and then think some thought...hey ho ...open market here and hell now being back i spotted a social at £30!!
Anyway...as someone said earlier it's a shadow that it used to be ...but I think that's more us oldies from the beginning Looking back in rose tinted glasses lol
There will always be folk that don't get on...always be Chinese whispers...just treat it as it is...a bit of fun from the normal...if a comment from a person you don't know ruins your day...it's time to have a re think
Me personally don't look at fabswingers being a swingers site anymore...I see it as a whatever folk want it to be site...chatting...fetish...instashag whatever...
Good luck to those just joining cause it can be a bit of a minefield
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Well said Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stick with it mate.
You are a good looking lad.
maybe best not to describe yourself as a shagger on your profile.
Haha not the best idea to post a profile when deprived of sleep n sex. I have never actually read it back either! Cheers for pointing that out mate.
Yeah stick with us Fman. Random needs some eye candy in the Forums & your back pic cheers my day up. (Not to mention some of the ladies days too)."
Good to know mate but that back has to get wider and then leaner. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
Joined as i move around quite a lot, and like to meet open minded folk. Forums occasionally have good banter..
Place is saturated with fakes/timewasters though, which makes it a little difficult to find and enjoy times with genuine folk..
I'll keep popping in until i get bored though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Found my way here very shortly after the sites conception and been here since in one or two guises.
Site passed all expectations within first year
Has fell away big time.
Still have some old friends on here who I chat to and one or two new ones who are on a bucket list sorry fuckit list.
Forums are good but too many snog, shag fuck off threads
Been here about 9 years longer than I intended but it's been a ride literally |
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