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Since coming on here I have only actually met really great folk but I'm continually amazed by the judgemental tone that exists in lots of ways on here. I suppose I naively thought that this would be an area of life that was cushioned from the sort of judgement that is so prevalent in the 'vanilla' world. Disappointingly not always the case. |
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I had pretty much the same expectation as you coming in, and fairly quickly came to the same conclusion.
And I'm not talking here about women and couples becoming hardened to pestering and time-wasting, or men becoming bitter over lack of contact: those are negative, but understandable, reactions to the natural asymmetry of fab. There's some deeper stuff than that.
Thankfully there are plenty of lovely, non judgemental people to converse with too. |
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Is it really fair to say something like the site is judgemental especially in comparison to vanilla life?. Fab is nothing more than a cross section of life people have opinions folk rub folk up the wrong way. As for vanilla ive had the wildest times with what you like to call vanilla folk and turn off the light and act like a tattie sack sex on fab. If judgements bother you that much perhaps stick to the fluffy threads happy midday, snog shag avoid, facepic fri, theres seldom an opinion on there |
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"Is it really fair to say something like the site is judgemental especially in comparison to vanilla life?."
I took the OP's post to mean that he had thought FAB would be *less* judgemental and instead found it to be about the same. Me too.
In hindsight, we should have expected that because...
"Fab is nothing more than a cross section of life people have opinions folk rub folk up the wrong way."
...you're quite right there.
"tattie sack sex on fab."
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over a year ago
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If you have an opinion
You have an opinion
Dosnt matter if your a swinger or a little old lady doing her knitting
I find it weird that just because folk are on a sex site think that everyone's going to all think the same?
It dosnt work like that
Just because you have a diffrent opinion to someone else dosnt make you judgmental it just makes you human? |
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I will try using my best English to express my thought on this lol.
I am not sure why someone would think people on here or any other kind of site/situation would be less judgemental.
You can't get away from human nature, in any situation where people are involved and interacting with each other.
People don't get stripped off some human nature traits just because they are on a sex, dating, swinging or social site.
People will judge! It's ok! Nothing to be scared of.
Some judgements will be positive, others negative. So be it.
People will judge me based on this post... So be it, am not bothered, it is human nature.
Judge away  |
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"If you have an opinion
You have an opinion"
Actually that is what I expected. What I hadn't expected was so many people telling each other their opinion (or, more, their actions) were wrong.
In a way I suppose I'm doing that now too, though I'm trying to be quite careful to say only that it isn't what I expected, rather than voice disapproval.
"I find it weird that just because folk are on a sex site think that everyone's going to all think the same?"
Hmm - that wasn't my thinking at least. I thought more: we're on site of a nature that many would disapprove of. Given that, perhaps people here would understand what it means to face disapproval. Given *that*, perhaps they would find it easier to let others have those different opinions or enjoy those different acts.
I (+OP?) could even be completely wrong, quite easily, in that fab really could be less judgemental by fraction of people and it's just that stronger held opinions are voiced louder - especially online. |
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I (+OP?) could even be completely wrong, quite easily, in that fab really could be less judgemental by fraction of people and it's just that stronger held opinions are voiced louder - especially online."
And there you have it.
Human nature, being incognito, safe behind a screen some people are more confident to voice their opinion in a stronger and sometimes not sensitive way. |
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I (+OP?) could even be completely wrong, quite easily, in that fab really could be less judgemental by fraction of people and it's just that stronger held opinions are voiced louder - especially online.
And there you have it.
Human nature, being incognito, safe behind a screen some people are more confident to voice their opinion in a stronger and sometimes not sensitive way."
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another |
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"But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another "
You're a beautiful person
I hope we aren't giving you any cause to argue at your screen. |
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"Is it really fair to say something like the site is judgemental especially in comparison to vanilla life?. Fab is nothing more than a cross section of life people have opinions folk rub folk up the wrong way. As for vanilla ive had the wildest times with what you like to call vanilla folk and turn off the light and act like a tattie sack sex on fab. If judgements bother you that much perhaps stick to the fluffy threads happy midday, snog shag avoid, facepic fri, theres seldom an opinion on there"
kola  lol ye clearly didn't see yesterdays face pic thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will try using my best English to express my thought on this lol.
I am not sure why someone would think people on here or any other kind of site/situation would be less judgemental.
You can't get away from human nature, in any situation where people are involved and interacting with each other.
People don't get stripped off some human nature traits just because they are on a sex, dating, swinging or social site.
People will judge! It's ok! Nothing to be scared of.
Some judgements will be positive, others negative. So be it.
People will judge me based on this post... So be it, am not bothered, it is human nature.
Judge away "
you put that way better than me lol |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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"But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another
You're a beautiful person
I hope we aren't giving you any cause to argue at your screen."
Lol no plus with certain topics im literally biting my tongue I type in the comment box,then end up deleting and breathe,
You have no idea how therapeutic it can be,write all the things in your head then delete lol,makes for an easier moment hehe.
Anyways I am too laid back |
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"I will try using my best English to express my thought on this lol.
I am not sure why someone would think people on here or any other kind of site/situation would be less judgemental.
You can't get away from human nature, in any situation where people are involved and interacting with each other.
People don't get stripped off some human nature traits just because they are on a sex, dating, swinging or social site.
People will judge! It's ok! Nothing to be scared of.
Some judgements will be positive, others negative. So be it.
People will judge me based on this post... So be it, am not bothered, it is human nature.
Judge away "
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"To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another "
It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion. |
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"I will try using my best English to express my thought on this lol.
I am not sure why someone would think people on here or any other kind of site/situation would be less judgemental.
You can't get away from human nature, in any situation where people are involved and interacting with each other.
People don't get stripped off some human nature traits just because they are on a sex, dating, swinging or social site.
People will judge! It's ok! Nothing to be scared of.
Some judgements will be positive, others negative. So be it.
People will judge me based on this post... So be it, am not bothered, it is human nature.
Judge away you put that way better than me lol "
Lol thanks |
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"It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion. "
You're coming across just fine Max - don't worry. Your thoughts are insightful and welcomed and your English is very good - I've seen much worse from native English speakers. |
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"It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
You're coming across just fine Max - don't worry. Your thoughts are insightful and welcomed and your English is very good - I've seen much worse from native English speakers."
You are kind hat |
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"It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
You're coming across just fine Max - don't worry. Your thoughts are insightful and welcomed and your English is very good - I've seen much worse from native English speakers.
You are kind hat "
Well said Hat ...
Its just her patter needs updated lol
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I know I come across as narky and I dont care I despise the fake elements of writing. Your so right babe.... why are folk so judgemental......stunning..... these fake platitudes bust my bubble. So I tend to just flat give my opinion or retort to someone elses without fake platitudes. Probably comes across as arrogance or snippy. I care not though if thats the opinion you end up of me so be it theres plenty get to see the real me |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
"To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another
It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion. "
Haha your fine,I couldn't think of a word apart from narky hehe,I promise plus I think everyone's point of _iew and opinion is important,I think I mean by Narky is folk being in a bad mood if the conversation looks to be getting overly tense,I feel those vibes,and as it was mentioned to me in a random comment but seemingly im weird lol |
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"It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
You're coming across just fine Max - don't worry. Your thoughts are insightful and welcomed and your English is very good - I've seen much worse from native English speakers.
You are kind hat
Well said Hat ...
Its just her patter needs updated lol
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And he comes in to ruin my moment 
I will update to the Autumn version in a couple weeks |
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"To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another
It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
Haha your fine,I couldn't think of a word apart from narky hehe,I promise plus I think everyone's point of _iew and opinion is important,I think I mean by Narky is folk being in a bad mood if the conversation looks to be getting overly tense,I feel those vibes,and as it was mentioned to me in a random comment but seemingly im weird lol"
We all have a wee dose of weird in us, makes us sane. It's full weirdos am wary off lol |
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"It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
You're coming across just fine Max - don't worry. Your thoughts are insightful and welcomed and your English is very good - I've seen much worse from native English speakers.
You are kind hat
Well said Hat ...
Its just her patter needs updated lol
And he comes in to ruin my moment
I will update to the Autumn version in a couple weeks "
Ya wrote that very well x
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"To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another
It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
Haha your fine,I couldn't think of a word apart from narky hehe,I promise plus I think everyone's point of _iew and opinion is important,I think I mean by Narky is folk being in a bad mood if the conversation looks to be getting overly tense,I feel those vibes,and as it was mentioned to me in a random comment but seemingly im weird lol
We all have a wee dose of weird in us, makes us sane. It's full weirdos am wary off lol "
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"To be honest,I'm the type of person who will listen to all points of _iew that is discussed, oh I don't judge, but i find i tend to keep my opinions more or less to myself, because I don't like arguments, and tend to back away from any hassle
But I love seeing different _iews,it is what make us different and unique individuals,and i tend to argue at the screen lol when everyone is being narky at one another
It is also difficult to convey a message or translate what's in your head on a post. Takes me ages to write my posts, so I do hope I don't come across a narky lol but giving my opinion.
Haha your fine,I couldn't think of a word apart from narky hehe,I promise plus I think everyone's point of _iew and opinion is important,I think I mean by Narky is folk being in a bad mood if the conversation looks to be getting overly tense,I feel those vibes,and as it was mentioned to me in a random comment but seemingly im weird lol
We all have a wee dose of weird in us, makes us sane. It's full weirdos am wary off lol nae dose here "
You are just blinded by your holiday excitment lol |
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Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough |
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough "
really??
Please tell me you are being sarcastic 
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Having been on the forums and contribute from time to time but mostly just read. I do see op point. I don't expect a fab community to be less judgmental than real life. But I see it and read it underlying tones from some users sometimes make me think.....ouch |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
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So they should be meeting people they don't find attractive just to 'explore' or waste time speaking to people with no pic? |
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It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...
So are you saying if someone is carrying a bit more weight than others they have no right to a prefference in who they wish to meet ?
Some athletic builds like bigger guys and bigger girls you know |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
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I think in the past few years I have become less judgemental and more tollerent of others! I have realised that although we all have our kinks and preferences deep down we are normal people with normal lives!
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab would be boring and life in general if we were all of the same opinion "
totally agree
People need to grow a thicker skin and need to stop taking things so personal
Its someone's opinion...if you disagree it's not going to ruin your or my life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab would be boring and life in general if we were all of the same opinion totally agree
People need to grow a thicker skin and need to stop taking things so personal
Its someone's opinion...if you disagree it's not going to ruin your or my life?"
Well said Maw x
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
I'm me. 
I know quite a lot of people on here. Various sizes, backgrounds, likes, dislikes. I don't judge because it doesn't bother me.
People often judge me and make assumptions and that's entirely up to them
But, and this is to no one in particular but to each and every person in the world - don't judge if you don't want to be judged.
The world would be a nicer place if we could learn not to judge.
Just sayin..... |
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"I'm me.
I know quite a lot of people on here. Various sizes, backgrounds, likes, dislikes. I don't judge because it doesn't bother me.
People often judge me and make assumptions and that's entirely up to them
But, and this is to no one in particular but to each and every person in the world - don't judge if you don't want to be judged.
The world would be a nicer place if we could learn not to judge.
Just sayin..... "
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough "
Since I hadn t been paying attention but I can safely say I do not use men in here as if reading a catalogue, next we will be having show rings (yes I show dogs lol) and we can judge a whole group of guys hehe then place them 1st to 4th...er no
Plus I'm not that shallow, my profile states the kind of guy I go for,not set in stone all of the time,but there has to be some quality that makes me like you. But I still see a man as a man,and im sure many a gent here is as picky also and knows there type |
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over a year ago
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"I judge
I am judged
I am happy with both.
My judgement on others has zero impact on them
Their judgement on me has zero impact on me.
I couldn't give a fuck "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge
I am judged
I am happy with both.
My judgement on others has zero impact on them
Their judgement on me has zero impact on me.
I couldn't give a fuck "
Well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough
Since I hadn t been paying attention but I can safely say I do not use men in here as if reading a catalogue, next we will be having show rings (yes I show dogs lol) and we can judge a whole group of guys hehe then place them 1st to 4th...er no
Plus I'm not that shallow, my profile states the kind of guy I go for,not set in stone all of the time,but there has to be some quality that makes me like you. But I still see a man as a man,and im sure many a gent here is as picky also and knows there type"
jewels I ain't showin ma ring to just anyone ye know but if ye ask nicely..welllllll |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge
I am judged
I am happy with both.
My judgement on others has zero impact on them
Their judgement on me has zero impact on me.
I couldn't give a fuck "
Well said Da
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would people on a swinging site be less judgemental than vanilla folk? We all have our own morals, opinions and experiences. To a degree we are all prejudice, some more than others, but we all have preconceived ideas about people. It's human nature. Now we can argue all day about people being judgemental and prejudiced, but I can't understand why I would be thought of as less so just because I'm a swinger. |
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough "
Honestly ??? I'm shocked and that never happens are you for real ? |
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"Completely agree, women on here use the men like a catalogue and some of their profiles clearly show how shallow they really are, they aren't looking to "explore"...they are looking for someone who fits their model of what they like (only know) and unwilling to speak to someone based on their profile pic (text...yeah sure)
It's amazing how some people who may be carrying more weight are seeking "fit athletic muscular type"...they are quite lucky that most of the guys on here would fuck anything and not as judgemental as the women
1000 messages everyday doesn't help right enough
Honestly ??? I'm shocked and that never happens are you for real ? "
Yeah sure never happens |
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I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one |
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one "
Keep talking Cherub ....Im wanking x
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one
Keep talking Cherub ....Im wanking x
Well said
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one "
Ah so You automatically assume I have no attention on here and only trying to get a reaction? Shows how small a mind you have to be honest, if you truly believe th above nonsense then you don't know fab at all |
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over a year ago
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one
Ah so You automatically assume I have no attention on here and only trying to get a reaction? Shows how small a mind you have to be honest, if you truly believe th above nonsense then you don't know fab at all"
Listen you I was giving my opinion which I am entitled to do , if you took it as directed at you then that's not my problem , I'm not going to get into an argument with you because I honestly don't wish to speak with you , it's wasting my time and would prob do my head in the forums are for people to voice their opinion I did so deal with it or jog |
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one
Ah so You automatically assume I have no attention on here and only trying to get a reaction? Shows how small a mind you have to be honest, if you truly believe th above nonsense then you don't know fab at all
Listen you I was giving my opinion which I am entitled to do , if you took it as directed at you then that's not my problem , I'm not going to get into an argument with you because I honestly don't wish to speak with you , it's wasting my time and would prob do my head in the forums are for people to voice their opinion I did so deal with it or jog "
Clearly was directed at me though but you thought it was just classic fab where if you are part of the forum "clique" you can say whatever you like and that's it
I'll tell you what, I'll do the old textbook fab thing and block and move on... That way we don't waste each other's time and do "the forum's head in" 
Typical fab, my opinion counts but yours doesn't |
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"I have a good nature love getting to know people and never judge, I believe that manners cost nothing and it's nice to be nice ,it's just a shame that small minded people with nothing better to do with their time but cast out their vile opinions ,and think it's ok to do so prob just to get a reaction as its they only attention they will get with a bad attitude towards others I have met some amazing people on fab all different and unique in their own way I take people as I find them and never judge just a shame some are so shallow but hey you always get one
Ah so You automatically assume I have no attention on here and only trying to get a reaction? Shows how small a mind you have to be honest, if you truly believe th above nonsense then you don't know fab at all
Listen you I was giving my opinion which I am entitled to do , if you took it as directed at you then that's not my problem , I'm not going to get into an argument with you because I honestly don't wish to speak with you , it's wasting my time and would prob do my head in the forums are for people to voice their opinion I did so deal with it or jog
Clearly was directed at me though but you thought it was just classic fab where if you are part of the forum "clique" you can say whatever you like and that's it
I'll tell you what, I'll do the old textbook fab thing and block and move on... That way we don't waste each other's time and do "the forum's head in"
Typical fab, my opinion counts but yours doesn't "
Ok sweetie , you do that and yes you are entitled to your opinion , as am I but when it is clearly offensive and hurtful to others kindly keep it to yourself , I hope you can see why what you wrote might be offensive and well disrespectful to some I'm not the confrontational type but I believe that there is no need to judge others based on just your way of looking at things and il always stick up for what's right And as for clique no it's just a nice group of welcoming people who get on well and enjoy chatting and discussing non offensive opinions and if that's a problem and it upsets you then I'm sorry you feel that way but again not judging and making an effort to get on with people is not at all hard luv cherub |
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"Cherub, come chill here...
you want tea or coffee while we flick through the male catalogue
And i have a tipex pen to draw moustaches and bigger cocks on the pages lol
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I would'nt mind you drawing an extension on mine Miss. go for it. needs a bit of help. |
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"Cherub, come chill here...
you want tea or coffee while we flick through the male catalogue
And i have a tipex pen to draw moustaches and bigger cocks on the pages lol
I would'nt mind you drawing an extension on mine Miss. go for it. needs a bit of help. "
Lol |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? |
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"Cherub, come chill here...
you want tea or coffee while we flick through the male catalogue
And i have a tipex pen to draw moustaches and bigger cocks on the pages lol
I would'nt mind you drawing an extension on mine Miss. go for it. needs a bit of help.
Lol "
Pmsl max . Il come sit with you anytime hunni well not sitting on the chair prob bent over it Mmm and I do like drawing that sounds fun xx |
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"Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? "
ahhhh finally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? "
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"Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? "
Monday Andy... happening everyday of the week lol
Jesus some people need a good long look in a mirror and give themselves a good shake |
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"Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? Monday Andy... happening everyday of the week lol
Jesus some people need a good long look in a mirror and give themselves a good shake "
I don't like watching my flabby bits shake in the mirror lol |
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" I've got a fucking headache. do you want yer head rubbed zac ?
ohhh, I certainly do tease.
Ohh tease maybe we could help him out together xx
Lol... Be gentle with the auld lad girls, dunno if he can take it
I'm always gentle max
Hmmm you sure lol "
Well it starts of gentle max I picked that tip up from you lol |
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" I've got a fucking headache. do you want yer head rubbed zac ?
ohhh, I certainly do tease.
Ohh tease maybe we could help him out together xx
Lol... Be gentle with the auld lad girls, dunno if he can take it
I'm always gentle max
Hmmm you sure lol
Well it starts of gentle max I picked that tip up from you lol "
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"Wow. Can you tell it's Monday?
Don't sweat the small stuff. Jeez.
Why are we all getting so het up about shit.
My original post further up still stands.
And as for forum clique.....get that out of the fab textbook too? Monday Andy... happening everyday of the week lol
Jesus some people need a good long look in a mirror and give themselves a good shake
I don't like watching my flabby bits shake in the mirror lol "
me either but sometime you just gotta do it lol |
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"Jesus some people need a good long look in a mirror and give themselves a good shake "
Absolutely, my irony meter was off the scale reading certain posts on here.
For me I believe each to their own and live and let live. Gravitate towards those who share similar interests and there's mutual interest, leave those who you don't click with alone to have their own fun.
Everyone is different, has different things they are looking for and there's something and someone for everyone through the site if you act like a sane and sensible person. Or maybe folk could try random and unsolicited insults as an approach, I'm sure that will work well...
I'll get back to flicking through the catalogue too, or maybe I should just be saying "yes please" to each and every person on the site as anything else would be narrow minded and judgemental. |
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"Jesus some people need a good long look in a mirror and give themselves a good shake
Absolutely, my irony meter was off the scale reading certain posts on here.
For me I believe each to their own and live and let live. Gravitate towards those who share similar interests and there's mutual interest, leave those who you don't click with alone to have their own fun.
Everyone is different, has different things they are looking for and there's something and someone for everyone through the site if you act like a sane and sensible person. Or maybe folk could try random and unsolicited insults as an approach, I'm sure that will work well...
I'll get back to flicking through the catalogue too, or maybe I should just be saying "yes please" to each and every person on the site as anything else would be narrow minded and judgemental. "
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"Cliques where ??? where ???wanna be in ma gang ma gang ya wanna be in ma gang ma gang
Got cake in your gang?? nahh nae cake..vodka though I got vodka
Hmmmmm......dunno....not really a vodka drinker...does that mean i can't join? "
Still got cake |
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"Cliques where ??? where ???wanna be in ma gang ma gang ya wanna be in ma gang ma gang
Got cake in your gang?? nahh nae cake..vodka though I got vodka
Hmmmmm......dunno....not really a vodka drinker...does that mean i can't join?
Still got cake"
Hey I said I had vodka...never said it was fer whole gang jeez. This clique gang thing maybe no such a good idea if yer aw gonna drink MA vodka |
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"Cliques where ??? where ???wanna be in ma gang ma gang ya wanna be in ma gang ma gang
Got cake in your gang?? nahh nae cake..vodka though I got vodka
Hmmmmm......dunno....not really a vodka drinker...does that mean i can't join?
Still got cake
Hey I said I had vodka...never said it was fer whole gang jeez. This clique gang thing maybe no such a good idea if yer aw gonna drink MA vodka"
Il bring some vodka and cake to |
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"Cliques where ??? where ???wanna be in ma gang ma gang ya wanna be in ma gang ma gang
Got cake in your gang?? nahh nae cake..vodka though I got vodka
Hmmmmm......dunno....not really a vodka drinker...does that mean i can't join?
Still got cake
Hey I said I had vodka...never said it was fer whole gang jeez. This clique gang thing maybe no such a good idea if yer aw gonna drink MA vodka
Il bring some vodka and cake to "
..vodka ya say cheerub oh yer in...mind if its that glens gut rot yer right back oot though |
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"Am fkd av only got sangria "
All alcohol is allowed just bring what ya drink...just like cj's...hmmm wonder if ya go to cj's yer part of their gang...could be few cross memberships here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because yer friendly with the very few genuine people on here ye get classed as being in a clique/gang, can't believe the immaturity of so called adults at times, playground stuff/ keyboard warriors. As said before take a good bloody look at yerselfs |
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"Cliques where ??? where ???wanna be in ma gang ma gang ya wanna be in ma gang ma gang
Got cake in your gang?? nahh nae cake..vodka though I got vodka
Hmmmmm......dunno....not really a vodka drinker...does that mean i can't join?
Still got cake
Hey I said I had vodka...never said it was fer whole gang jeez. This clique gang thing maybe no such a good idea if yer aw gonna drink MA vodka
Il bring some vodka and cake to ..vodka ya say cheerub oh yer in...mind if its that glens gut rot yer right back oot though"
Oi cheeky I don't do the glens I prefer the good stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since coming on here I have only actually met really great folk but I'm continually amazed by the judgemental tone that exists in lots of ways on here. I suppose I naively thought that this would be an area of life that was cushioned from the sort of judgement that is so prevalent in the 'vanilla' world. Disappointingly not always the case."
I think I understand what you mean but everyone has their own standards and set their own limits so yes it was always going to be as judgemental as any other place.
On the other hand to address some folks comments about ladies who may not be supermodels looking for Mr Universe that is their choice and right. The ratio of male to female here and also the nature of the males means the ladies are more likely to achieve their goals than us guys. Oh and I suspect some ladies on the site don't actually meet or are here to sleep with anyone because they are getting their kicks from the chase, an ego boost if you like. |
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