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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Patience, young padawan. It sometimes takes months before getting a meet, you need to get yourself known. Chatting on the forums is a good start."
I have tried all that I seem to have people chat then they go all quiet...
Everyone I have chatted to won't meet unless verified... Can't get verified if I don't have a meet even a social.
Am I doing something wrong x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately it can be really tough fir single guys on this site. Best thing is to get yourself along to one of the many socials and speak to folk 
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only been here for 3 weeks!
This isn't instashag, I'm sorry if that's what you thought it was. Swinging is w lifestyle not a quick hookup. Perhaps tinder is more suitable.
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all the bove, just be patient, and keep chatting, you will get along fine, just don't get to pushy. PATIENCE.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only been here for 3 weeks!
This isn't instashag, I'm sorry if that's what you thought it was. Swinging is w lifestyle not a quick hookup. Perhaps tinder is more suitable.
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I have been on and off here in all honesty.. and always had the same.
Maybe not for me.. Maybe I'm just too horny all the time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am attached and playing away so that's pretty hard for me to do "
if your just looking for a quick shag, get yourself onto Plenty of fish, there are loads of women on there looking for just that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am attached and playing away so that's pretty hard for me to do "
Alot of people on here won't meet guys being unfaithful to their partners. It's just against the true meaning of swinging.
Why not get tour Mrs involved and create a couples profile. More fun that way  |
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"I am attached and playing away so that's pretty hard for me to do "
The thing is some people prefer to avoid attached guys that play away and respect to you for being honest.
The other thing, it's the school summer holidays, some people have little spare time. So its a quiet time.
They are a few socials happening this months if you are serious about staying on here, go and chat and get verified.
Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fife is a fab graveyard!
I know a few sexy people in Fife
I better go and check their pulses lol 
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They are erecting Headstones ..
Big-Juicy-Tits
1945 - 2016
Beloved Swinger of
Then 243 Verifications.
Fife Coundil are in dispute though ..because some of them are Coffee Meets.
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"Fife is a fab graveyard!
I know a few sexy people in Fife
I better go and check their pulses lol
They are erecting Headstones ..
Big-Juicy-Tits
1945 - 2016
Beloved Swinger of
Then 243 Verifications.
Fife Coundil are in dispute though ..because some of them are Coffee Meets.
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And we all ignore the cam veris anyway |
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"Fife is a fab graveyard!
I know a few sexy people in Fife
I better go and check their pulses lol
They are erecting Headstones ..
Big-Juicy-Tits
1945 - 2016
Beloved Swinger of
Then 243 Verifications.
Fife Coundil are in dispute though ..because some of them are Coffee Meets.
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Lol Choo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab isn't like shooting fish in a barrel OP, as much as new members think that it will be. Single guys have a hard time if it due to a mix of the male to female ratio and the guys who waste peoples time making it harder for the honest guys.
As has already been said, its good that you are honest about being attached and playing away, however that itself will put some people of meeting with you, us included (sorry for being blunt). Some just don't want to be involved with the potential dramas involved with seeing attached people and also the fact that it does go against the grain of swinging a little.
Above all though, patience is a virtue.
p.s shouty whinging statuses are a big turn off too.
Happy fabbing!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice -
Luck is when preparation meets opertunity..Be patient respectful and take time in constrcting a solicited message.
Whether you are attached or not ..it will make no difference in what you seek.There will be people who will judge you and others wont.
Some elusive married couples on Fab arent as faithful as they seem...I could possibly send you the list.
You have no one too answer to ...
Good Luck
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