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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Have you just had a few bad experiences to put you off? Or maybe something else stressing you? Need to talk...?
I find sex is better when there is chemistry/attraction, rather than a wham bam thank you mam.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone help haven't been very horny lately  "
sex is mostly mental stimulation, if you're meeting guys who think grabbing your tit and sticking their dick in you whilst saying, yeah baby you love it! Then sex becomes boring and the horn goes dormant!! Maybe you need to try something new. |
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I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!
Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!
hey, I cant see you not appealing to anyone, they must of all been blind d*unk, get back out there, and show em. x
Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!"
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"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!
Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!"
Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??
Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others 
I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social  but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours 
The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone help haven't been very horny lately
sex is mostly mental stimulation, if you're meeting guys who think grabbing your tit and sticking their dick in you whilst saying, yeah baby you love it! Then sex becomes boring and the horn goes dormant!! Maybe you need to try something new."
Well Said I totally agree
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"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!
Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!
Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??
Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others
I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours
The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls "
Lol! Perhaps if it had just been the once I'd agree, but it's happened at Aberdeen twice this year as well. I still met plenty of lovely people to chat to though, had a good evening |
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"I think I've gone off the boil, went to CJs last weekend and it was really busy but I obviously didn't appeal to anyone. It's happened a few times this year, bit of a knock to the ego, lol!
Taking a bit of time out due to personal stuff at the moment, so hopefully I'll be firing on all cylinders again soon!
Boobs, why should it be a reflection on you??
Let's flip this!! From what I have seen at Cjs and Socials, it could well be that the Men present were too shy to chat to you, were intimidated by you, were thinking she is oot ma league, that the female of the couple was, well... you know how girls can be and said to the male stay away... Lots of reasons that have nothing to do with you but others
I was at a social a year ago, guys were at the bar not talking to me BUT they were messaging me on Fab and some messaged me the day after for a social but never spoke to me during the organised social I was at for 5 hours
The problem wasnt with me but with them... no balls
Lol! Perhaps if it had just been the once I'd agree, but it's happened at Aberdeen twice this year as well. I still met plenty of lovely people to chat to though, had a good evening "
Cool and nah, I have never 'seen' so many 'shy' guys in the last few months. Must be something int the air affecting the guys Nothing to do with ya I tell ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone help haven't been very horny lately "
I just can't be arsed these days lol meets are becoming non existent and club visits aren't doing much for me at all.
Time out and give yourself time |
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"Someone help haven't been very horny lately "
Difficult to help as you're not giving much info. There could be lots of reasons why you are turned off, from being bored of Fab, to hormonal, to being stressed and each have a different answer to.
So for now, I will give ya a big hug x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unusual at such a young age. Maybe you are putting too much focus on it? Could be you maybe need to try and go with the flow a little more, let it happen more naturally? Or, maybe subconsciously you are craving more than simply sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unusual at such a young age. Maybe you are putting too much focus on it? Could be you maybe need to try and go with the flow a little more, let it happen more naturally? Or, maybe subconsciously you are craving more than simply sex?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mojo fluctuates. I sometimes find sex a bit souless as the stuff I really enjoy isn't the sort of stuff u can do with strangers. U need trust and rapport. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.
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oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.
oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob. "
nah nah, I'm all better now, found new sites & apps where people aren't as......well like the way they are on fab |
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By *ilshyxWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's this site? I lost interest in sex for a long time when I was looking on here, couldn't even be bothered having a wank.
oooo, now that is bad, not even having a wank, get to the doctor quick, you got a prob. nah nah, I'm all better now, found new sites & apps where people aren't as......well like the way they are on fab"
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