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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See this on profiles all the time...
Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on
I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up
and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...
If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?
Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?
Curious to see if there's a difference?  |
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"See this on profiles all the time...
Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on
I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up
and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...
If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?
Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?
Curious to see if there's a difference? "
pmsl still hate timescales fluidity is best for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being married I don't think I would want to meet the same guy once a week...or my husband for that matter...
But I suppose if your single it's diffrent?
I think too regular and the excitement would get lost? |
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By *el82xxWoman
over a year ago
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Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x
I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x
Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x |
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"Being married I don't think I would want to meet the same guy once a week...or my husband for that matter...
But I suppose if your single it's diffrent?
I think too regular and the excitement would get lost?"
I think you're right about clicking with someone, so regular could be anything from 2-3 times a year or as often as once a fortnight. It depends on how often you're both free to play. If both people are comfortable enough with the time interval between meets, and both think the other is worth waiting for to play with then regular can mean just about anything.
I've chatted to females who, when they say regular, mean they want to you to be able to come meet at least once a week, and if not, they're not interested.
As an occasional player, I'd look forward to meeting someone occasionally who I know I'm going to have a wonderful naughty time with, and would like to think she feels the same.
I guess it's a bit like friends. Good friends can be apart for months, then just pick up where they left off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular to me is more about keeping to the same fb rather than the actual frequency after all we have different feelings and goals to achieve so frequency is a hard one to pinpoint. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x
I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x
Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x"
Yep had a regular play friend and we would met when we could sometimes 3 or 4 times a week others only once . Depends on work , kids and life in general .
Doesn't get boring at all in fact I would say it improves as you get to relax and know each other. What buttons to hit etc  |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"See this on profiles all the time...
Only regular fun I want is with my husband....this is just a small add on
I see a guy from down south I meet maybe 3/4 times a year when he's up
and the very odd occasion I actually click with someone on here but I only meet very very occasionally...
If your a cpl playing alone..how regular is regular to you?
Or if your a single playing...how regular is regular to you?
Curious to see if there's a difference? "
single, twice a week and more if we have time |
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"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost? "
True, but if both parties are grown up about it they'll know this and part on good terms. I do love the buzz of a new playmate, all the flirting in the build up, anticipation, it gets quite thrilling. I agree that frequent follow up meets could dull that buzz though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how you look at it. In some ways people may feel that meeting the same person would lose it's edge over time. Others, like has already been said, may find it leads to great sex as you start to get a feel for each other.
I (Mr) occasionally ask Mrs who she has enjoyed playing with most through fab and it can often be someone she has met regularly, but regularly can be anything from once or twice a month to as little as every couple of months. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I think if I wasnt married with kids I'd probably meet more often but don't know if I'd meet the same guy more than once every few months as it sort of would take the buzz out of it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as a single (parent) who wants regular meets I have to say regular to me is any time I have 1/2 spare x
I have old friends on here that stop by for a quick suck while I'm making dinner lol x
Seriously tho I'd probably like to hook up 4-5 times a wk if I can not always possible tho x"
This  it's not always possible with work, family etc but I prefer as regular as possible as you can relax and enjoy each other more. |
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"Yeah I think if I wasnt married with kids I'd probably meet more often but don't know if I'd meet the same guy more than once every few months as it sort of would take the buzz out of it for me "
Sounds about right, we all lead such busy lives these days, there's never enough time for arranging a meet. Having 6-8 between meets keeps the excitement around it fresh I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?
Never loose the excitement of meeting
Just need to keep it interesting"
Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet  |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?
Never loose the excitement of meeting
Just need to keep it interesting
Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet "
Lot's to explore
Find out what excites and doesn't
Mix it up
And a lot of kink helps |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I've been seeing the same person for 11 years. It started off once a month sometimes less. Now sometimes it can be once a week for "fun" and a couple of times in between for a bit of a kiss etc. Its dangerous though because that's how you catch feelings |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow 11yrs is along time...
And yip I agree that if you meet often over that amount of time feelings must be involved
The guy I meet from down south Iv been meeting for about 4 yrs but as I said I only really see him 3 or 4 times a yr... |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"Wow 11yrs is along time...
And yip I agree that if you meet often over that amount of time feelings must be involved
The guy I meet from down south Iv been meeting for about 4 yrs but as I said I only really see him 3 or 4 times a yr..."
Its got its good points and bad points. I think very different when single though. Your situation means there are set boundaries. Slightly less risk when you go home to someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my eyes regular on here would just be meeting someone every now and again for some fun, so basically more than a one off.
The times we meet could be months apart but I'd still class that as regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been seeing the same person for 11 years. It started off once a month sometimes less. Now sometimes it can be once a week for "fun" and a couple of times in between for a bit of a kiss etc. Its dangerous though because that's how you catch feelings"
I agree, there's a couple lads I've known for 6/7 years I still meet or I'm going to meet up with again once back I'm the country. I did catch feelings with one of them but we're really good friends now and that's how I like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the more regular it is...id say the buzz might get lost?
Never loose the excitement of meeting
Just need to keep it interesting
Totally agree def need to keep it interesting or it becomes boaring and pointless can't beat a good meet
Lot's to explore
Find out what excites and doesn't
Mix it up
And a lot of kink helps"
Of course it does xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a bloke on here, regular is whenever. I would love to meet more than I do, but that's beyond my control due to the amount of ladies and couples that are only looking for other ladies and couples.
And judging by the only fabs I get on my pics, I seem to particularly attractive to the gay and bisexual amongst us... |
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