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do you need to be attracted to meet??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I always think there has to be something but then again im a lightweight swinger!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

usually until they get their first verification.....No.

then thereafter........ Yes.

applies to some, not all.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

oops......

Disclaimer... only my opinion.

ffs, nearly forgot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh yes, got to feel as though am going to meet a sexy new friend. no point otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are only two types of swinger on here apparently

You’re either desperate or up your own ass

Or so we keep reading anyway

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By *ompip3Couple over a year ago

Paisley

Well for us its all about the flirting teasing and building the sexuakl chemistry between the two couples.......so that when we meet,, we ALL desperate to rip each others clothes off and have a fun time.

So yes,we think its important!

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

Definitely. Why meet if there's no attraction?

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By *nTCouple over a year ago

funland

yip gotta be a click of some sort

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ask myself that question often when you see guys coming into chat every night asking , anyone for a meet .

Do they really want to have sex with just anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I ask myself that question often when you see guys coming into chat every night asking , anyone for a meet .

Do they really want to have sex with just anyone ?"

Yip, if absolutely anyone pinged up a profile simply saying yer female, no pics, no interests listed, nowt, youd still get "ohh when can we meet messages" whhhhhhats that aboot? lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I ask myself that question often when you see guys coming into chat every night asking , anyone for a meet .

Do they really want to have sex with just anyone ?"

Have seen it many mayt times in chat thongz fems profile no pix yet guys falling over themselfs to meet bizare

definatley got to be an attraction for me without a doubt xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

think there should be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes there has to be an attraction,we are all just more than tits,cocks,pussys lol.

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By *rallvalCouple over a year ago

Dunfermline

"There are only two types of swinger on here apparently

You’re either desperate or up your own ass

If it was long enough to be up my own ass I'd never have to leave the house

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By *rallvalCouple over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I ask myself that question often when you see guys coming into chat every night asking , anyone for a meet .

Do they really want to have sex with just anyone ?"

For a lot of guys all that is required is a hole and a heartbeat and some would have a run at a knothole in a plank of wood.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there has to be some sort of attraction to meet someone to play. We're not of the 'any hole's a goal' brigade i'm afraid.

Our 2p worth. But thats just us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"do you need to be attracted to meet?"

It helps but it isn't compulsory. Sometimes photos, profiles and PMs don't do people justice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course you do. But attraction comes in many forms. Not just about wot someone looks like cx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

has to be a click/meeting of minds makes it all far more enjoyable.. the lead up to the fun is as important and sometimes the better part of the act too..for a meet to be great theres gotta be that nervous anticipation as you are just away to knock on door

some just seem out to have as many verification notches as possible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ha ha like me? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of course you do. But attraction comes in many forms. Not just about wot someone looks like cx"

Yeah, I agree. Attraction doesn't necessarily have to be physical. If the woman I meet has a great personality and is fun to be with then that's a major plus. Being a demon in the sack happens to be be a major fact as well though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you need to be attracted to meet?

To meet? No!!

Thats a bit like, dyou rrreally need sugar in your coffee?

Tomatoe sauce with yer chips?

Wine with your meal?

etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Define MEET.

1) People you meet for sex

2) People you meet for social event ie coffee, meal etc.

There are a lot of people on here I will and have met for socials and will continue to although I'm not sexually attracted to them in the slightest.

The people on here that I am attracted to based solely on their profiles do tend to be so far up their own arses they will not even reply to messages. I'm not saying they are all like that just the majority.......

My tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

of course you need to have an attraction?

thats why i giggle when single guys say cpls have it easier?

you think??

instead of a guy and girl needing to be attracted to each other,,,you have 4 peeps all needing to get along wayyyy harder

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you need an attraction to meet ..... YES in my opinion you do. Why would you meet someone you arent in the least bit attracted to, I just dont get that.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I just dont get that.

xx"

Have you not seen people say 'hi xxx you look great, are you looking for fun today' when it's a NO...

they move onto the next Fem/Couple and say .... 'hi xxx, you look great, are you looking for fun today'...

shall I continue with the example..

it's not attraction ... it is

1) a vagina

2) a mouth

3) a pulse

and I chose the order above correctly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually the attraction only occurs during the actual meet. What I mean is that - yes we look at profile pics and like the look of the couple, we chat and you get a better idea of how you are going to get on, but how many time's do you meet and the people are quite different from their photo's, for better or worse, and then it is down to the chemistry. So sometimes you just have to take that leap in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

comming from someone who has lept into the dark,,,,it usually isnt for the better

so from now on,,,im keeping the lights on

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you need to be attracted to meet?

To meet? No!!

Thats a bit like, dyou rrreally need sugar in your coffee?

Tomatoe sauce with yer chips?

Wine with your meal?

etc

I did just mean, a social meet as part of the "To meet" thing,and we often do and we easily can. fully understand the "click" thing.

Some couples even have a resigned attitude to even bothering trying to create a mutual interest with other couples due to the tell tale signs of "i luv me who do you luv" springing out their, "we're incredibly attractive and you better be too,we're attractive maybe we forgot to mention,and please be hung like a mule, ohh sorry if this reads fussy" etc etc,,lol

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By *over-manMan over a year ago

motherwell

i dont have a type like most on hear

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By *adgeeMan over a year ago

Sw Scotland

WTF? Of course there needs to be an attraction!

Some pics or maybe a cam initially. A chat via chatroom, maybe some fab messeges and a phone conversation is the very least i'd expect before i'd even consider a meet. Only my opinion of course but i find it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would assume that there would need to be some initial sexual attraction.

However,

Attractive Personality and Sexual Attractiveness go hand in hand .

Buboo x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"WTF? Of course there needs to be an attraction!

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By *over-manMan over a year ago

motherwell

am not fussy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so you keep sayn lover,,think we get the picture lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is always the slight issue that if I'm not attracted - I'm not gonna get wet! :p

Grace

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There must absolutely be an attraction!! Hell I know I'm a fussy bugger lol But I couldn't just shag anyone....standards I think is what it is called, or is that old fashioned now a days??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

see thats the difficulty foxy, im reliant on your standards slipping or ill get a plum !!

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By *hickencurryCouple over a year ago

brisbane

do you need to be attracted to meet??

no course not, in fact the more repulsive they are the better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Need to be atracted? fuck me yes , no idea what others think, but smile sexy and hmmmm. how can you shag someone you dont fancy ? errr hello?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there has to be some sort of sexual chemistry both physically and mentally.....of course.....its not about a notch on the bed post.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do I have to find potential playmates attractive?....... YES.

Do potential playmates have to find me attractive?....... NO (otherwise we`d never get a feckin meet).

Gander.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"do you need to be attracted to meet??

no course not, in fact the more repulsive they are the better"

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By *stwoCouple over a year ago

anywhere

define attractive?we are happy to meet without seeing pics then we decide what we want to do.After all nice pics does not always mean nice people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well for me there has to be that twinkle in the eye, there has to be sexual chemistry.......and there has to be a spark......not neccesarily all physical attraction.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

depends if you believe in the 'perceived' swingers leagues..

and if you are A list, god forbid you would consider a D lister.

Mind ya, people change as they become more popular

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By *hammydavisMan over a year ago

glasgow

what if your vauxhall conference ?