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over a year ago
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"Speaking from my own opinion they ruin it for me  but is that not you wasting it for yourself by always picking the idiot.......ffs im like that niggling voice at the back of your head  "
kola I couldn't have phrased that better myself lol
I don't pick them I seem to be an idiot magnet !  |
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over a year ago
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They do and they don't...
They can make it harder to get a response sometimes due to the women already being pissed off after having dealt with said idiot but usually if you come across well in your message then the woman will still give you a chance to show you are one of the good guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do and they don't...
They can make it harder to get a response sometimes due to the women already being pissed off after having dealt with said idiot but usually if you come across well in your message then the woman will still give you a chance to show you are one of the good guys "
there's that too, so any normal decent guy reading this, should take note lol. I take no prisoners |
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over a year ago
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"They do and they don't...
They can make it harder to get a response sometimes due to the women already being pissed off after having dealt with said idiot but usually if you come across well in your message then the woman will still give you a chance to show you are one of the good guys there's that too, so any normal decent guy reading this, should take note lol. I take no prisoners "
Tried to have a little look at your profile and your hidden  |
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We just put the single guy filters on. It was just doing our nut. 1 in 50 messages were worth an answer. Since we put the single guy filter on we have started getting more messages from women and couples. We don't know why. |
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over a year ago
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No one guy, or groups of neds, spoil it for any other guy, if any guy is having problems or not enjoying the site, it's got nothing to do with other guys, it's down to that individual alone.
Moaning about other guys doesn't make you more genuine it just shows a bit of a chip on your part, this "I'm moaning about other guys so I must be genuine and decent" stick got tiring a long time ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one guy, or groups of neds, spoil it for any other guy, if any guy is having problems or not enjoying the site, it's got nothing to do with other guys, it's down to that individual alone.
Moaning about other guys doesn't make you more genuine it just shows a bit of a chip on your part, this "I'm moaning about other guys so I must be genuine and decent" stick got tiring a long time ago.
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disagree sorry x I give guys less of a chance now because of the idiots, probably missed out on someone that is what I'm looking for, but hey ho, I'm on for my pleasure , not theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me 1st impressions last
Not all single guys are the same ...as are not all single chicks are..or all cpls are the same
Take the good with the bad and sometimes you find a wee diamond in the rough
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over a year ago
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"I must admit that makes me mad when a female posts that a guy has verbally abused her because she said no"
It's definitely not cool, however, if someone takes offence at a complete stranger being rude to them on the Internet then it's probably time to cancel that unlimited broadband packages with BT and go back to a Nokia brick.
Even more so if they then let that cloud their judgement and their preconceptions of other complete strangers. |
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over a year ago
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There are fannies everywhere and not always the ones you're looking for. I personally find couples to be the biggest offenders tbh. Some guys are just unsure of the type of approach to make and if I think that then I'll ping pong a few messages to check. I wouldn't say the idiots spoil it for me but they do make me weary!! |
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Well, it means that we need to be clear and succinct in our messages, and ensure there is some content, as the ladies are unlikely to go with a one line reply, so they do spoil it a wee bit, all being tarred by the same brush etc.
On the other side, I'm reluctant to write a novel, as there's a good chance I'll not get a reply either way! Maybe those guys are playing a numbers game, quantity over quality?
Either way, if you haven't read the profile, then don't message. Read profiles, it's not that hard. I read them and think "she sounds up my street" but then maybe she's not into my age, or something else, so you move on. I wouldn't reply to a profile that says 18-30 years only, because I'm not a Numpty.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are fannies everywhere and not always the ones you're looking for. I personally find couples to be the biggest offenders tbh. Some guys are just unsure of the type of approach to make and if I think that then I'll ping pong a few messages to check. I wouldn't say the idiots spoil it for me but they do make me weary!! "
I concurr  fat China's are everywhere  |
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I would say they do ruin it for decent guys. I ended up putting my filters to block single males from being able to message me after getting hundreds of messages from guys acting like arseholes and I know a lot of others have done the same. It's a shame as I know there are a lot of men out there that are decent but there very hard to find.
But I would say there was a opportunity for decent guys to stand out. A good profile with pics of other things except your cock and if they go along to a few socials and get a few verifications showing they are a decent guy will help you to stand out from the crowd xxxx |
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Sorry no one wastes anything for me if some guys being a twat there ya go hes being a twat (in somes eyes im a twat couldnt care less about those either) that dosnt make every other single guy a twat or if it does why is every muslim not a terrorist. If you judge someone on another persons shortcomings its you thats at fault as much as the twat you dont want to know. |
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over a year ago
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As a single guy on here. I think you just have to persevere. Without being pushy or being abusive when someone says no. Sure no one likes rejection but in my opinion its all part of the process so to speak. Its the same in every part of life. Not everyone clicks, we all go on our instinct and feelings. I think the secret is not to get emotional over it.just move on from it and enjoy the site and the people on it x |
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over a year ago
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Yip single, decent, respectful guy here, honest
what can I say there are tons of egits, assholes and married guys on here and most spoil it for the decent ones.We just have to not take notice of it and be yourself.
If your genuine and always be respectful to a girl or couple your chatting you will get the same back even though during your message she/they may be getting tons of messages, cock pics abusive mail.
Just have faith and the girls and couples will eventually find us lol, give a it a few years but they will find you lol
and if your sexy as feck and hung then might be quicker.
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"Yip single, decent, respectful guy here, honest
what can I say there are tons of egits, assholes and married guys on here and most spoil it for the decent ones.We just have to not take notice of it and be yourself.
If your genuine and always be respectful to a girl or couple your chatting you will get the same back even though during your message she/they may be getting tons of messages, cock pics abusive mail.
Just have faith and the girls and couples will eventually find us lol, give a it a few years but they will find you lol
and if your sexy as feck and hung then might be quicker.
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over a year ago
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"Is it just me or is the amounts of weirdo pushy guys on this spoiling it for the decent guys? Find it very hard to get girls to message at all  "
I disagree....I have a very different perspective
The 'weirdo pushy guys' make the decent guys stand out a mile |
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"Is it just me or is the amounts of weirdo pushy guys on this spoiling it for the decent guys? Find it very hard to get girls to message at all
I disagree....I have a very different perspective
The 'weirdo pushy guys' make the decent guys stand out a mile "
Yeah I believe you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy on here I find it very frustrating on here. But not always. Lots of times it is very good and I have met many nice people on here. I have had fun with some and not with others |
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"Is it just me or is the amounts of weirdo pushy guys on this spoiling it for the decent guys? Find it very hard to get girls to message at all "
You for real? ? ? ?
After you conversation and disrespectful messages to us!!!!!
Change your approach as you are in the same bracket as them you have just bitched about!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me 1st impressions last
Not all single guys are the same ...as are not all single chicks are..or all cpls are the same
Take the good with the bad and sometimes you find a wee diamond in the rough
X"
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"Well all I can say is before I became a couple in fab I have always been a decent straight talking guy "
Sorry but when the female half was on a profile before you was an absolute pest, sending the same cut and paste message with the same pictures at least twice a week, could never take the hint. |
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"Well all I can say is before I became a couple in fab I have always been a decent straight talking guy
Sorry but when the female half was on a profile before you was an absolute pest, sending the same cut and paste message with the same pictures at least twice a week, could never take the hint. "
Too funny  |
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"Well all I can say is before I became a couple in fab I have always been a decent straight talking guy
Sorry but when the female half was on a profile before you was an absolute pest, sending the same cut and paste message with the same pictures at least twice a week, could never take the hint.
Too funny "
And as a couple...blocked. |
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