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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sounds like a lot of bitter people in here.
People are entitled to put on their profiles whatever they want,we put on our profile thatwe dont want large fat people contacting us because hey,guess what,it doesnt turn us on,what with it being a sex thing its kind of a crucial element.
For those saying people are shallow to go for looks alone,well i am sorry,for one usually those saying that arent so fortunate in the looks/body department in the first place so please spin me another tune,its all about physical attraction in the first instance,its human nature and there is no denying that,personality is secondary and WILL make or break it,i couldnt care less if a brangela cpl contacted us,if they looked stunning but are a pair of pr1cks then we will send them packing.
However,in an attempt to stop getting men who look like they are about to give birth sending us pictures yes we dont see whats so wrong with stating such a thing on your profile.
Put it this way,if you were going out to buy a car today,had what you would be happy with in your head thengot to the forecourt and the salesman tried to give you some old clapped out banger and gave you the 'oh but its got character' i dare say you wouldnt be too happy eh?
The other side of the coin as well is you have to remember some of us on here look after ourselves well,and ideally want to play with people who do the same too,if there is a spark with them then game on,doesnt mean everyone needs to look that way,but as said above if you dont ask you dont get.
What does grate me is seeing things like above,dont they realise that mst are at x stage in their life and are just happy that the other party turn up,that does make me laugh,expectations and standards must be pretty grim if thats what life has come to,if people want to moan about standards set on others profiles which they obviously dont meet for whatever reason,then jog on,they obviously werent including you in the criteria they are looking for.
maybe i should have put this in the rant thread lol |