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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just looked at yours, I'm fit and lean, but the last time I had a 34 waist was when I was 16  "
It's a guideline we suppose, very strict guideline but it's good for ing out the delusional.......actually it's not, we get messages from guys that could double as Fat Bastard from Austin Powers. |
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Amazes me how folk never tire of trying to put single guys down lets face facts every section has idiots. But its only ever single guys what wankers blah blah blah hypocrissystinks in the forums at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazes me how folk never tire of trying to put single guys down lets face facts every section has idiots. But its only ever single guys what wankers blah blah blah hypocrissystinks in the forums at times"
don't sugar coat it now kola |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just looked at yours, I'm fit and lean, but the last time I had a 34 waist was when I was 16
It's a guideline we suppose, very strict guideline but it's good for ing out the delusional.......actually it's not, we get messages from guys that could double as Fat Bastard from Austin Powers."
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I would suggest you reword your profile to read a little more positively and a wee bit less judgemental ...........from one of the ladies on here who has large breasts and is not slim lol X
It's also a wee bit long I also suggest shortening it a bit too X
Nothing aka Claire X |
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I can't comment on the profile as we're blocked, even though I don't think we've ever conversed.
But tbh I don't think it really matters what's on your profile as there will always be people who won't be bothered to read it. I just delete and ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody in the mood for chips? I'm buying....
Extra vinegar for me please Mrs McG...I do like the tartness 
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Cab I have Lea and Perrins on mine, need a bit of spice  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
I've read your profile OP
I've also never contacted you either.
Not because I don't match what you're looking for but because id rather meet someone who likes me for being me
But good luck and I hope you find your stallion |
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It never ceases to amaze me when people make a big deal of something that's within their own control..
If it's males who don't read your profile... filter men and search yourself. That filter is available to everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It never ceases to amaze me when people make a big deal of something that's within their own control..
If it's males who don't read your profile... filter men and search yourself. That filter is available to everyone "
But then you wouldn't be able to post a 'Look at Me' thread |
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"It never ceases to amaze me when people make a big deal of something that's within their own control..
If it's males who don't read your profile... filter men and search yourself. That filter is available to everyone
But then you wouldn't be able to post a 'Look at Me' thread "
Aaaw I'm sure they could find some Unfilterable criteria to post about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP
Just read both threads you've started today.
A question if I may.
Is there anything on Fab you like, other than yourselves of course "
Waits patiently for a reply..... |
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"OP
Just read both threads you've started today.
A question if I may.
Is there anything on Fab you like, other than yourselves of course
Waits patiently for a reply..... "
It will be like the Craggy Island summer. Never happen  |
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If you have a shopping list and don't venture from it, you know what you're getting every time (boring). But if you're like me and like to have the odd surprise now and again then what's the issue? Is this site not for trying new things and avoding for the norm? So a guy doesn't read you're profile, big deal. Why not talk to him and find out what he's about before you judge!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP...Is there anything on Fab you like, other than yourselves of course "
I'd never really noticed how some lengthy profiles say absolutely nothing about their owners, other than a list of what they don't like in others  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP
Just read both threads you've started today.
A question if I may.
Is there anything on Fab you like, other than yourselves of course "
Incidentally, I have tried reading your profile and have never and would never dream iof messaging you.
Each to their own but I do wonder  |
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You can't control people not reading your profile ,but you can control what on your profile and who contacts you . Maybe change the things you can and disregard the things you can't .
Personally if a guy or who ever has clearly not read my profile then they've just made my decision very easy . Message deleted and on to the people who have .Yes there are those who do read profiles lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just looked at yours, I'm fit and lean, but the last time I had a 34 waist was when I was 16
It's a guideline we suppose, very strict guideline but it's good for ing out the delusional.......actually it's not, we get messages from guys that could double as Fat Bastard from Austin Powers."
Think the only delusional people are...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would imagine many of the people who actually do read your profile probably don't go any further..."
exactly, especially after this bit:-
No fattys, no hairies, no plebs, nobody that spends their entire spare time consuming alcohol. Nobody that thinks any decent steak should be cooked any more than medium rare
lol
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I mean medium to well done is the only way for me |
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"How you like your steak ... Rare thanks and prefer filet, but wtf does that have to do with swinging partners ... Lighten up  "
Ordinarily you'd think that was a tongue in cheek comment but looking at the rest of their profile i dont think it is |
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
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"How you like your steak ... Rare thanks and prefer filet, but wtf does that have to do with swinging partners ... Lighten up
Ordinarily you'd think that was a tongue in cheek comment but looking at the rest of their profile i dont think it is"
And surprisingly... Single guys can hit the block button too... Even if I matched every requirement I wouldn't meet, just shows that it's not just single guys that are twats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol"
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not about lowering standards, but when they bemoan that people that do not meet their criteria are messaging they should at least be open to others opinions- they did post in an open forum.....
Very simple to put message filters up, to block certain members if they have messaged and to upload recent pictures so that steak appreciating adonis' know what to expect on a meet rather than the 2014 version..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow you guys look like a barrel of laughs  "
That's what I thought....several paragraphs of 'we want hotties', with a few insults thrown in for those not up to their standards to the point I thought it was a spoof of a narcissistic profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
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Not just attractive, 'very' attractive according to their profile, he may be but we cannot tell as there's no pics of his face but I'd argue against the female falling into that category, average comes not to mind. |
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
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the point you may be missing in alot of folks eyes they dont meet the criteria they claim. Im picky but im under no illusion that im nothing more than another human being on the face of the earth.....not a memver of the ultimate hottie crew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
the point you may be missing in alot of folks eyes they dont meet the criteria they claim. Im picky but im under no illusion that im nothing more than another human being on the face of the earth.....not a memver of the ultimate hottie crew"
The point I am getting tho is that they are not asking for a profile critique yet alot of you feel the need to point out what you think is wrong with their profile. Last time I checked this was against forum rules.
What gives posters the right to decide whether a profile is a member of 'the hottie crew' abd who they can try and meet?? If they only want to meet a certain type of person good luck to them. Think it's called having a preference.
If I only want to meet a certain type of person it's my preference and fuck all to do with the self righteous posters on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I only want to meet a certain type of person it's my preference and fuck all to do with the self righteous posters on here"
Absolutely, but then again you haven't started 2 threads bitching about it |
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Have to say I just did the block single males and newbies. Love to meet nice guys at clubs. But I'm done with dealing with thoughtless and often vile junk mail that has netted us zero meets. Talk on here, at clubs, parties and in chat rooms otherwise that's that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What gives posters the right to decide...who they can try and meet??"
Has someone decided who the OP is allowed to meet? I'm sure I qualify as "dross" and thereby hard of understanding, but I doubt anyone would presume to have that kind of power. |
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"Have to say I just did the block single males and newbies. Love to meet nice guys at clubs. But I'm done with dealing with thoughtless and often vile junk mail that has netted us zero meets. Talk on here, at clubs, parties and in chat rooms otherwise that's that. "
Just had one asking about a fantasy of C's that we're trying to create, offering his mate at his place but without C. Um, missing the essential part there, mate! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
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Thank you Vicki.
We didn't realise you can filter out single guys, we're not the brightest, sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hahahha
Only super fit and muscular need apply ??
Nice to see your feet are firmly on the ground lol....must be amazing to be erm amazing lol
And who can blame them? They are an attractive couple. Why settle for the dross on here?
Didn't see it in the FAQ's that couples had to lower their standards just to appease people.
the point you may be missing in alot of folks eyes they dont meet the criteria they claim. Im picky but im under no illusion that im nothing more than another human being on the face of the earth.....not a memver of the ultimate hottie crew
The point I am getting tho is that they are not asking for a profile critique yet alot of you feel the need to point out what you think is wrong with their profile. Last time I checked this was against forum rules.
What gives posters the right to decide whether a profile is a member of 'the hottie crew' abd who they can try and meet?? If they only want to meet a certain type of person good luck to them. Think it's called having a preference.
If I only want to meet a certain type of person it's my preference and fuck all to do with the self righteous posters on here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most Guys dont read profiles merely the fact there is never anything interesting exciting enticing too read.
Profiles never reflect exactly what they want.Dont tell me "My profile does"..it probably doesnt.
Its recognised that Females & Couples receive a high volume of messages and im sure youve seen a few disastrous messages from Guys.However dont sweep all Men with the same brush.
Many single Female profiles are arrogant demanding i want i want i want and many Couples profiles are Male half driven.
So whats left, other than some enticing pictures you have on display.
Couples ..Females ...We hear ya ....but at least make your profile fun light and enticing too read.
Just a thought
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most Guys dont read profiles merely the fact there is never anything interesting exciting enticing too read.
Profiles never reflect exactly what they want.Dont tell me "My profile does"..it probably doesnt.
Its recognised that Females & Couples receive a high volume of messages and im sure youve seen a few disastrous messages from Guys.However dont sweep all Men with the same brush.
Many single Female profiles are arrogant demanding i want i want i want and many Couples profiles are Male half driven.
So whats left, other than some enticing pictures you have on display.
Couples ..Females ...We hear ya ....but at least make your profile fun light and enticing too read.
Just a thought
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Who wants to read a profile that reads like the small print terms and conditions of a contract.
No this and no that becomes monotonous!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most Guys dont read profiles merely the fact there is never anything interesting exciting enticing too read.
Profiles never reflect exactly what they want.Dont tell me "My profile does"..it probably doesnt.
Its recognised that Females & Couples receive a high volume of messages and im sure youve seen a few disastrous messages from Guys.However dont sweep all Men with the same brush.
Many single Female profiles are arrogant demanding i want i want i want and many Couples profiles are Male half driven.
So whats left, other than some enticing pictures you have on display.
Couples ..Females ...We hear ya ....but at least make your profile fun light and enticing too read.
Just a thought
Who wants to read a profile that reads like the small print terms and conditions of a contract.
No this and no that becomes monotonous!
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maybe have more time to read war and peace |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We should perhaps make it a bit more clear that we don't mind single guys contacting us, we would just like them to read our profile first that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read peoples profiles and message or not depending or not if I fit the requirements.
I just wish I had not read this one as I am not worthy of even being allowed to read it never mind send a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We should perhaps make it a bit more clear that we don't mind single guys contacting us, we would just like them to read our profile first that's all."
I get what your saying....but as ive said maybe they dont read it because most of them that they do read are pretty much arrogant demanding.
However i have read your profile and it states clearly what you seek.But agreed maybe people should..but they dont.
You do have a refreshing profile and ya look lovely too ..so theres a we compliment x
I just dont get the "Professional bit"
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We should perhaps make it a bit more clear that we don't mind single guys contacting us, we would just like them to read our profile first that's all.
I get what your saying....but as ive said maybe they dont read it because most of them that they do read are pretty much arrogant demanding.
However i have read your profile and it states clearly what you seek.But agreed maybe people should..but they dont.
You do have a refreshing profile and ya look lovely too ..so theres a we compliment x
I just dont get the "Professional bit"
Good luck x "
Thank you, glad you get it. |
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Well I'm not sure that all the digs at the op's profile are necessary at least they clearly state what they want..... Unfortunately because of the way it reads I would think that it may put off the " target audience " they are hoping to attract and the ones that use the scattergun approach and pay no attention to profiles will carry on regardless |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always read peoples profiles and message or not depending or not if I fit the requirements.
I just wish I had not read this one as I am not worthy of even being allowed to read it never mind send a message "
We admire your honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to look at the pics first then read the profile after. Sometimes if the pics are super fab then tend not to read the profile. Maybe that's the problem. Pics are too fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe guys dont have time to read a 100 profiles a day to see if their suited to the fem / cpl ...IT GETS FKN BORING lol.
Must be this
Must be that
Must be this
Must be that
Borrrrinnng !!!!
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I get what you mean ..
Also ...some profiles never reflect what they seek ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok am used to being the bad guy on fab so I'm going to play my role here once again.
Its all fine and well being picky, and good for you both being as picky as you are but you really should keep it to yourself and when someone who mails you who isnt your type just block them.
Because I read your profile and only thing I can think of is.....what a pair of horrible nasty CUNTS
Sorry but just are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody reads mine either but I don't get all "antsy pantsy" about it.
I've read yours. It says "vamoose" on it... Which I think is kinda cool "
...yes, before I let the hounds loose. All tongue in cheek...I've only got cats and if I set them loose they just go . |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"Nobody reads mine either but I don't get all "antsy pantsy" about it.
I've read yours. It says "vamoose" on it... Which I think is kinda cool
...yes, before I let the hounds loose. All tongue in cheek...I've only got cats and if I set them loose they just go ."
That would be enough to hold me at bay because I'm allergic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok am used to being the bad guy on fab so I'm going to play my role here once again.
Its all fine and well being picky, and good for you both being as picky as you are but you really should keep it to yourself and when someone who mails you who isnt your type just block them.
Because I read your profile and only thing I can think of is.....what a pair of horrible nasty CUNTS
Sorry but just are."
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It's all well and good having a type and being fussy. I just don't think the profile needs to be so degrading to those who aren't your type. Makes you come across bad. As for not liking over weight or oversized. Which is fair enough but that covers 99% of fab. No one's perfect and beauty comes from within. For us it's not about what you look like but the person you are. Just my opinion. But then i fall I to the fat bird with boobs catorgry. Me being bubbly outgoing and a goid person means nothing lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just looked at yours, I'm fit and lean, but the last time I had a 34 waist was when I was 16
It's a guideline we suppose, very strict guideline but it's good for ing out the delusional.......actually it's not, we get messages from guys that could double as Fat Bastard from Austin Powers."
surprised anyone actually contacts you, your profile is a huge turn off
perhaps you are just attention seeking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok am used to being the bad guy on fab so I'm going to play my role here once again.
Its all fine and well being picky, and good for you both being as picky as you are but you really should keep it to yourself and when someone who mails you who isnt your type just block them.
Because I read your profile and only thing I can think of is.....what a pair of horrible nasty CUNTS
Sorry but just are."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah! |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah! "
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah! "
while I will agree with you that there is no need for harrassing and bullying tactics,I do agree also with other posts regarding the op,that comments like "looks like far bastard from Austin powers" are also fairly unwarranted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else."
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it! |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!"
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a him with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!"
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah! "
I suspect you have been a member here before, suspect things went tits up and you rejoined to start afresh |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
I suspect you have been a member here before, suspect things went tits up and you rejoined to start afresh"
I wasn't but my partner was and I'm beginning to understand why he counselled against getting involved in the Scottish Forum. |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
I suspect you have been a member here before, suspect things went tits up and you rejoined to start afresh"
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
Just my opinion, not endorsed by anyone else
So because they have an opinion that differs from your own they are these loathsome people? Sorry but that dog just won't hunt!"
Not what I said at all. |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
Just my opinion, not endorsed by anyone else
So because they have an opinion that differs from your own they are these loathsome people? Sorry but that dog just won't hunt!
Not what I said at all."
No you are right it's not what you said. You said that the only people you have seen complain about the little parochial, clique on the Scottsih Forum in the 4 years you have been here are, and I quote are the "nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people"
Well since we are being forthright I am not nasty, rude , aggressive, obnoxious and unlike a lot of bloody people on this Forum I know I'm in no way shape or form better than anyone else. I am however perceptive to see that the only people who can not or can but will not admit there is a clique on here are the ones who are actually in the clique and who make it very uncomfortable and I enjoyable for anyone who won't kiss their overblown sense of their own self importance asses. I fully expect to be censured for this as that seems to be another tactic......go grassing to admin when you don't like what you hear! |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
Just my opinion, not endorsed by anyone else
So because they have an opinion that differs from your own they are these loathsome people? Sorry but that dog just won't hunt!
Not what I said at all.
No you are right it's not what you said. You said that the only people you have seen complain about the little parochial, clique on the Scottsih Forum in the 4 years you have been here are, and I quote are the "nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people"
Well since we are being forthright I am not nasty, rude , aggressive, obnoxious and unlike a lot of bloody people on this Forum I know I'm in no way shape or form better than anyone else. I am however perceptive to see that the only people who can not or can but will not admit there is a clique on here are the ones who are actually in the clique and who make it very uncomfortable and I enjoyable for anyone who won't kiss their overblown sense of their own self importance asses. I fully expect to be censured for this as that seems to be another tactic......go grassing to admin when you don't like what you hear!"
I wasn't actually referring to you, but take it any way you like. Happy fabbing |
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
Just my opinion, not endorsed by anyone else
So because they have an opinion that differs from your own they are these loathsome people? Sorry but that dog just won't hunt!
Not what I said at all.
No you are right it's not what you said. You said that the only people you have seen complain about the little parochial, clique on the Scottsih Forum in the 4 years you have been here are, and I quote are the "nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people"
Well since we are being forthright I am not nasty, rude , aggressive, obnoxious and unlike a lot of bloody people on this Forum I know I'm in no way shape or form better than anyone else. I am however perceptive to see that the only people who can not or can but will not admit there is a clique on here are the ones who are actually in the clique and who make it very uncomfortable and I enjoyable for anyone who won't kiss their overblown sense of their own self importance asses. I fully expect to be censured for this as that seems to be another tactic......go grassing to admin when you don't like what you hear!"
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"So many people on these Forums who gang together and harangue people and ridicule then for expressing an honest opinion. I may not agree with the OP's original post but I will defend her right to say it without the Forum Hyenas moving in for the kill because they smell blood.
So many bloody soap box preachers at times who think they're all that, forum/swinger royalty and seem to be able to bully and harass people at a whim with no repercussions. It's a small wonder that it is the same faces/people day after day chatting as it's patently obvious that unless your face fits and you conform to the "hierarchy" thinking you're made to feel about as welcome as a Pork Loin at a Bamitzvah!
Utter crap. The majority of people on here are relaxed friendly people. What they are saying is it's fine to have preferences, it is not fine to slag off those who don't meet yours.
Don't be fooled by that 'forum clique' shite, a load of people having the same reasoned opinion isn't a clique, just as saying someone sounds aggressive or like a twat isn't ganging up.
I try to adhere to the treat as you wish to be treated _iew - I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not to be. If my _iew aligns with a load of other people's, that's not a clique or ganging up on anyone. I speak for myself and no one else.
I form my own _iews and opinions based upon experience and observation and in my _iew/opinion (which like you I am entitled to) and in the short time I have been on here there is very definitely a clique, people who seem to insult, belittle and ridicule people with impunity.....only Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles wouldn't see it!
I've been here 4 years, and the only people I've seen complain about a clique are the nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people that never have a nice word to say about anyone or anything. Everyone else just gets on with it.
I guess it's easier for them to complain that people are ganging up on them, rather than admit that they may just not be a very nice person.
Just my opinion, not endorsed by anyone else
So because they have an opinion that differs from your own they are these loathsome people? Sorry but that dog just won't hunt!
Not what I said at all.
No you are right it's not what you said. You said that the only people you have seen complain about the little parochial, clique on the Scottsih Forum in the 4 years you have been here are, and I quote are the "nasty, rude, aggressive, obnoxious, think they're superior to everyone else people"
Well since we are being forthright I am not nasty, rude , aggressive, obnoxious and unlike a lot of bloody people on this Forum I know I'm in no way shape or form better than anyone else. I am however perceptive to see that the only people who can not or can but will not admit there is a clique on here are the ones who are actually in the clique and who make it very uncomfortable and I enjoyable for anyone who won't kiss their overblown sense of their own self importance asses. I fully expect to be censured for this as that seems to be another tactic......go grassing to admin when you don't like what you hear! pmt ? "
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I agree people should be able to post what they are looking for as it should reduce the amount of messages they get but referring to people as "fatties" and the other derogatory terms on that profile is just pathetic.
I wish OP all the best in finding people they want to meet but imagine the profile itself is a massive turn off to most decent folk on here. |
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"I agree people should be able to post what they are looking for as it should reduce the amount of messages they get but referring to people as "fatties" and the other derogatory terms on that profile is just pathetic.
I wish OP all the best in finding people they want to meet but imagine the profile itself is a massive turn off to most decent folk on here."
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