Don't turn up wearing a mankini..all joking aside good luck with any meets and maybe best option is to meet for a social drink first as lets face it we all need that attraction and if it is not there then the heat and passion that we all desire from a meet will not be there.
ps,i have not had any meets either
it happens to some
i have been here for 6 weeks no meets as yet this is not down to me,
its just who you get a chance to talk to
its mainly luck i think
