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over a year ago
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Hello everyone.
I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?
I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.
Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,. |
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"Hello everyone.
I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?
I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.
Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,." why hasn't your Fb verified you?...Surley that would help ? |
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"Hello everyone.
I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?
I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.
Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,."
As others have said; and from my point of view. I'd say definitely lessen the cock pics; and more body/full body pics or pics that sort of being out the curiosity in others, or artsy shots.
Profile text isn't the most positive; it's almost saying not only is wife not good enough, but fb situation doesn't suit either hence why came here; which makes it look like here is a third stop, etc.
re the verifications; that's 50-50 think it depends. Typically socials are most common for your first verification. I first met someone without being verified; it was a drink in town. you can also try putting your name down for social events/nights out/etc that are arranged on the Scotland forum etc. That'll get you verifications, and you might even meet people there that you're attracted to/mutual attraction and take it from there...
I don't even show my verifications but that minor point doesn't seem to be a barrier for me personally although may put people off. I think it's mostly down to the photos, and just what your profile says about you that is the deciding factor in that first instance though... |
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"Hello everyone.
I've messaged a few people, very polite, no pressure, but I don't get replies. Could be because I don't have any verifications but how do I get those without a meet ?
I don't think I'm demanding or threatening but I guess everyone needs to be careful, and I'm no different.
Any tips welcome fellow Fabbers,.
As others have said; and from my point of view. I'd say definitely lessen the cock pics; and more body/full body pics or pics that sort of being out the curiosity in others, or artsy shots.
Profile text isn't the most positive; it's almost saying not only is wife not good enough, but fb situation doesn't suit either hence why came here; which makes it look like here is a third stop, etc.
re the verifications; that's 50-50 think it depends. Typically socials are most common for your first verification. I first met someone without being verified; it was a drink in town. you can also try putting your name down for social events/nights out/etc that are arranged on the Scotland forum etc. That'll get you verifications, and you might even meet people there that you're attracted to/mutual attraction and take it from there...
I don't even show my verifications but that minor point doesn't seem to be a barrier for me personally although may put people off. I think it's mostly down to the photos, and just what your profile says about you that is the deciding factor in that first instance though..."
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