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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just general question.
Why is it so hard to even get a reply?
Before anyone says im not having a go at folk for not replying, but a simple sorry not interested would be grand. |
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"Just general question.
Why is it so hard to even get a reply?
Before anyone says im not having a go at folk for not replying, but a simple sorry not interested would be grand."
read the many threads like this answers dont change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just general question.
Why is it so hard to even get a reply?
Before anyone says im not having a go at folk for not replying, but a simple sorry not interested would be grand."
Kola is correct there are many threads that will explain to you why that is... but some are...
1. Not having time to type "no thanks~" up to 100 times a day (single ladies can get that amount of mail sometimes depending on "STUFF" lol)... especially when it leads to..
2. Unwanted ping pong messages asking "why" "can we chat" "is there something wrong with me" etc etc
3. Very often the person mailing you has ignored your profile in the first place...
4. The site does say that you should take a non-response as a polite no thank you.
It really is a shame as it does tend to mean the good guys sometimes get lumped in with the bad guys.
Hope that helps and good luck on site
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Red has got it bang on.
Our biggest reason for not replying is that for some, a polite no thank you isn't enough. They then ask why etc etc. I understand the frustration in not receiving replies, but sometimes it's the easiest way. |
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"Just general question.
Why is it so hard to even get a reply?
Before anyone says im not having a go at folk for not replying, but a simple sorry not interested would be grand.
Kola is correct there are many threads that will explain to you why that is... but some are...
1. Not having time to type "no thanks~" up to 100 times a day (single ladies can get that amount of mail sometimes depending on "STUFF" lol)... especially when it leads to..
2. Unwanted ping pong messages asking "why" "can we chat" "is there something wrong with me" etc etc
3. Very often the person mailing you has ignored your profile in the first place...
4. The site does say that you should take a non-response as a polite no thank you.
It really is a shame as it does tend to mean the good guys sometimes get lumped in with the bad guys.
Hope that helps and good luck on site
Red "
Plus, you need to take a look at your own profile (not you personally OP, just the general folk who typically don't get any replies) and ask yourself if it looks interesting enough to actually warrant any kind of interest or attention. Does it have a lot of photos that show you off for who you are? Or are they obscure or even non existent? Does your profile text say much? Are you healthily meet verified? Etc etc |
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