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Ok perhaps it wasn't phrased right
I was more meaning specifics
But fair dos it was a stupid question
Was meaning
Like will I have much say in what's going on
I'm assuming no still means no
What is the ratio of males to females
But thanks anyway for the replies
I'll just suck it myself (literally and metaphorically) and see
And if anyone else is thinking about going down this route in future and would like advice then I'll happily let you know about my experience and won't make them feel like crap |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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This thread is a classic example of why the Fab forums need a major review and update.
Most forums these days have 'stickies', threads at the start which are permanent, contain FaQs, and also house threads dealing with regularly asked/aired subjects, like this.
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over a year ago
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"Ok perhaps it wasn't phrased right
I was more meaning specifics
But fair dos it was a stupid question
Was meaning
Like will I have much say in what's going on
I'm assuming no still means no
What is the ratio of males to females
But thanks anyway for the replies
I'll just suck it myself (literally and metaphorically) and see
And if anyone else is thinking about going down this route in future and would like advice then I'll happily let you know about my experience and won't make them feel like crap "
Just two questions OP;
a) How much say would you like to have? Total control of events maybe?
b) Whatever makes you think that in these or any other circumstances "NO" would mean anything else but NO!?
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I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it
This is me stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing my boundaries that little bit further so no I don't want indeed I really don't want control lm just not really not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me and I was hopeful that some nice fabber might come along and give me some info
But never mind
As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game ! |
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"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it
This is me stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing my boundaries that little bit further so no I don't want indeed I really don't want control lm just not really not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me and I was hopeful that some nice fabber might come along and give me some info
But never mind
As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game ! "
that would be your choice to relinquish control never I will say again never should no be taken for anything but that. As to what to expect it really iss simple dicks plenty of them all wanting to use any orifice available |
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"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it
This is me stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing my boundaries that little bit further so no I don't want indeed I really don't want control lm just not really not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me and I was hopeful that some nice fabber might come along and give me some info
But never mind
As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game ! "
OP, please ignore the nasty comments, it says more about them than you.
Might I suggest that if you're trying to push boundaries, maybe have everyone agree to a safeword? That way you can relinquish control to an extent, but you ultimately have the final say.
I've never been to a greedy girls day, although I have had 4 guys at once at a club (one of whom was my partner so he knew to pull the plug if I was unhappy).
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No will always be no in any aspect of life and swinging. Do what your comfortable with. Be confident and enjoy it. It's an experience and a boundary pusher. Just have a good time. That's all that's required. Most are friendly and will welcome you in. It's not clique like most in swinging. Just have a good time and embrace it x |
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"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it
This is me stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing my boundaries that little bit further so no I don't want indeed I really don't want control lm just not really not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me and I was hopeful that some nice fabber might come along and give me some info
But never mind
As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game !
OP, please ignore the nasty comments, it says more about them than you.
Might I suggest that if you're trying to push boundaries, maybe have everyone agree to a safeword? That way you can relinquish control to an extent, but you ultimately have the final say.
I've never been to a greedy girls day, although I have had 4 guys at once at a club (one of whom was my partner so he knew to pull the plug if I was unhappy).
Have fun and keep us posted! "
which nasty comments if you mean mine perhaps take another look they may not be full of cotton candy but they certainly aint nasty. The op asked what to expect and imo thats precisely what can be expected. If you percieve someones opinion to be nasty report it and im sure admin will take a look and make a judgement. |
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Oh please don't fight
I've not taken offence at anything
The first reply was simple
What should I expect
Well dicks
In some ways
To the point and accurate
I wasn't clear what I was asking
I think the comment straight after about my question being stupid was a little hurtful but again I can see why the poster said it
But I've had some lovely and helpful private messages as well as messages on here and I'm now looking forward to Friday but also shitting a brick about it
Anyone sexy coming along to ease my nerves and get me all turned on ?
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over a year ago
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Must admit I jumped in with my smart arsed comment thinking it was a cheeky bloke who was posting ...not the lady of the couple. I have, however, apologised privately. 
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Do you know the guys that are going ?
Do you them all to be strangers ?
Do you want a free for all or pick and choose.
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If you are laying down some rules , make sure any new people arriving no them too |
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"Do you know the guys that are going ?
Do you them all to be strangers ?
Do you want a free for all or pick and choose.
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If you are laying down some rules , make sure any new people arriving no them too"
Thanks
Was just chatting to hubby about that
He will be with me and I think I will chose and then if new ones come in I'll give him a sign as to whether they can stay or not or perhaps even just watch
Who knows
This is a new adventure
And I'm trying to persuade my FB who I was a couple with on here to come along too |
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I've never been to one yet but I can understand that dipping your toe into something new can be nerve racking. Why not plan to go socially and not to play and if you feel comfortable then join in. Cj and her team do a good job to make people feel safe and to make it an enjoyable experience. Just keep in mind it's supposed to be fun if it's not then you have the right to say no. Good luck xxxxx |
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"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first
Wondering what to expect
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Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays.
BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back |
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"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first
Wondering what to expect
Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays.
I went had fun and would go back
BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back "
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"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first
Wondering what to expect
Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays
BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back "
I went had fun and would go back |
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"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first
Wondering what to expect
Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays
Fantastic, good on you for taking the plunge
BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back
I went had fun and would go back "
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