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over a year ago
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my opinion..
if she was being paid to attend the party I wouldnt play with her..
if she was attending on her 'night off' and I was attracted to her and she to me , I would play.
if she is an escort, it isnt for me to judge her...
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over a year ago
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i think there are few escorts on fab that use the site for pleasure which is cool.
but if we meet a couple and knew the girl was being paid, not only wouldnt we play we would go mental lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are escorts on Fab. The ones i know do not use the site for business. Also a mate of mine,fem, has taken one to a party with her male friend. They didnt pay her and everyone had a great night. Remember its just their job, its their choice of how they make money. X |
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over a year ago
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Are we not getting jobs mixed up here
Correct me if I'm wrong here.
A street girl is a hooker/prostitute. She sells sexual favours for money. The girls in Glasgow are mostly feeding heroin or cocaine habits. There is a couple I know are in low paid jobs and they use the street as a way of supplementing their low income or are students doing the same.
A step up is the massage parlours, usually a flat rented from whoever and used as a massage/brothel. Majority of these women are Eastern European/Asian women brought here to work. Or are better presented street girls
The Escort Agencies supply a service for people requiring a partner for an evening. Believe it or not, not all Escorts supply sexual services. Majority of them are students, bored housewives, mostly well presented and educated out of their own purse to act as eye candy for the nouveau riche.
I have worked with Escorts at times when I worked in Close Protective Security. Some rich Japanese guy wants some eye candy to go to the casino with him. He has a local bodyguard and an escort at his side for the evening.
I'm a bodyguard, I escort rich ladies around the place, doesn't mean I fuck them every night
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over a year ago
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Good point about the word escort. But i have to say that the two i know do call themselves escorts but it is pure sex they offer. They both use escort type sites to advertise and either use their own home or hotels, which they say for. I have to pay they are both well educated, have normal jobs and partners. I dont find anything wrong with this, but i could never do it lol. I did once ask about saying no, both have turned guys down. As they say they could never have sex with a guy that doesnt do it for them. They never go out with the men but they do have reg clients. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we not getting jobs mixed up here
Correct me if I'm wrong here.
A street girl is a hooker/prostitute. She sells sexual favours for money. The girls in Glasgow are mostly feeding heroin or cocaine habits. There is a couple I know are in low paid jobs and they use the street as a way of supplementing their low income or are students doing the same.
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i think the off-the street remark was just a joke mate and not meant as anything other than |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to a party where an Escort turned up with her client. Nobody else would have got a look in anyway, because it was obviously her job to solely focus on him and seeing to all his needs.
I have nothing against escorts at all, but I really don't think they should use swingers parties to carry out their business. |
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over a year ago
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to me the original question is a moot point.
Someones job should not influence the reason to play or not. I dont like taffic wardens..but if hot..id play lol
Escorts have sex with strangers for cash..
Swingers have sex with strangers....
the only difference is cash..I know who is smarter lol
Now i know some people will raise the point..'oo but she is ONLY doing it cos she is paid to' and yes that is correct, however having been around the swinging scene for a long time. Thats a far better option that the plethora of people who do it just to please a partner or they are coerced into doing it via emotional blackmail etc.
I know for a 100% fact that people have played with others and didnt really want to..but didnt like to say in case they caused upset of offence..or didnt like to say as their partner was having a great time etc
Again its each to their own..but as long as the person is willing and not coerced then their reasons are not for me to judge.
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over a year ago
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Well said! X oh and at £100 for one hour its a very swart business to be in! Dont think traffic wardens get that. Mind you they do get the sexy uniform lol x |
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over a year ago
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Well thats just not right! She should not have been invited to the party. What did she do just ignore everyone else! Oh and on prov cheques, they dont do them anymore, so your showing your age lol and as i said i couldnt do the whole escort thing and id end up paying them lol |
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over a year ago
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"What did she do just ignore everyone else! "
Yep completely blanked everyone else the whole night.
To me, a swingers party is all about getting the mix of guests just right and you can't acheive that when some are there, for a completely different purpose. |
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over a year ago
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That is shocking! If the lost knew and still allowed her to attend the party that is very poor hosting skills. I would have asked her to leave or at the very least let then use a room and then tell them to go. She could have gone to a club. Parties are social events, with sex flung in. Shame on her. |
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as most folk would say it is very nieve to think that there is not a sexual part to escorting and most do offer extra services.
escorts at parties seen loads just look at some of the clubs, do you really think that nice looking lass or two is going to be seen with elephant man- emm naw.
whats in a name anyway -if you were a agricultural waste removal engineer its just a fancy name for a shit shoveler . but it does not matter what you call it a hooker is just that a hooker even on a night off they are still that ,or do they suddenly get a new job tittle on there night off.and yes i have known a few that say they are nurses if folk ask them
ok rant over
nudity is a great thing it removes the class snobbery that some find bad, a nude king looks just like a nude popper ,bla blah blah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if there are escorts using the site to make money then please report these members to admin and it will be looked into.
The site has no issue with escorts using the site if they do not charge...or use the site to make money. |
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"as most folk would say it is very nieve to think that there is not a sexual part to escorting and most do offer extra services.
escorts at parties seen loads just look at some of the clubs, do you really think that nice looking lass or two is going to be seen with elephant man- emm naw.
whats in a name anyway -if you were a agricultural waste removal engineer its just a fancy name for a shit shoveler . but it does not matter what you call it a hooker is just that a hooker even on a night off they are still that ,or do they suddenly get a new job tittle on there night off.and yes i have known a few that say they are nurses if folk ask them
ok rant over
nudity is a great thing it removes the class snobbery that some find bad, a nude king looks just like a nude popper ,bla blah blah "
ffs!!!!
SO WHAT IF SOMEONE HAS SEX WITH STRANGERS FOR CASH!!!???!!!??
Are we all soo damn foolish we cannot see that the only difference is that swingers dont charge??
Does that make them some how superior or able to pass judgement or somehow seem holier than thou...or better..or smarter..or on a higher moral ground ffs??
A job does NOT define who you are...yes it can be a very large part of you..but it is NOT who you are unless you do a job that is a vocation.
Whats the big deal if someone is an escort and only fucks someone for cash...is anyone really that stupid to assume that every swinger on this site does it all the time because they want to???..hardly!
Well thats my rant..sadly its wasted.
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over a year ago
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"So long as someone is not using Fab site to promote there bizz, what does it matter !!!
exactly !!"
No it doesn't matter one bit, but when you are using a party where there are only a few couples anyway to entertain your client so you can be safe, then that takes away from the party atmosphere. |
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over a year ago
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well the person is entitled to do whatever they want,it doesnt make him or her any less a person and there there for fun,not making a cash collection at the end of the night,lol,live and let live is my motto |
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A friend of mine used to do escorting but just used fab for general swinging so she could meet people of her choice. The two are easily kept seperate, and I believe they should be, end of story. The people she met knew nothing of her 'job' and am sure would not have cared once they got a look at her! So, to say someone is a hooker, even when not working, is an absolute nonsense.
Interestingly, she directed me to a couple of escorting websites and showed me quite a few pictures from ladies that one can recognise from on here. More are at it than you'd think, and given the feedback of one or two of these, they are very very popular on here too - so I can't think they go round charging for it via this site.
If anyone asks for money for a meet you've arranged through here, a polite "fuck off" should suffice.
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ffs!!!!
SO WHAT IF SOMEONE HAS SEX WITH STRANGERS FOR CASH!!!???!!!??
Are we all soo damn foolish we cannot see that the only difference is that swingers dont charge??
Does that make them some how superior or able to pass judgement or somehow seem holier than thou...or better..or smarter..or on a higher moral ground ffs??
A job does NOT define who you are...yes it can be a very large part of you..but it is NOT who you are unless you do a job that is a vocation.
Whats the big deal if someone is an escort and only fucks someone for cash...is anyone really that stupid to assume that every swinger on this site does it all the time because they want to???..hardly!
Well thats my rant..sadly its wasted.
vol"
Sorry but disagree, when we play there has to be a connection between us and them and it is ALWAYS because we want to, neither of us would ever play if both did not want to.
If we were aware of the fact that someone was an escort there would be NO chance of us ever playing because we like to believe that both of the other couple want to play , not do it as part of a business transaction. |
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what anyone does ios no one elses fucking business,unles there tax inspectors lol lol, escort, lorry driver, painter, brickie no matter what we all sell our bodies for money one way or another so good luck to the guys and girls who do this type of work and fuck everyone else for a fee of cousre lol  |
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ffs!!!!
SO WHAT IF SOMEONE HAS SEX WITH STRANGERS FOR CASH!!!???!!!??
Are we all soo damn foolish we cannot see that the only difference is that swingers dont charge??
Does that make them some how superior or able to pass judgement or somehow seem holier than thou...or better..or smarter..or on a higher moral ground ffs??
A job does NOT define who you are...yes it can be a very large part of you..but it is NOT who you are unless you do a job that is a vocation.
Whats the big deal if someone is an escort and only fucks someone for cash...is anyone really that stupid to assume that every swinger on this site does it all the time because they want to???..hardly!
Well thats my rant..sadly its wasted.
vol
Sorry but disagree, when we play there has to be a connection between us and them and it is ALWAYS because we want to, neither of us would ever play if both did not want to.
If we were aware of the fact that someone was an escort there would be NO chance of us ever playing because we like to believe that both of the other couple want to play , not do it as part of a business transaction."
well bluntly you clearly didnt read this correctly because i made far more than one point and the one you are addressing is still a moot point
i had written more but deleted it as it is wasted.
All i will say is ..
If people are happy to have sex with people who are practically strangers...then look down on those who do the same, but have the business sense to profit from it..then its hilarious and the hypocracy is astounding
vol
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"what anyone does ios no one elses fucking business,unles there tax inspectors lol lol, escort, lorry driver, painter, brickie no matter what we all sell our bodies for money one way or another so good luck to the guys and girls who do this type of work and fuck everyone else for a fee of cousre lol "
here here 44 if i dont get a job soon ill be doing it lol  |
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We are in no way looking down our noses at those who make a living from charging for sex, to each there own.
Just meant that do not like the idea of having that niggling thought "is she/he playing because they want to or is this a business arrangement".
Would much prefer to have situation clear in mind , if one goes to an escort and has sex you know its business. |
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