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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know you hear it again and again but really what a pointless site. Ive had a meet up for weeks and talked back and forth to several people who then make excuses when the time comes, mailed several who dont have the manners to even reply and im still sittin at home myself with no one to meet.
Beyond funny
Feeling scunnered to say the least.
Appologies but needed the rant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know you hear it again and again but really what a pointless site. Ive had a meet up for weeks and talked back and forth to several people who then make excuses when the time comes, mailed several who dont have the manners to even reply and im still sittin at home myself with no one to meet.
Beyond funny
Feeling scunnered to say the least.
Appologies but needed the rant "
tried going to a social or a club?some folk feel more comfy using them as a place to have a first meet,just a suggestion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I went to cjs once, kinda felt like an outsider lol doesnt help when you work alot etc so not always convenient.
I have had a couple meets but i couldnt tell u when as it was so long ago.
Tired putting in the effort and very little has the decency to do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, been there. I gave up looking for meets years ago. Started dabbling again recently but mostly just to remind myself why I gave up! Fab is a great site, I enjoy it, but as a single male if you join with expectations and high hopes of actual meets you're likely to be disappointed - no matter how much you spruce up your profile and tailor your messages and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you "
btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not bad advice to be fair, although in the movies selling your soul to get what you want always seems a bit more... glamorous  "
would it be worth an eternity in hell though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note though, the thing that frustrates me is a silly thing, not just on fab but on things like pof, tinder, blender, basically all sites and apps is if a woman is curvy, chubby, fat, obese we have to accept them for who they are "thats fair enough not what frustrates me" but if us guys aren't thin or athletic we get looked down upon even by women bigger than us!
I speak from personal experience btw
It's just really annoying, and I also know not every woman is like this but most are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not bad advice to be fair, although in the movies selling your soul to get what you want always seems a bit more... glamorous would it be worth an eternity in hell though?"
I've seen a few fab profiles that could probably tempt me... :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a serious note though, the thing that frustrates me is a silly thing, not just on fab but on things like pof, tinder, blender, basically all sites and apps is if a woman is curvy, chubby, fat, obese we have to accept them for who they are "thats fair enough not what frustrates me" but if us guys aren't thin or athletic we get looked down upon even by women bigger than us!
I speak from personal experience btw
It's just really annoying, and I also know not every woman is like this but most are."
Not sure if it's most women or not but yeah, that's a bit of a pet hate of mine too. The whole "well of course nobody is replying, your profile is non-existant" coming from women with non-existant profiles does my nut in as well! |
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"I know you hear it again and again but really what a pointless site. Ive had a meet up for weeks and talked back and forth to several people who then make excuses when the time comes, mailed several who dont have the manners to even reply and im still sittin at home myself with no one to meet.
Beyond funny
Feeling scunnered to say the least.
Appologies but needed the rant "
The site is mearly a tool to be used . You ultimately make your own experience on here . If you aren't finding what you want then you can blame the site or blame everyone on here or you can take a step back and rethink your approach to things . After all that's the only thing you can control . If your profile or messages aren't working then revamp things and good luck if you stay on the site or if you go again . |
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I'd personally have more meets than I could handle as a single on here. Jizzabelle holds me back a bit but hey ho you make your bed. My old single days online were great fun averaging a new meet a month and with multiple meets on offer I had as much or as little as I wanted. God I miss the single life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up "
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its simple really
If someone fancy's you
They meet if not they wont
It is actually that simple!"
Incorrect,
U need to have a conversation and go as far as seeing what one another looks like.
So if u dont even get as far as a reply then its certainly not simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional "
I think you'll find I spelled it correctly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly "
... but not crawling... unless crwaling is some kind of kinky sexual thing I don't know about   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly "
I know you did but most of the professional people looking for professional people can't! Unless they have their own elite was of spelling it so they know they are dealing with another proffesional |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you "
only one I'd agree with is no 1 lol |
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"I went to cjs once, kinda felt like an outsider lol doesnt help when you work alot etc so not always convenient.
I have had a couple meets but i couldnt tell u when as it was so long ago.
Tired putting in the effort and very little has the decency to do the same "
3 cock pics is your idea of lots of effort  |
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By *weetcplCouple
over a year ago
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Go to a club again and make an effort chatting and having laugh. Always have good manners, you will get more verifications and get rid of the cock pics and have a shave . Ask to get an invite to a meet and great, things should improve ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you only one I'd agree with is no 1 lol "
Thought you might have added one NMD... bring Chardonnay |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you only one I'd agree with is no 1 lol
Thought you might have added one NMD... bring Chardonnay "
I thought about it but then I'd look too demanding lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you only one I'd agree with is no 1 lol
Thought you might have added one NMD... bring Chardonnay I thought about it but then I'd look too demanding lol "
Lol good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly
... but not crawling... unless crwaling is some kind of kinky sexual thing I don't know about "
never noticed I did that lol typing too fast |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly
I know you did but most of the professional people looking for professional people can't! Unless they have their own elite was of spelling it so they know they are dealing with another proffesional"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly
... but not crawling... unless crwaling is some kind of kinky sexual thing I don't know about never noticed I did that lol typing too fast"
I do that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up "
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I know you hear it again and again but really what a pointless site. "
Pointless - having little or no sense, use, purpose or worth.
Sorry OP, but would have to disagree with you 100%!
And coming on the forums and moaning about your lack of success doesn't usually endear you to the ladies.
In life in general, success is closely allied to effort, but luck also has some bearing too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's weird, there's hardly any mechanical parts in this smartphone and yet it's giving off the unmistakable sound of whining..."
Well fling it away and u wont have to listen to it |
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I'm new as well and found it more frustrating not being able to post meets or get on to the forum.
I've not met anyone yet either but I understand the women to men ratio on here and that a lot of people have their type or their favourites that they've met before.
Just the way it is and I lol always try and arrange a daytime social whenever I can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the female half of a couple and yes I can understand why single females are nie impossible to get to meet.but on fab at least 70% claim to be bi or bi curious
Although you tend to find with mailing they aren't at all interested.is it just easy to put bi or bi curious to appear something more to attract the males? .im not implying in anyway that every girl is lying it's only my experience as were relatively new to the scene it might just be our profile that's putting people off.but I've been in the forums reading the advice people with experience in swinging keep saying go to a social etc so my long winded point being what's the point of fabswingers?.x if we all went to social's there wouldn't be a need for fab although I'm probably missing the point but its the way I'm seeing things |
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"I'm the female half of a couple and yes I can understand why single females are nie impossible to get to meet.but on fab at least 70% claim to be bi or bi curious
Although you tend to find with mailing they aren't at all interested.is it just easy to put bi or bi curious to appear something more to attract the males? .im not implying in anyway that every girl is lying it's only my experience as were relatively new to the scene it might just be our profile that's putting people off.but I've been in the forums reading the advice people with experience in swinging keep saying go to a social etc so my long winded point being what's the point of fabswingers?.x if we all went to social's there wouldn't be a need for fab although I'm probably missing the point but its the way I'm seeing things "
its totally down to yourself I only meet after I get to know a person. If your a bi female then it gets more difficult as you say alot of fems are far from bi but hubby/boyfriend/fb like the idea so fem pretends a bit to try and get the other what he wants. My advice be clear in what you want. Forget what the other party wants. (If your criteria meets they get what they are after) when I was in a relationship with a bi partner she sorted that side out for herself I certainly didnt try to force myself into it. Thats a side I could neverfulfill |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the female half of a couple and yes I can understand why single females are nie impossible to get to meet.but on fab at least 70% claim to be bi or bi curious
Although you tend to find with mailing they aren't at all interested.is it just easy to put bi or bi curious to appear something more to attract the males? .im not implying in anyway that every girl is lying it's only my experience as were relatively new to the scene it might just be our profile that's putting people off.but I've been in the forums reading the advice people with experience in swinging keep saying go to a social etc so my long winded point being what's the point of fabswingers?.x if we all went to social's there wouldn't be a need for fab although I'm probably missing the point but its the way I'm seeing things "
I think your profile is nice and it does state all parties should be happy to actually play... however... I think most bi fems are here (like all of us) to explore their own sexuality and therefore don't want to be part of a couples fantasy... i.e. they're not here for the husbands titillation... I'm not saying that's what you're saying but many couples do seek that... I can understand why many bi females don't want to meet couples in that respect... I also think Kola has a point on the women pleasing men thing... just a point of view of which there are many.
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you "
You forgot to mention two things:
1. Cake
2. CJ's
They are the answer to everything. |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you
You forgot to mention two things:
1. Cake
2. CJ's
They are the answer to everything. "
I don't do either... is this where I'm going wrong and or right  |
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"I don't do either... is this where I'm going wrong and or right
No, it's because you ignore all my begging messages...  "
I must have been eating something else... NOT at CJ's |
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"I went to cjs once, kinda felt like an outsider lol doesnt help when you work alot etc so not always convenient.
I have had a couple meets but i couldnt tell u when as it was so long ago.
Tired putting in the effort and very little has the decency to do the same "
We went to cj's and felt so uncomfortable and found it cliquey. Never had that in other clubs x |
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Thank you kola and red that is weird how if you put them together you get red kola lol.
I do get why some females don't meet couples and you think there's some pressure on the female half of the couple to perform for her man and it does and is happening on here.
But its really not that way with us(yeah right some will say)this is my fantasy I've been curious for the last 20 years and because of having a family and not wanting to go behind my mans back with anyone male or female and its a massive turn on for me knowing he's there not just for safety but I can relax knowing there's nothing to hide oh yeah and to see the look on his face lol.Anna x |
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"I went to cjs once, kinda felt like an outsider lol doesnt help when you work alot etc so not always convenient.
I have had a couple meets but i couldnt tell u when as it was so long ago.
Tired putting in the effort and
very little has the decency to do the same
We went to cj's and felt so uncomfortable and found it cliquey. Never had that in other clubs x"
Exactly how i felt x |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you btw just some humour! Don't get all prissy people!!
Lighten up
Point 5, I think you'll find it's spelt proffesional I think you'll find I spelled it correctly "
Was away to say the same thing llf |
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"Thank you kola and red that is weird how if you put them together you get red kola lol.
I do get why some females don't meet couples and you think there's some pressure on the female half of the couple to perform for her man and it does and is happening on here.
But its really not that way with us(yeah right some will say)this is my fantasy I've been curious for the last 20 years and because of having a family and not wanting to go behind my mans back with anyone male or female and its a massive turn on for me knowing he's there not just for safety but I can relax knowing there's nothing to hide oh yeah and to see the look on his face lol.Anna x"
LOL@ red kola! Hope you find what you seek Anna it's great you are both on the same hymn sheet so to speak that's halfway there I guess x |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you "
Hahahaha.....magic
You forgot,
10;... dealing with woman who wouldn't get a second glance in a pub/club but after months on here of dealing with guys so desperate they would fuck a stab wound in a gorillas who have told them they're gorgeous, they now believe it... |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you
You forgot to mention two things:
1. Cake
2. CJ's
They are the answer to everything. "
I did forget cake, but cj's was implied when I said clubs
I suppose I also forgot to add in to swear allegiance to the war on ducks |
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you
Hahahaha.....magic
You forgot,
10;... dealing with woman who wouldn't get a second glance in a pub/club but after months on here of dealing with guys so desperate they would fuck a stab wound in a gorillas who have told them they're gorgeous, they now believe it... "
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"Guys, let me give you some advice on getting meets.
1, Always "and I do mean ALWAYS" wear a suit
2, Never show a cock pic unless you are VWE because then it's OK
3, Agree with every comment & opinion in the forums made by women, even if you actually disagree or don't like the comment
4, Never EVER have your own opinion! This will only lead to people assuming your an arse not worth meeting & talking about you behind your back & spreading lies & then you need to hear about it from one of your friends on here who also happens to be their friends
5, Be professional, I'm not sure what this one means but I see it alot so must be important
6, Be discreet! I don't think anyone will go screaming from the rooftops about whom they may have met on here but again I see it alot
7, Bend to every whim & desire of the female sex on here
8, Go to clubs & socials even if your not interested in that stuff
9, Never refer to fab as a sex site, even though if you Google "what is swinging" you'll come across info telling you swinging was invented years ago by couples for wife swapping FOR SEX, because you'll be told differently on here
Follow these 9 easy steps and the women shall come crwaling to you "
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