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over a year ago
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I've never had a message like that but it does seem a petty pathetic reason not to meet someone, your meeting the person not everyone that person has met?  |
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"I've never had a message like that but it does seem a petty pathetic reason not to meet someone, your meeting the person not everyone that person has met? "
in a way you are though.It depends on your criteria for meeting. If a prospective meet finds abc acceptable as a person and you cant abide that person by default it means your prospective meet is accepting of people like that. That you would prefer to have no association with. Conversly if you care not a jot and just want sex none of that matters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never had a message like that but it does seem a petty pathetic reason not to meet someone, your meeting the person not everyone that person has met? in a way you are though.It depends on your criteria for meeting. If a prospective meet finds abc acceptable as a person and you cant abide that person by default it means your prospective meet is accepting of people like that. That you would prefer to have no association with. Conversly if you care not a jot and just want sex none of that matters "
kola you lost me at criteria  |
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"I've never had a message like that but it does seem a petty pathetic reason not to meet someone, your meeting the person not everyone that person has met? in a way you are though.It depends on your criteria for meeting. If a prospective meet finds abc acceptable as a person and you cant abide that person by default it means your prospective meet is accepting of people like that. That you would prefer to have no association with. Conversly if you care not a jot and just want sex none of that matters kola you lost me at criteria lol simple terms you look at a profile decide they meet wankers so wont meet them  "
..then the profile owner emphasises the point by starting a thread about how other people criticise their choice of meet....
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People are judgemental all the time... that sometimes means folk judge you on your veri's... who you've met... how many you've met... yes, that may seem hypocritical as we are all here for the same reason but people will still judge others sexual activity and choices... it's just the way it is. It is strange though as you're just as likely to be judged for having none or not showing them... aren't people interesting |
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"People are judgemental all the time... that sometimes means folk judge you on your veri's... who you've met... how many you've met... yes, that may seem hypocritical as we are all here for the same reason but people will still judge others sexual activity and choices... it's just the way it is. It is strange though as you're just as likely to be judged for having none or not showing them... aren't people interesting "
the diffrence I would say is whether you moan about it. Quite sure alot wouldnt meet me because of my abrasive non fluffy comments I simply couldnt care less if they take offence to what I write then they definatly aint the folk for me anyway. |
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"People are judgemental all the time... that sometimes means folk judge you on your veri's... who you've met... how many you've met... yes, that may seem hypocritical as we are all here for the same reason but people will still judge others sexual activity and choices... it's just the way it is. It is strange though as you're just as likely to be judged for having none or not showing them... aren't people interesting the diffrence I would say is whether you moan about it. Quite sure alot wouldnt meet me because of my abrasive non fluffy comments I simply couldnt care less if they take offence to what I write then they definatly aint the folk for me anyway."
Agreed that there is no point in moaning about it as it won't make a whit of difference - I think we all like to discuss it though |
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Almost all my veris are social ones.
They show I'm a good guy to get to know.
I have in the past been told they wouldn't meet me because of who I had met before. I didn't understand that reasoning but accepted it and moved on to those more worthy. |
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Disagree, sorry but I've just had a message from a CD or TV who has been on here for 8months and has 103 verifications all quite explicit. I'm no prude but that too me says something is very wrong, very very wrong. And so I won't meet them. Socials i can understand where you will derive your beloved verifications but 103 in 8months that's not right somehow. |
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